Family & Relationships - 22 April 2007

and he is really nice and sweet and hes a good friend of mine but i like him like him but i know he likes me as a friend and i dont know if he actally likes me like i like him so should i ask him out or should i wait it out

2007-04-22 09:26:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ever since she's gotten this boyfriend 2 years ago she has changed in to a maga *****. not so much to me but just a *****. then he broke up with her after they moved out of their apartment into his parents basement and all because he was tired of her but yet she still hung around and lived there after they broke up. then the re hooked up as he was still cheating on her. i have listen to her cry her heart out over this guy and now she's being a ***** to me telling me to not worry about what her brother is doing with other girls, when her brother is dating my roomie who is one of my best friends... i am NOT jeouls of them at all... so how do i tell her to knock her **** off and quit thinking she's the queen of the world?

2007-04-22 09:24:26 · 1 answers · asked by krazykroaky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy, fat, ugly, disgusting, is continously bothering me...he does disgusting things like he chewed my pen...laughs with his friends..he is making me feel awkward and a loser...my friends are the other end of the class...and I don't know how to react...he is making me feel awkward with the boy I like whos sitting like close...and if arleady thinks I'm a loser...

I feel a shy loser in that class when in other classes I'm outgoing ...
thats the only class I have with the boy I like and this guy ruining it all...he is also mean...he talks bad about me with other guys...he even has a gf!
how come I do not have a bf....
I'm way better than him...
awww...help me

2007-04-22 09:24:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, there's this guy that i have a crush on and he's really shy and i mean shy he has given me signs he might like me but i need some help in knowing if he likes me! help, please?

2007-04-22 09:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well one of my friends is relly really shy. She can't even raise up her hand in class because she is so shy. People think she is really weird and rude because when people try to be nice to her she doesn't know how to respond, she just looks away. She doesn't say hi to anyone and if soemone asks her something she just shrugs her shoulders and walks away. But i have gotten to knnow her and she isn't that bad. It's just that I want to help her be moree friendly and at least try to loosen up a bit. What should i do to help her?? Any suggestions or should i just leave her alone and let people walk all over her?

2007-04-22 09:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was married for 8 years, I've never cheated or betrayed a women before. It's complicating but i love my wife even when she cheated on me i forgave her for all the wrong things she has done. Time and time again she walks out of my life and she cant live without me and as well as i cant live without her. She recently divorced me months ago. And when that all happen i was so majorly depressed i fell into a relapse memory which i dont remember a whole part of my life. I thought i was 17 and didnt even knew i had a son. I fell in love with another Girl when i couldnt recall anything.Until only then i had my memory back and im in a delimma of confusion. My love for my ex-wife goes beyond love itself, I've bled for her done everything i could and i never gave her any less. She's been thru hell for me it drove her insane. The other is young she's 18 and im like 24. She's sweet and all that is merry but lacks commitment and undergoes curfews,and she lies to her parents to see me.

2007-04-22 09:20:34 · 6 answers · asked by Lawrence 2 in Marriage & Divorce

times a day. My friends say this seem like he is insecure or needy. Been together 4 months.

2007-04-22 09:20:18 · 14 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it okay to just go around in different groups requesting people you dont know to be your friend? Than when you have over 100 friends and majority of them dont even reply back..no matter how pallite your message is? "ugh" it frustrate me when a person doesnt reply back to my message...but quick to reply back to another person message. Whats the point of myspace..I thought it was a place for making new friends meeting people...but how can you make friends when people never reply back to anything you send...you just a number on their friend list!?!

2007-04-22 09:20:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am significantly overweight (ok, I'll admit it, obese, but I am fairly tall, carry well, and losing- I'm not a member of the yo-yo dieters club).

I have been talking to a guy online (not some random guy, I know him through a friend) however, we have never met in person. Based on what we talk about he has said I'm the type of girl he wants to spend the rest of his life with- so intellectually it is going really well.

