Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

I am a 23 year old girl and I am getting married next year, i love my fiance to bits and cant wait to be married to him. I have been with him for 6 years and we have a healthy sex life/good fun and we are best friends, but....i recently went out with my pals from work and for some drunken reason i gave a guy my phone number! He has been texting me and knows i am in a relationship but turns out he's a really nice guy and a good laugh so we have agreed to be friends. I have met him for a drink on 2 occasions since and both times we have ended up kissing. I like the attention and he is really sweet but i know i wouldn't have a relationship with this kind of guy long term.

I think maybe i am freaking out about getting married so young and just need one last little fling before I tie the knot - or am I being a total cow by doing this behind by fiance's back????

2007-04-19 23:55:41 · 67 answers · asked by Sophia 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a girl and she too loves me. But the problem is that before this relationship, we treated each other as brother sister. But that happened for a month and the affection for each other developed into a wish to live with each other forever. The problem is that I have told my parents about our old relationship one year ago and haven't discussed about our desire to marry. I know they won't agree if I put my point before them to marry her. Though some friends also know only about old relationship but then I don't care about them and they are not going to with me in my life. Please tell me what should be done to move ahead in this relationship?

2007-04-19 23:55:22 · 9 answers · asked by gail s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 23:54:09 · 1 answers · asked by gasparin 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyf of 3 yrs refuses point blank to give me a peck on the cheek or mouth let alone give me a cuddle if i visit him at work. He says its very unproffessional and doesnt think its right especially in front of his colleagues. He is a Manager & works for a big store.

I have argued this on numerous occasions saying its fine to greet your partner without having tongues going down throats, just a peck is a nice greeting but he still wont do it.

All he does is say hello, wont even touch me.

His colleagues all know of me & know we are an item. He has showed me off as his girl many times as if im a trophy or something, so he is definitely NOT ashamed of me!

However ive noticed he greets his work colleagues with a peck on the cheek?!!

We are a great couple and very much in love.

Is there any method to this madness? Is he right? He says i should just get used to it. Im having trouble trying to understand his mind, and tend to feel like im in a loveless relationship!

Help

2007-04-19 23:54:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi..

This is a wee question for the Boys.. although ladies feel free to help me out.. you might have a clearer idea of whats going wrong than me and my fellow buddies...

Im 22.. attractive (well, we know when we are right : P)Fun.. up for anything..have loadsa intrests and ambitions and great friends! god..all that sounds pig headed but believe me.. its honest!
Been in a handful of relationships that ment anythin in the past.. but im having a bit of bother these days...

I was with this guy.. lets call him Neil.. for 6 months on and of till February.. and now i feel id really like to start something meaningful again with someone..
But the kinda guys i seem to attract are totally non comittal, way too young..(most my age) and clueless on how to jus generally be with a girl!

Im probely looking in the wrong places as the majority of times i meet these guy when im hammerd on a weekend.. but im a bit of a party girl.. Im trying to calm that down a lil now.

Thanks guys
xxx

2007-04-19 23:52:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 23:51:42 · 11 answers · asked by Violet K 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met this guy, unattached, caring, educated and gentle...After knowing each other for quite some time, i was surprise one day when he said that he missed me and liked me very much... People say his a good guy and not the player type... In the end, i became attracted to him too... Now, i'm just wondering why isn't he asking me out.... Yes, he's very busy but too busy to spend time with you? Is this guy being honest with his remark or just fooling around? i'm confused...

2007-04-19 23:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by SushiGurl 3 in Singles & Dating

some mates i really cnt trust sent posters round skol said that im preg. with a boy i hardly knw nd im willing 2 give them a second chance,but dnt knw if its the right thing 2 do.should i give them another chance or not?

2007-04-19 23:45:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

yeasterday i found out that i was pregnant and i told my bf today and he broke up with me we have been dating for 2 years do you think he just needs to handle things

2007-04-19 23:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u have passion, u have an ambition, business or acadenic or watever. u face few dificulties and struggling a bit. now istead of encouraging u, ur family tells u to give up, tell u, how dat is not gonna work. they tell u how its been too long trying dat and things. is it love,pity, protection or wat?

