Family & Relationships - 22 April 2007

i beleive age is just a nmber. it does not reflect your pesonallity or maturity level do u agree?

2007-04-22 12:07:32 · 36 answers · asked by Cassie 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been in Iraq since Sept. But we haven't been intimate since Aug. How do I cope with the hormones! A women has needs too! It's been 8 LONG MONTHS.

2007-04-22 11:51:21 · 17 answers · asked by Army Wife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for 16 years. My husband has hit me for the first time, I kicked him out of the house and he still hasn't said sorry. He's attitude has been very aggressive because he's pist off that i told him to leave. And he hasn't accepted he hit me! He is very mad because i kicked him out of the house. Don't know what i should do, need help!

2007-04-22 11:50:24 · 20 answers · asked by Lola V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do men think that will work?? I KNOW my husband had an affair...Yet he still denies it......WHY IS THIS!!!

............If he tried honesty we might have a chance.....

2007-04-22 11:47:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i was at my locker friday and i droped one of my books i bent down to pick it up and my friend who is a boy started humping me.
all of his friends who r boys started cheering saying stuff like go deep and crap like that i like him but i dont wanna go back 2 school because i affraid what might happen help me plzz

2007-04-22 11:46:45 · 1 answers · asked by volleygurlkbs93 1 in Singles & Dating

My stepson used to live with us. His Dad made him leave our house because he was abusive, messy, inconsiderate and possibly on drugs. He stole from me back then, and he stole from me yesterday.

He has been living with friends for the last 10 months. We found out he was kicked out of thier house and has been living on the streets. On Thursday he called his Dad in terrible trouble. seems that there was an altercation and he was almost stabbed. My husband showed up and the police were involved, so he brought him back home. He looked dirty, unkept, fidgety & angry. It scared me!

On Saturday my husband and I went fishing and left him at our house which I didn't want to do. My husband said I was being paranoid. I decided maybe he was right so I went. My mistake.

We returned, my bedroom had been broken into. My diamond earrings money stamp coin collection & luggage was GONE. We looked for him to no avail. Wanted to file a police report but my husband said they can't do anything.

2007-04-22 11:42:59 · 42 answers · asked by LORI G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I have this friend, and she is SO into herself! It is really quite annoying. She constantly talks about how she went to the mall this day, and the outlet that day, and how she went to Italy last month, and how she has SO much stuff, and blah blah... I mean, it would be totally fine if she wasn't so concieted about it, or if she didn't brag about herself 24/7... and to make things worse, she won't socialize with anyone unless they are dressed with fashionable clothes. Like, one day I wore my track jacket to school, and she didn't talk to me all day, but the next day I dressed normally and she was normal with me again. How do I deal with her??

2007-04-22 11:40:42 · 15 answers · asked by Susan 4 in Friends

My parents were married 61 years!

2007-04-22 11:37:11 · 27 answers · asked by Eudora 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-22 11:35:58 · 9 answers · asked by Eudora 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I believe in style & grace, but I get hit on by guys all the time & its bothersome. Most of the guys are not my type at all.

I'm not going to stop looking trendy & beautiful for no body even if thats the reason why.

Even when I do dress low key, guys want to talk to me randomly while I have a hoodie on top of my head...I mean, COME ON! Do these guys in this neighborhood get any or what?

2007-04-22 11:32:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm really sure i'm pregnant, i'm 18 about to be 19, i've been livin with my boyfriend for over a year now and my mom has always dislike him. My mom has alway told me that she does want to be a grandma till she is 50 which is in 11 years from now i'll be 30 when she is and she stress this fact very much so. She tends to get very long lectures that turn in to yells fights. how do i tell her and aviod a fight with her when she turns every thing in to a fight. I don't belive in abortions and this baby is want very very much.

2007-04-22 11:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by cheese_monster 1 in Family

Is it common if you are in the wedding to have to RSVP for the reception?

2007-04-22 11:25:25 · 16 answers · asked by shaman 4 in Weddings

and didn't admit to it (she's married) until 6 months after you got back together and you and the children were settled into a new home...what would you do? If you told him up-front that if he had been with her (she's a known skank)...you didn't know if you could be with him again and he lied to get you back? Married 15 yrs...4 children at home.

2007-04-22 11:25:21 · 3 answers · asked by luvofrosalitas 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Oh man mine would have to be Italian, brunette, soccer player, jazz lover, green eyes, tall=] what about you?

2007-04-22 11:19:50 · 14 answers · asked by faiza 1 in Singles & Dating

and the things my mother feels she must do,since the age of around 5 or 6 i could remember that my mother would break my toys and tell my dad i did it, this was bad because my dad didn't have to much money at that time and it made me look like i didn't care,as time went on she would hide things and tell him i stole it or sold it, everything i ever had to say about anything she would tell everyone in our family it was all lies and that i was a big problem child, latter on i had a son and my mom would never have anything to do with him and said i spent to much time thinking about that kid,he is 18 now and they have called him maybe 7 times, i'm remarried now to a nice latina girl that i never have seen cry until i left her with my mom for 2 days that my dad and i where gone,she said some really horrable lies, my mom talks very bad about my dad too but i can't bring myself to tell him how bad she really is behind his back, what would you do and what is wrong with my mom?

2007-04-22 11:18:56 · 2 answers · asked by JALISCO 2 in Family

He won't buy himself anything, so I want to suprise him. Which one would you want guys? Money is not an issue here.

2007-04-22 11:17:20 · 13 answers · asked by Ellyn 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-22 11:07:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I helped her set up a Paypal account and she helped me out by sending me some money several months ago through Paypal. Well over the last three months she discovered that someone transferred money out of her paypal account and she thinks it was me. I researched this and found that someone hacked into her account but she still blames me. She is so upset because she doesnt want my stepdad to find out she used his checking account. How do I get it through to her I had nothing to do with this? She called me screaming and yelling wanting to know how I could do this to her. I tried to email her everything so she could see but she is not listening to me. I told her never to call me again if all she was going to do was yell at me and NOT listen to me. I tried to help her but she will NOT listen to any advice I give. She wants me to take the blame and explain it to him that I set up the acct. so my stepdad will be mad at me and not her. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I am 36.

2007-04-22 11:04:44 · 4 answers · asked by Good Girl 2 in Family

Can someone answer this question and give me some detailed reasons why financial compatibility is critical to a successful marriage? Thanks

2007-04-22 10:54:58 · 3 answers · asked by abxamz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes or no please. It's for a survey. Thank you!!

2007-04-22 10:49:10 · 22 answers · asked by katiecski 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-22 10:48:28 · 16 answers · asked by BobbyJoe 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband arnt speaking at the moment , over his sister , she had a baby 3 weeks ago ,2 days after having the baby she was home and her mum went down for a few days to help out , which is a natural thing most mothers will do, anyway my mother in law only came back to her own house on friday, and was telling us that from the day she arrived down to her daughters that she had the baby in her room and was getting up to do all the feeds while the child mother stayed in bed ( the way my mother in law said it was like it was great that she was spending the time with the baby). i just couldnt get my head round this and said it to my husband that i thought that this was wrong and his mother shouldnt of been taking the baby every night as his sister cant be realing on her mother , she has to learn herself in her own way , my husband said i was making a big deal out of this but i was only giving my opinoin and to me its wrong what his sister is doing , she isnt a single parent either.

2007-04-22 10:44:02 · 47 answers · asked by fafandloo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

When we go out to have some drinks, at the end of the night we end up in bed. He knows that I like him, but his excuse is that he's not over his ex and he's not ready to commit again. We been doing this close to a year. When I want to have some action he gives me excuses, I like him alot and I work with him and some times I just feel like quitting my job that I love. I've alway been there since he broke up with his ex.

2007-04-22 10:40:48 · 13 answers · asked by Queen_B_007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-22 10:40:25 · 15 answers · asked by george w 3 in Singles & Dating

Husband & I are close to divorce. He knows I'm houseshopping. He's been making an effort to change and is now helping with chores and the kids. Even spending time with family now. But still acts like a teen at times. I don't think he understands the difference between sex and love. He was always a sex addict (porno mags and internet) but I thought that was done with. Yesterday I was looking for an old shirt for mudbogging and found a mag and 2 dvds. But his fettish is not beautiful models, they are 40DDD in nasty skank sex positions. So I can't let go in my head this fettish. I have tolerated a lot with this topic through the last 10 yrs. But he refuses to grow up and I have. I finally declared "enough," when he would say, "I know you've been running all day with kids and work but will you have time for me tonite? It'll only take a few min. all you have to do is lay there." I don't think the new mags help his case any with me staying in the marriage. Ladies,how'd you feel about this?

2007-04-22 10:38:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am annoyed of my sister. I am 18, she's 17. I try to cover her *** for everything; for instance, I give her money when she needs it because our mom forgets to give my sister allowance, but claims that she (my mother) did give it. I lend her the car because she needs it all the time since 'she has a busy schedule." Basically I feel like her assistant, from doing her laundry to making important phone calls.

Lately I feel restricted in my home. I feel like I can't go out w/o upsetting my mom. My mom is a loner...this is apparent because she never goes out. I feel bad whenever I go out because she's stuck at home. However, when I am at home, my mom starts picking out my flaws like I can not do the laundry, how irresponsible I am, I do not wash the dishes the right way,etc.

I'm annoyed with these two women I live with. I don't know what to do. I can not take it anymore. College was supposed to be my escape, but I have to commute. What do I do? How do I handle the stres

2007-04-22 10:38:12 · 1 answers · asked by Aztec girl 3 in Family

he trys to hide almost ALL drinking and drinks ALLOT......I think? Any resorses I could try/

2007-04-22 10:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, most of us are in love with one person. However, we all can be sexually attracted to more than one person. Very few of us cheat, but it all depends what you call cheating. Fantasizing about someone other than your partner can be called cheating too. So, do you think it is unnatural for people to stay with one partner for entire life, and we are pushed to do so by religion and society?

2007-04-22 10:36:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have had issues since we married. tried counseling and he was the one that admitted he was not ready to get married,so it was hard to commit to someone else but him. he is a good person,but show some bad behavior when we has irritated. he left home twice and came back,etc. this was 2 years ago. For the past 2 years, we were holding on,but never happy. I got a job offer overseas and he asked me to take it and told me he will support me. months later he change dhis mind and said that he wasnt sure. I moved and we kept talking.he came to visit 3 times within 6 months and the last time he really showed he cared about me and really mature. He realized he didnt wanted to loose me when i told him that we had lost lot of time and it was better to get divorced. Eventhought things were great last time, i didnt wanted to tell him to move right away again. I even felt pressured &felt i wanted to meet more people before taking a decision. am i wrong?

2007-04-22 10:34:04 · 5 answers · asked by confuse06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i read somewhere that sex is the backbone of a marriage.....
how would u react if for some reason ur partner couldn't perform, would u carry on in this relationship or would u break up even if everthing else was perfect in this relationship?

2007-04-22 10:26:55 · 47 answers · asked by Butterfly 3 in Marriage & Divorce