I am nervous about meeting him (I think he might come down this summer). He hasn't asked how I look yet (I use a 3D chat, so it isn't the typical first question).

So the point- how much weight (or overweight) is alright to be physically attractive.

*note: please be honest, I know alot of well meaning guys will want to say it doesn't matter, especially if he likes me this much already. I would still like a ball park area for what you still find attractive.*

2007-04-22 09:18:38 · 17 answers · asked by christina 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 16. I am pretty all over but my forehead. Boys don't really try to date me. I have even thought about having sex to get them to like me. I haven't done it yet but I'm thinking about it. I am just really down and I think that surgery will help me.

2007-04-22 09:18:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-22 09:15:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is my challenge- I am an adult, and live with my Mom and step dad. Among other reasons, I have OCD, which has delayed my ability to gain independence. But now, I am at a point where I can venture forth on my own.

My parents are good Christian people, and I love them very much. But they are unwise with money matters. I have had to loan, give, and grant them a lot of money recently, since my Mom is involved in a lawsuit with her former employer. She also has Carpal Tunnel in both wrists. My step dad makes very little income. I am looking for a new job.

How can I assertively approach my parents, and tell them that I am going to start saving my money in two months from now? I need to, for many reasons. I need to get married to my girlfriend, I need to move out, I need a new car, etc.

They keep telling me and lecturing me about how "It takes money to live." I realize that, but I need to start saving funds for my future.

How can I assertively explain my needs to them?

2007-04-22 09:15:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend of 2years cheated on me and i broke up with him... we remained friends and about 1 1/2 months after we broke up 1 of my guy friends asked me to go hang out with him and his friend and his friends gf, i decided i should get out for once. my ex found out. a long story short he ramed the car i was in to get me not to go... hes geting put in jail for a year, should i wait? i really love him, what should i do?

2007-04-22 09:15:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-22 09:14:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey, I met this girl at church 5 weeks ago. We have hung out a few times and I went to her house for easter dinner to meet her parents. I asked her on 2 dates before and she said yes both times but then told me she was not ready for a date so I told her that I could wait as long as she needed to wait and I had no problem with it...Lately she has been acting a little weird, been getting on messenger and saying BRB and not coming back. Also I am always the one that has to intiate the coversation or we dont talk at all and I am a shy guy so thats not always easy for me to do.....Two of her friends have asked me if I liked her and I told both of them yes. The one I just told said they would talk to her to see why she is acting so weird, and I told them dont pressure her cause thats the last thing I want. She has never been in a relatinship before so i dont want to scare her off or anything. But I like her so much and I dont want this oppurtunity to pass.

2007-04-22 09:14:05 · 4 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Singles & Dating

i heard that at some bars where older women like to hang out 35+ years and a younger man walks in maybe in his early to mid 20's then the women will go crazy. why is this? would it be easier for a younger man to get an older woman for a fling?

2007-04-22 09:13:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is about my friend anne* who just lost it last week to a random guy at a party and says she doesnt regret it because 'sex is no big deal and your first time is going to be bad anyways so it might as well be with a stranger'. i dont know, i kind of think what anne did was a little skanky and so do some of our other friends. anne got all pissed off at me b/c i said she shoudlnt have done it and she said i was a prude. im so mad at her! whose side do you take?

(**anne isnt her real name)

2007-04-22 09:12:06 · 2 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Singles & Dating

My two sisters, my mom, and my dad has all talked behind my boyfriends back and he is really upset about it. My family doesn't think they should say sorry because they didn't say it to his face. But i don't think talking behind someones back is right. My family thinks that i was wrong to tell him what they said and they say its my fault for telling him. But i don't think its right to keep things from my boyfriend and let him hang out with people that talk bad behind his back without him knowing. Do you think they should say sorry because they think they don't need to say sorry they want to just act like nothing happened.

2007-04-22 09:08:22 · 13 answers · asked by Elley 2 in Family

I have a small breast, I mean toooooo small. The only time they were big was when I was pregnant. I want big breast (not so big that they looked whorish or fake), should I get implants or not. Do majority of the guys like big breast or small?

