Family & Relationships - 22 April 2007

2007-04-22 23:51:38 · 24 answers · asked by andy 1 in Singles & Dating

Can someone confirm for me that this is messed up reasoning. Ok, so I've decided to turn over a new leaf in my life and be more social etc. (If you see my other q's, you'll see where I'm kinda at in life.)

But um, I'm kinda hesitant to meet up with people or go to events etc. because I feel like I'm not currently very charming or anything like that, plus I'm not in shape etc. So it's a bit of a catch-22 where I'm like, I can't learn to be social until I *am* social, and I'm hesitant to be so until I've lost weight. Which seems like a bit of a vicous circle to me. It's a bit illogical but um, yeah, just confirming that it is a stupid way to decide whether to go out or not.

2007-04-22 23:50:08 · 6 answers · asked by ratherlate 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-22 23:48:48 · 49 answers · asked by cazzieboo 1 in Singles & Dating

my mate becky has a serious BO problem and i dnt know if i should tell her,coz she smokes the smell gets even worse and they all mix togther of BO,urine and smoke.what should i do?ive tld her b4 but she hasnt done anything she sprays a lot but still dnt cover the smell.what should i do?

2007-04-22 23:37:07 · 52 answers · asked by xxashtonxx 2 in Friends

I never been attracted to muslim man, but this muslim man is sooo good looking.

2007-04-22 23:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by Stel 1 3 in Singles & Dating

If u have ever broken up ur friend with a friend whom u loved dearly.. but realised that it was time to move on.
How did u break up ur friend and do u still miss ur friend?
what do u do when u miss ur friend?

2007-04-22 23:32:01 · 10 answers · asked by smile always 2 in Friends

2007-04-22 23:29:41 · 5 answers · asked by eric j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The co-respondent in my divorce case has denied the allegation despite my husband admitting all, well that's after the whole pub were told and there being 2 witnesses the 2nd time. Since then she has been making false and salacious allegations to the police. Her sister recently attacked me, leaving deep marks on my neck and bruising to my arms and head. The police just gave her a warning!! Any help please??

2007-04-22 23:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by LoulouBelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Then says its your own fault for believing them? What do you do?

2007-04-22 23:25:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-22 23:18:28 · 6 answers · asked by princess sandy 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is love so painful, and how so? Describe a situation in which love was overwhelmingly painful?

2007-04-22 23:17:27 · 11 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

Wish me luck I have to see the guy that I like todayand tel lhim how I like him and I am so nervous.

2007-04-22 23:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by I love You 1 in Singles & Dating

Brief story, met a guy around 5 months ago, we gelled right from the start we were like best friends as well as seeing each other. We bonded very very well especially on a intellectual levels we would be up all night talking for hours. But discovered this guy is a classic commitment phobic that finds a relationship a severe threat to his freedom and says that he just isnt ready to settle down yet for his own personal reasons he works long hours during the week and never even really has the chance to see his daughter. I of course wanted a relationship and he suggested that we take a step back and remain only friends (without sex) as he couldnt give me a relationship or any commitments at this present time. He said he feels that I am a very articulate, intellegent, good looking girl with a heart of gold, but just isnt looking for a relationsip at this stage. So we have only remained close friends for the past couple of months -sex has not been involved. Is it ok to keep my options open?

2007-04-22 23:12:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with my now ex today. He is a really good man and I really care for him. It was incredibly painful. I still have deep feelings for another man and i know that i will be able to love again i just didnt feel that i could ever love him (my now ex)enough in that way to make me or him happy. He was a very good man though the type you dont come across very often. Is it normal to feel unsure and remorseful of a decison like this.

2007-04-22 23:09:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To fuc k on the first date? I think it's completely normal but then again I'm a dog.

2007-04-22 23:09:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends Ashley and Victoria told me I have to step my game up with the guy I like but how do I do that.

2007-04-22 23:08:46 · 8 answers · asked by I love You 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend (went out with for 2.5 years, split up 9 months ago) recently decided that he liked one of my friends who I was supposed to be sharing a house with in about a months time.
The two of them are now having some kind of relationship with each other which has affected the friendships between us all.
Its not so much that I mind that he has a girlfriend as I have no interest in him at all in that way but I am still really annoyed about the whole thing. He told me that he would be upset if I were to start dating any of our friends and yet he goes and does it himself!
I'm not sure how to stop feeling so annoyed or even exactly why I feel like that at all!

2007-04-22 23:04:30 · 11 answers · asked by cheeky_delinquent 2 in Friends

I always enjoyed the company of women and always when I walk up to a girl and talk to her they think I am flirting. Why can I have casual conversation with men but not with women?

Reason I ask now is: I am good friends with one of my girlfriend friends and this is causing tension in our relationship because 'i must have subconscious feelings etc...' I do care about this friendship and I don't want to end it because of irrational behavior.