2007-04-19 23:41:50 · 10 answers · asked by kau la poo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-19 23:41:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

John* and I have been on and off for a while now. The first time we broke up was maybe 6 months ago. A fortnight or so after we broke up, we started getting close again. He would always say Hi, call my name and tap me on my shoulder and smile his beautiful smile. I couldnt help falling back in love with him.
After a month of this, he started to ignore me, and whenever I would look at him and ask a question, he would look away and give me extremely short answers, like he didnt want to talk to me. Then, next month, he would be nice and sweet and flirty again. The same month, he asked me out, and I accepted. During the time we were going out, he started being mean again. After one week, we were over..again. Then after 2 weeks or so, he started to text me, to instant message me thing like "ur so cute" etc etc. He would help me with my homework, and phone me at night.
A week after being nice to me. He started to ignore me agn. He would hug girls and flirt with them in front of me. Help!

2007-04-19 23:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

EXPERIENCES AND KNOWLEDGE AM i asking too much to just say thank u YAHOO?.

2007-04-19 23:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i recently split from my boyfriend and posted a question on how to deal with a self esteem issue, in which i said that my ex was controlling,yes he had those tendencies but i think it came across as though i was not able to even breath, i think i was angry at the situation and had just focused on that to help me deal with the split,
I was with him for 3 yrs and he brought many good things in to my life, it was a regular relationship with up's and down's, and our downs became too much for me and effected my self esteem, so i apologise to anyone who answered me thinking i was an abused woman! and to him if he ever sees this x

2007-04-19 23:34:13 · 12 answers · asked by maid marion 2 in Singles & Dating

her husband also complains the same thing. poor fellow.

2007-04-19 23:31:32 · 24 answers · asked by comrade 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a 17-year-old boy and keen to help others. But some of them don't perfer to be helped by others but to solve problems independently. What should I do? And it lead to my another question. Shall I seek help from my friends? Does it mean I'll look more independent if I don't seek help from them or politely don't accept their help? If so, what shall I do if I feel stressed because of too many school works or some more worries? Shall I hide them deep inside or to talk to them? People always say we can always find friends to talk to, but what if they feel a little bit disturbed if I talk to them too much about this? Who can tell me which way is better? Tell them or don't tell them?

2007-04-19 23:30:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Am with this girl that so wonderful and I feel great when am with her.I know I fallen inlove with her but shes worry about my family that does not like her at all .she says if your family does not like me whats the point in been together? I tried to make her understand that shes gonna be with me not them and that they will have to accept her regardless of how they feel about her due to the fact that this is the woman that I want to be with .
Shes a very joyful lady,very sociable,cheerful and friendly and may be what my family does not like is that shes 25 and enjoys to go out and have fun wich I have no problem what so ever about it. I feel that there is nothing I can say to her except that i will be behind her 100% regardless what my family says and that i will love her forever and ever.what do you all think i should do?...

2007-04-19 23:30:16 · 8 answers · asked by s374rc 2 in Singles & Dating

so i work with this girl. i really liked her cople of months ago. seemed like she was intrested in me as well. so i asked her out. but it didn't work, second tme she said she was bussy. she only started talking about "work realated" things.
so i backed off. juz try to be frnds with her and a good co-worker. and i try to forget that she turned my offer down. i was cool. on her b-day last month. i drew a flower on a paper, n wrote "HB-day" and since then, i noticed, she been trying to be sweet with me, nice, and been showing some real intrest in me..

i would still go out with her. so i wanna know how can i ask her out AGAIN? cuz i got turned down twice before. she's bein ratehr obvious about liking me but still i'm scared.

how should i ask her out now? What do i say?

2007-04-19 23:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by S. 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm about to leave my 17 year marriage mainly because my husband has no intention of stopping his affairs. Truth is, I really don't want to leave. We don't fight and we are good friends. I feel like I must leave though, otherwise I'll be constantly living in fear of catching an STD, and I need to get some self-respect back. I feel very resentful about leaving because I love him, he's been my husband for my entire adult life. It almost feels like I'm punishing myself for his affairs by kicking myself out of my own home and leaving a man who's always stood by me. I don't know whether these feelings are normal or not. Has anyone else been there? Thanks

2007-04-19 23:29:24 · 12 answers · asked by Lochie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a year younger than a girl...could they still go out with each other? (date)

2007-04-19 23:27:37 · 16 answers · asked by Taylor 2 in Singles & Dating

I chickened out at my own supposed wedding. I'm still in a daze thinking why oh why i backed out. The guy and i are no longer together.

