there is this girl i really want to ask to prom. I don't really know her that much but we both know that each other exists,Even though we don't reallly know each other that much we still enjoy each other's company and we're friends.
but I found out that another dude was gonna try to ask her out. and through a blabbermouth, HE found out that i might ask her tommrow... which means that he's probably gonna do his best to get to her first before i can tommarow. there are some possiblities
HE might try to ask her during their ap lit session TONIGHT... meaning that if i was to ask her tommarow like he thinks i am... he beat me to it..
BUT
this is really sudden and he probably got nothing prepared. so he might try asking her tomarrow asap.. meaning i am going to have to beat him to it... so no long scavenger hunt. just direct and simple but cute in still some way..
if he is waitng in her 1st period i have to wait at her house before she leaves it. beat him to it. So what should i do?
2007-04-19 13:04:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww! That is so sweet! Yes, the best thing for you to do is just ask her first even if it means RIGHT now. *It is not about the speed however of who asks her first, but who she will say yes to first.* Who knows, maybe she might reject him, and when you ask her, she says yes. Just tell her straight up! But don't be too "nervous". Relax, and just pretend like you are talking to her as a friend. Good luck and I hope things will turn out to a wonderful night! :)
2007-04-19 13:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by disneygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you ask a girl to the prom can have a big impact on whether or not she accepts your invitation. The best way to ask your potential date to prom is to do ask her in person and in private. That means that you don’t want to ask when all of your friends are standing around or when all of her friends are with her. If she’s with her friends, her answer may be directed by what she thinks they want her to do rather than by what she wants to do. While it may be hard to get up the nerve to walk up to her by yourself and ask her face to face, she’ll respect you more for it in the long run. If, however, you just can’t bring yourself to ask her face to face, you can call her on the telephone. Just don’t make the mistake of having your friend ask her for you. Not only will she not go to prom with you, she might wind up going with your friend.
And yes. It is perfectly acceptable to ask a girl to the prom as a friend. However, there are certain guidelines that you are going to want to follow when doing so. Make sure that it is very clear to her from the onset that you are asking her as a friend and that you two will be going just as friends, nothing more. Otherwise, you might be setting yourself up for an awkward situation and someone’s feeling might be hurt. Even though you’ll be going as friends, you should still expect to pay for the entire evening unless your date offers otherwise. You should also confirm whether or not you’ll be attending any post-prom events together or whether you’ll go your separate ways after the dance is over.
2007-04-19 20:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait at her house. Let her know that you wanted to ask her before anyone else does. Can you call her tonight? Do you have her phone number?
Good luck.
2007-04-19 20:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call her and definitely ask her out to prom ASAP! Best Wishes and Happy Prom!
2007-04-19 20:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Janice 10 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, you missed your shot... Sorry to say that, BUT why would this other guy need to prepare something. Chances are, he is just going to up and ask her...
If you are lucky, and do get to ask her, you need to ask her as SOON as possible. However you can, the fastest way do that.
2007-04-19 20:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by oldpeoplesuckateverything 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly, or play games with this third party. If you want to ask her out call her up tonight and do it. Let us know what happens.
2007-04-19 20:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by tinydancer5757 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know her phone number call her up now and ask her to the prom.
2007-04-19 20:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her b4 first period and be like i kno we haven't known each other taht long and all but is it possible if u'll go to the prom wit me?
2007-04-19 20:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by live♥love♥laugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats interestin, do it up man, ask her b4 the other dude does, go for it and good luck man!!!
2007-04-19 20:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by Matthew Adams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give hur a note that reads....
prom-me -n- u?
<3 always....u!
2007-04-19 20:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by daddyslilangell07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