Women please, why do you always think our attraction to you is always physical?

2007-04-22 23:02:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he said he was steaming ( very drunk ) and his mates are sayin it was just a kiss but im not sure?

2007-04-22 22:58:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am just confused about this same sex marriage because I can not find any reason why is it necessary if no children can be born.

I just think it is some biological lack of something, because even chickens have never done this.

2007-04-22 22:56:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 18 yr old is graduating high school in 3 weeks. She has been treating me extremely bad and shows zero respect. She refuses to help out around the house including cleaning up her own messes. Would you kick her out as soon as she graduates even though you know she is not mature enough to handle being on her own??? or would you just put up with the abuse and disrespect because you love her and do not want anything bad to happen to her? I have already put my 16 yr old in a reform school for basically the same problems. She comes home on weekends and acts just terrible. Before you JUDGE me, I am a good parent...not perfect but I try. I love my children very much.....I spend a lot of time with them...I give them everything they need. I have taken away, cell phones,cable tv in their rooms,taken away internet and computer. When they yell and cuss at me, I walk away and go to my room and close the door. I don't yell back. This is making me physically and emotionally ill.

2007-04-22 22:55:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

relating to relationship.

2007-04-22 22:51:36 · 26 answers · asked by goodmindbadboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she asked me down to help her on a computer game she downloaded. its a puzzle game and as she knows i play video games, i could help. even tho i was fed up with her asking me to help her on games i have never played i tried to helps anyways. after i helped, she said " is that the best you can do? in a kinda sarcastic disappointed tone.

Now it makes me break and shout when she always asks me to help on her games. Sure i play video games, but their xbox 360 games and First Person Shooters like Rainbow six vegas and halo. so i kinda shouted at her, spoke my mind and then she really shouts at me calls me a cow and then tries to put guilt on me saying i do alot for you.

She had a tone, she shouted i Tried to help but she just expects that i can help her or i know what do it just cause i play games. WTF.

Whos in he wrong here? Me or her?

2007-04-22 22:49:23 · 2 answers · asked by shadyfridge4 3 in Family

2007-04-22 22:47:12 · 20 answers · asked by alper_uk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Shall i tell everything?
i had phy relation with a boy but he is no more now. now i m going to marry shall i say every thing about my past to my would be??

For this question i have resived ans as no but if my would be will know about my phy relation with him than. Is it possiable that he will know nothing.

2007-04-22 22:40:33 · 8 answers · asked by sona 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if I go to a different state and get remarried befor my 6 months is over will it be legale as long as it is not the same state I got my divorce in?

2007-04-22 22:38:47 · 5 answers · asked by baby_tinney 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He’s known her for a while but has never been more than friends with her. Because he’s a great guy he attracts a lot of people to him, including female friends, but there’s one girl in particular who has recently been expressing interest in being with him. I have spoken with him about her & only recently did he realize just how interested she is in him. Since then he has made sure to have her see us together & hasn’t encouraged her feelings to my knowledge. But she continues to try & make her presence known to him. I’m having a hard time figuring out how to deal with this situation. I’ve talked with him about it already but I feel if I continue mentioning it to him it will really start to seem desperate. I trust him but I do not trust her. I have only met her briefly once & have no real desire to speak with her in the future. What can I do to get her to back off? How can I come across as confident & secure when it’s really bugging me? I want to be able to stop worrying about this.

2007-04-22 22:36:59 · 17 answers · asked by Kalika 1 in Singles & Dating

before 8 years when i started my profession, which is model making of buildings.. after making few i was just started loosing my energy. with not leaving the profession i started searching the reason for the draining of my energy.. i couldn't found something which could gave my energy back but i started saturated with my profession.but i couldnot left it and still being in the same line.. before 3 years i get married in the same situation and because of that troubled state couldn't mke the happy married life and had created family trouble..i have a daughter completing 2 years i love my wife and my daughter.. past one month i came up uae.. and believe it for the same profession.. i just dont know where the silver lining lies.. what is a cresting face for which we strive harder and longer.. i just dont know what is a beautiful family life. just forgot whats a happy sleep and a happy day.. and now as my family is in india i am alone here... i just lost myself i search of a wonderful life.

2007-04-22 22:26:51 · 6 answers · asked by farhan k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He says it's because he's lazy and he seems satisfied with that answer. I know he could do better and he even admits he could do better, but he seems perfectly okay with D's and F's. We have given him consequenses, like no phone privilages for the weekend, etc. but he just looks us in the eye and says, "Okay". I don't know how to explain to him that life in our house is much easier than life in the real world and the consequences for not making any effort get much much worse

2007-04-22 22:26:30 · 14 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

i had phy relation with a boy but he is no more now. now i m going to marry shall i say every thing about my past to my would be??

2007-04-22 22:22:35 · 11 answers · asked by sona 1 in Marriage & Divorce