I'm a little to shy to just up and ask a cute guy to date me or even talk to me, so I need y'all's advice!
2007-04-19 12:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The (or girls?) part isn't for me, it's for any guys who need to know too! anyways, I'm really shy and I sometimes have problems talking to cute guys...any advice?
2007-04-19 12:52:11 · update #1
just like me..hehe
but it was when i'm studying at secondary schools..
i just can't look at cute boys eyes..it really makes my tounge jam..hehe..
but ive changed now..
u must join the communities..
join clubs or activities in school..
ask ur fren to join too..so that u hav sumone that close to u n can help u..
it will help u 2 find new friends(include cute boys=) )...sumtimes shygirl is more comfortable to express feelings or ideas to people that don't know her.. (cause,they don't know that i'm shy..hehe)..
seriously,joining societies will build up ur confidence..=) gudluck dude..
2007-04-22 16:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by ::.m!$s B ~> u kNo Me.:: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am shy, too but usally the guys start talking to me and that's how I make friends with them but sometimes I just say hi and build from that.
A$H!
2007-04-27 12:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by A$HLEY*! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could take a "sq. dude" over a "thug" any day! I hate undesirable boys, this is only yet another term meaning "i'm a jerk who would not have any appreciate for himself or the human beings around him. I could desire to make everybody else be in a bad temper so as that i'm able to experience greater useful approximately myself." females who like relationship adult men who placed them down additionally don't have a ton of self-appreciate. That being pronounced... you may date a "thug" yet you will purely deliver living house a "sq. dude" to fulfill your loved ones, and to marry, and to cool down with!
2016-11-25 23:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by holness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start conversation with him, make him laugh. Then ask him out on a "group date" so it's not awkward. Then have a great time and he'll want to go out with you again. P.s you can get more tips from chick magazines (ex. cosmo girl).
2007-04-19 12:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can just start to just hang out with guys alittle bit more then you will start to gain confidence then move up a step ask one out it don't have to be on a date date it could just be a walk in the park or a cup of coffee(or liquor) then if he is interest in you he will ask you out again.
2007-04-27 09:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Dagoberto N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like we used to have the same problem.even right now with my very cuuuuuuuute boyfriend, he knows i'm super shy to even kiss him. anyways, i give you my advice. mine's was much easier cos i like knew his friends, so if u know his friends or anything like that, talk to them and maybe, one day your friend cud be talking to your crush. its not weird to join the conversation.remember though to act u'rself. and who know's u cud start to talk to him from there. worked for me and now it's been 3yrs.
2007-04-27 10:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by crystal n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just suck it up and do it. It's worse sitting home alone then just saying something...trust me.
You can always be more physical too. just go up to the guy and hold onto his arm....don't say anything...he will get the clue you like him.
2007-04-19 12:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a breath and try to walk into their circle, if they think you're hott then they'll usually make the first step and all you have to do is follow
brutally honest
2007-04-27 11:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You find your courage and step up. You'll miss out and be alone if you don't.
2007-04-27 10:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