2007-04-19 23:23:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The person that we know we can't have, more then anyone we can have?

2007-04-19 23:18:04 · 21 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

A girl 11 years my junior is interested in me. I'm early 30's. I've already made it clear I'm not interested, but everytime I talk to her makes her think that I somehow am. We are a part of an entertainment group so I can't avoid her. I don't want to cause a scene as she tends to pout. I also don't want to be nasty. She sometimes acts as if she owns me, as when I first joined we were coupled up for a few things. Last week she got all stroppy when she thought I complimented another lady, when I didn't, so her imagination is ticking as well. I need a way to do this where we can still communicate in a civil way. Everything I've tried just keeps her coming for more, even when I'm stern, makes her more into me. It's gotta stop but minus the drama, so I need a female perspective. How do I get her to leave me alone, and without lying, like saying I have a girlfriend?

2007-04-19 23:17:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i slept with my beautiful cousin a week before her wedding day
but it happened in spain i was there for her wedding and she said to me that she finds me attractive and she started showing me around the city and plaza and she started holding but once i went off to bed an hour later she came to the room and got in bed with me and started kissing around my neck i told her to go away i even pushed her off the bed and she still insisted and i got tired of pushing her off so she started to undress and i decided to go ahead and give in so we had sex that night and 2 days before her wedding but i wore a condom once and i pulled out and she went oral on me. anyway what should i do i feel that i should go and say something to my mom.
my cousin i slept is my mothers cousins daughter was it nasty to do her in my part?

2007-04-19 23:16:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, im wre-writing my question.

My husband and I had sex during the days that I was supose to be ovulating, but I dont know much about how it goes. We had sex on the 8th day of my 26 day cycle and on the 11th day. On the 11th day, during sexy ALOT of clearish, white, stretchy cervicle mucus came out and then the very next day clear, almost like water came out of me. What does that mean? Also, when he came inside of me none of it came back out. Does that mean that I might take? thank you

2007-04-19 23:15:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My girl friend has just decided to leave me beause I couldn't convert to Muslim. I am a christian and we have been together for seven years. She said she has waited for me this long hoping I would convert to Muslim. Now I am feeling very lone and so much depressed. I have not had any girl friend before. she was my first and I always wished she would be my last but it didn't work that way.
Would you please confront me with your words........?

2007-04-19 23:14:58 · 16 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Singles & Dating

My lover of five years has just asked me to be his girlfriend, finally, after some hardships we went through. We were together last year, but some **** happened, and we ended up lying to each other a lot, and we lost each others trust. He has finally decided that he can work things out with me, but he is still hurt from the things I did to him. I want to show him that he can trust me, that I am not the type of girl I used to be. I want him to see that I have changed for the better for him. What is the best way to go about doing this, to make him see that he can trust me again, and that it is okay for him to truly love me again? What would also be some good ideas to do with him, to spice things up? We have been together for five years, exclusively, and we have done pratically everything there is to do in san antonio. Any good date ideas too?

2007-04-19 23:14:36 · 5 answers · asked by Francesca O 1 in Singles & Dating

Things like talk to loud at night, leave the toilet seat up, slam the door, not clean up after themself, too many people over, leave all the lights on... stuff like that and more.... what irritates you? I'm trying to win a bet with my roomie.

2007-04-19 23:10:14 · 6 answers · asked by Mic 2 in Friends

Since breaking up with my Ex, I'm not sure I want to start dating again but want a companion, how do I go about a relationship like this?

2007-04-19 23:01:06 · 5 answers · asked by Ed S 2 in Singles & Dating

I develop a crush over someone I meet online, but never over anyone in real life. of course I keep my mouth shut becasue I feel like a real idiot.
If I can manage to get over the person, then like two weeks later I'm either falling for them again, or Someone else if I can last a few months.) plus It really screws with my head, becasue I can't never seem to stop thinking about whoever it is at the time.

-It's nothing to do with looks, becasue they never really bothered me. everyone I've met socially I find to be an asshole in some way.(-plus- I've never even seen their picture and don't really need to.)
-Don't tell me to go get laid, because I really don't feel the need to be aimlessly f*cking someone I know I don't actually like. It's never bothered me before.

So... Throw me some opinions, guys.
I don't even know these people and they're barely even considered online-friends.

2007-04-19 22:56:01 · 6 answers · asked by phyrdraka 1 in Singles & Dating