2007-04-22 09:00:40 · 15 answers · asked by Lady_Sweets82 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you get a guy to like you when he is to nervous to look at you or stand near you....?

2007-04-22 09:00:03 · 16 answers · asked by i l o v e y o u ! 2 in Singles & Dating

This semester I met this really awesome young lady in my Stats 208 class(my dumb questions and non understanding of Stats spawned a relationship bt us) At first I thought she liked me becuased she'd always look my way when I ask a question in class. Also she would say hi to me even before I ever said anything to her. Well through talking to her I found out that she's maybe just really friendly to people and she has a BF in the Army. I respect the fact she has a BF, and I think she's an awesome girl! She's like one of the guys, only downside is she's fine and sexy! I'm stuck at a crossroad has the semester comes to a close. I really want to become better friends with her because she's so honest and straight forward. But I still think about how attractive she is although she trys to be modest about it. what should I do? I don't want to be friends for the wrong reasons!

2007-04-22 08:51:07 · 3 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Singles & Dating

well im 5ft and all the boys take the mick out of my height. and this guy i like wont go out with me because he says im too small. so do you think guys like short or tall girls?

2007-04-22 08:47:16 · 20 answers · asked by rockstaromg1256 2 in Singles & Dating

oke im kinda stupid. and my friends who are guys are always telling me that boys think its really hot/cute when a girls stupid. but i think thats really weird cause like wouldnt you want a girl whos really smart. so is that true

2007-04-22 08:43:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

T and I have been best friends since we were 18. Even though there was always an attraction, neither of us persued it since we were both a little, shall we just say, wild and carefree. Our mutal friends had often refered to us as "the King and Queen whores of babylon". There were numerous nights throughout our friendship when we would sit up nights discussing our latest "conquests". We both married and divorced other people and neither of us was faithful during our marriage. Then about a year ago we started dating and everything has been realy good, we never argue, hardly disagree and always communicate well. The problem is that I think we know each other too well. Sometimes i have a hard time trusting him and I worry that he's going to do the same thing to me that he did to his ex. And i know for a fact that he gets jealous of me with some of my male friends. I have been faithful since we got together, but I dont know about him. What should i do?

2007-04-22 08:38:31 · 2 answers · asked by Gypsy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm not i was just wondering what you all think?????

2007-04-22 08:31:43 · 21 answers · asked by BscHons 6 in Singles & Dating

My parents make comments about how I do not spend money. They say that I should be spending more money on myself on vacations, clothes, etc. I don't spend according to my earning power according to them.

My mom says I don't dress like I should for my job. I work as an Accountant.

I feel bad about their comments. I am looking for my own place to live. I am looking for a permanent job and when that finalizes (it should be soon), I will move out.

In the meantime, how do I deal with their comments? I try not to tell them too much about my interviews, etc because they question me about the company, etc.

Any suggestions...

2007-04-22 08:31:14 · 6 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I was at a party with my three friends. ones a brunette. ones a blonde and ones auburn and im a redhead. We were sitting round a table. the blonde was with her boyfriend and they were lost in their own world. Me and the brunette were sitting chatting to these two guys. although the blonde only said about three words to the guys they all said afterwards that she was the one that they would most like to get with. I dont understand! Do boys only see whats on the surface. And before i get any harsh comments about what i look like and her being hotter: she is blonde blue eyed bony not attractively skinny tall not particularly pretty covered in make up not fashionable and really mean and annoying and unoriginal. im not gunna say im perfect but i thought i was a nicer person than her and im not uglly so i dont get it. is it all about the surface looks?! please tell me your opinion. dont be mean =-]]
Emmii X

2007-04-22 08:26:43 · 12 answers · asked by EmmiStar.X 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-22 08:24:38 · 16 answers · asked by king24_93 1 in Friends

mean to me?

2007-04-22 08:17:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-22 08:14:22 · 87 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings