Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

I have had it with his slovenly ways, I simply cannot bare them any more. That combined with his deceitfull nature and lack of interest in ANY thing besides television. I am alone in the house for 12 hours every day, 5 days a week and dread week ends .
I only had a bad back when I made this move to this situation but now my heatlh suffers severly. I feel this situation is taking me down physically, moraly and mentally. If I dont get out I fear I will end up a lunatic. I have knowledge of my rights to force sale of property and take my half and go my way (half or more) but im so run down mentally I dont think I can do it. I am in some serious need of some help. And no, I dont have any one who can help me as far as family or friends. The either dont want anything to do with it or just cant due to other reasons. I dont want to continue with this, its killing me... What shalll I do?

2007-04-19 13:17:20 · 4 answers · asked by lindalainey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 13:15:34 · 39 answers · asked by bob z 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who you can say is "bad". She doesnt put effort into anything and she's a pothead/ alcholic. She is also a little promiscuous. Overall, she is a great person and she is my friend. I love her. Recently she got in a car accident where she was flown to the hospital and the passenger was dead at the scene. The passenger happened to be her mother. My question: How come horrible things happen to people who arent necessarily "good". God's punishment???

2007-04-19 13:15:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-19 13:14:34 · 11 answers · asked by masonv80 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that I can tell cares about me but ius rude, spiteful, and malice! It takes a lot to make me mad at someone (ecspecially my friends)but she is reaching my very limits (and no she doesnt have a crush on me!) So what do I do! Please I would prefer Christian answers on this issue thanks a lot and God Bless!

2007-04-19 13:13:16 · 8 answers · asked by AtcyJAC 2 in Friends

If a guy is into you? Everyone thinks that he does, and we hang out a bit. Mainly when we see each other. There's a trip that we're both going on next week and I promised him that we would hang out. Problem is we talk to each other a lot, we're in some of the same classes, and I want to know if he likes me. I mean we can't keep quiet for more than about 2 seconds, without laughing or talking. He's happy to help me with anything that he can. Honest answers please!

2007-04-19 13:13:10 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im stuck! i have a crush but hes kinda bad,i cant get them out of my head! i need the love police to come help

2007-04-19 13:05:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi All,

I was just looking for some advice on Bath and Body Products. I want to buy some Bath and Body works products for my bridal party. I am from Canada but I have close access to a bath and body works store. I have never shopped there before so I am not sure what is good and what is bad. If anyone can provide me with some of their favourite things from there perhaps it can help to give me a better idea of what to get. I have checked out there website and it looks like they have a lot of interesting things, but a better idea of actual real peoples tastes would be greatly appreciated.

2007-04-19 13:05:23 · 12 answers · asked by ventity325 4 in Weddings

there is this girl i really want to ask to prom. I don't really know her that much but we both know that each other exists,Even though we don't reallly know each other that much we still enjoy each other's company and we're friends.

but I found out that another dude was gonna try to ask her out. and through a blabbermouth, HE found out that i might ask her tommrow... which means that he's probably gonna do his best to get to her first before i can tommarow. there are some possiblities

HE might try to ask her during their ap lit session TONIGHT... meaning that if i was to ask her tommarow like he thinks i am... he beat me to it..

BUT

this is really sudden and he probably got nothing prepared. so he might try asking her tomarrow asap.. meaning i am going to have to beat him to it... so no long scavenger hunt. just direct and simple but cute in still some way..

if he is waitng in her 1st period i have to wait at her house before she leaves it. beat him to it. So what should i do?

2007-04-19 13:04:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love him
but i found out
that he thinks my best friend is hot!
and i dont know what to do!
because I Like HIM!

SHOULD I CHEAT ON HIM!?!?!

2007-04-19 13:00:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need something other than the typical classical slow music for the bridal party and me the bride to walk out to. I m not askin for like today's top music, but i just want something not so dull or drab any websites that might help will be greatly appreciated. and if it helps we listen to a lot of rock/heavy metal music but i dont want to walk out to a heavy guitar rift. Do you get what im saying becuase i think im being a lil confusing, message me if you have any questions. thanks

2007-04-19 13:00:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i slept with this girl like about 5 years ago and we were like boyfriend/girlfriend for like 1 month but then i dumped her. I told her that i wanted to concentrate on my career. We have only had email contact over the years and now she is scaring me - calling my house saying she will commit suicide if i dont get back with her. She knows where i live, im worried she will harm me or my family. She says that i led her on by saying that i will get back with her after all this time. I didnt want to hurt her by saying its over i thought that she would get the message if i stopped ringing her. I have never been bad to her.

2007-04-19 12:57:00 · 23 answers · asked by Pauly P 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf is on disability. I supported him for a year so that he could get it. He can work PT, and make a little. He is extremely inconsistent in ability. He asked me if he got a house carers position and I accepted salary for paper work (and job title) then we could do this (with him doing the physical work--his disability is not physical). I said No. I thought it was unethical. I felt like he was trying to get me to do a job "for" him, rather than with him. I don't know if this makes sense. It felt wrong to me. It is not a job in my field, and I don't take it lightly that it would be "in my name",. He got REALLY mad and froze me out for awhile and I had a migraine, couldn't sleep. Am I being unreasonable? I have no idea whether I am being totally weird. Would any of you feel uncomfortable with this? He said the salary could help me and I could still do what I want. It isn't something I want to do.

2007-04-19 12:55:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So this guy that I make a TON of eye contact with seems to try to be sneaky...like when I walk past him he looks behind his shoulder when I am looking behind mine to sneak a peek at each other. And today, I caught him staring at me and when I turned around, he quickly (and quite obviously) turned his head around. Why does he do this if we both look at each other anyway?

2007-04-19 12:52:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1 guy I know tells the women he is using them for sex. He always has a woman.

1 guy I know has 3 girlfriends and they all know abotu each other.

1 guy I know treats women like crap and always has a woman.

What is the problem here? Do women like being treated this way? Is this what I should do?

2007-04-19 12:51:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 12:50:20 · 1 answers · asked by Miiyae(me i ya) 2 in Singles & Dating

Let me give the background. 7 months ago my wife left me for no apparent reason. We were together for 5 yrs, married for 1. Its been tough but I have managed to get over her for the most part. I have been dating a new woman for the past 2 months and I think she is great. She has told me (at the beginning) how great she thinks I am, how attracted she it to me...etc. She made me feel on cloud nine. We like all the same things and even have the same faith. Last week however, she freaked out one day and told me she was scared she was in another relationship. Since then she has been cold and distant. She told me she was worried since I am still legally married till June and want to "Slow" things down. I was cool with that but my definition of slow must be different then hers. Is "slow" an excuse to get out of this new relationship? She sure seemed fine with me being married a few weeks ago when we were kissing everyday. Ladies is she feeding me a line or should I be patient with her? Thanks

2007-04-19 12:49:00 · 6 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Singles & Dating

Who here knew what career they wanted to do from early on? Who here never figured it out or is still trying? Who here thinks this is all bullsh** and you just work to get a paycheck not find fullfillment? Ages please, I'm 35 mom of three happy with the family but lost lost lost when it comes to figuring out what type of career to focus on. Just wondering how much company I have out there.

2007-04-19 12:48:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well the question pretty much covers it but how do you guys flirt with us girls? Please!! I really need this!

2007-04-19 12:48:22 · 8 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

i met my husband at age 15. moved in together 17. have 2 children 14 & 8. own business together. this last year we have had a very rough go at things. it seams we dont have much in common anymore. sort of like saying we pass in the halls, eat, have sex and that is it. we have a vacant rental home couple blocks apart and were thinking if trying it apart for few months would bring love back into relationship. yes we work together everyday, but i was thinking maybe somewhat of dating would bring good times back and we would grow closer to each other. we have full basement that could be used also, but i wondered if that was not a big enough distance to make a change this time. working on it in same house hasnt seemed to work this past year. changes start but dont follow thru.

2007-04-19 12:47:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a little to shy to just up and ask a cute guy to date me or even talk to me, so I need y'all's advice!

2007-04-19 12:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a boyfriend but im in love with this other guy. I used to flirt with the other guy until i found out he liked me back. to test how he really felt we made a stupid childish little bet that if he kissed me on the lips i would give him $10. well after school we were joking around until he put his arm around me and kissed me so... so... softly.(the most amazing kiss you could give somebod) does that meand im cheating on my boyfriend i mean i wanted that kiss but not that much. am i a cheater i dint think he would do it really plz help.

2007-04-19 12:46:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

C'mon...be honest,at least once in your life!!!!!!

2007-04-19 12:45:43 · 26 answers · asked by DEZ 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know so I know what to talk about when I'm around girls.

2007-04-19 12:42:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I has been almost 3weeks...3WEEKS!...since me and my bf have made out! What's happening...me and him were sitting in my room on my bed...my parents were asleep in the living room he decides he wants to watch harry potter...HARRY MOTHER FREAKING POTTER...if I were a guy all I would do w/ the girl I am supposed to love is make out...either he must really like me or I'm really bad at it...but I don't think it is the 2nd one b/c when we did make out he said I was really good and he most definalty wasn't lieing...so what's the dilly-o!!!! I is it me? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-19 12:42:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a guys opinion, what is the hottest thing a girl could wear to please you before sex?

2007-04-19 12:39:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in my bible study claas hes so cute! he always stares at me and smiles at me and he like bumpeed in to me one day . does he like me he like in 6th or 7th grade im in 5th about 4 foot 11 and he like 5 foot 3 girls and guys i nedd advice and what are some signs that he likes me ?

2007-04-19 12:39:29 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

He is a friend
i dont really want people to hate me when i turn him down. WHAT DO I DO?

2007-04-19 12:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by sno 1 in Singles & Dating

At school, I have a lot of friends, but outside of school, I'm a real no where man; I don't see anyone outside of school. I mean, people don't invite me to do stuff with them and I don't think I have any really close friends. any suggestions? am I supposed to ask people to hang out with me outside of school (if so, how well should I know them?)? I think, also, I'm a bit confused as to how I can tell if someone's like a really good friend of mine or something like that.

2007-04-19 12:36:35 · 3 answers · asked by lama-assassinator3240 2 in Friends

Well I have been very happily married for almost seven years. My husband just left me 11 days ago. He says in the last month or two he hasnt been happy. I do not understand this, because he has seemed just fine. He refuses to see a counsellor and I know this is not another woman. Can anyone offer advice?

2007-04-19 12:36:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce