Why do women like men who use them?

Question

1 guy I know tells the women he is using them for sex. He always has a woman.

1 guy I know has 3 girlfriends and they all know abotu each other.

1 guy I know treats women like crap and always has a woman.

What is the problem here? Do women like being treated this way? Is this what I should do?

Answer 1

Maybe some women just like feeling useful. It's better than feeling useless.

Answer 2

No most don't. But a select few find it exciting to be treated "roughly". Most women go into a relationship hoping to change their mate. On the other hand, some women are sooo desperate, they'll take anything and then think it's their fault when it doen't work out. Just keep being sweet and i'm sure you'll relationships will work out.

Answer 3

Those women have horribly low self-esteem and they're probably emotionally crippled also, no woman who thinks highly of herself would ever allow any man to treat her in such a way. There are dozens of women out there waiting to be treated like this, but ask yourself would you want one with all the baggage they bring to a relationship? Keep being an honest, decent, respectful man and the right woman will come along for you...=)

Answer 4

If you want to have a woman for little more then sex, then yes this is what you should do.

lots of women hate themself or thier life or such and want to be treated bad because of that. Or they fell they are so bad that this bad guy is the best they can get as no good guy would ever have anything to do with them.

Answer 5

No, that's not what you should do - at least not if you want something that is going to be meaningful and last.

Evidentally you just haven't met the right girl for you yet but that doesn't mean you won't. And just because you see this with your friends doesn't mean that ALL women like to be used and treated like ****.

But I think you knew this. I think you might be trying to use that "feel sorry for me" card to try to get noticed and as that might get you noticed it won't be lasting.

Work on your self esteem then worry about finding a girlfriend.

Answer 6

Either these girls are shallow golddiggers, or he is not being completely honest with them. Usually, a man will convince a woman that she is the one and make her feel very special for a long while, then he'll start cheating on her and convincing her it's all her fault somehow, and she will eat herself up trying to figure out why she isn't good enough and how she can get Mr. Wonderful back. Your friends who act this way are rabid jerks. I hope you're better than this.

Answer 7

Lets see:

1 has promiscous woman and the other has women with no self esteem. If you prefer quantity over quality, the follow thier example.

If you prefer quality, decide what kind of woman you want to have a relatioship with and seek her out. Quality is not easy to find, they are taking the easy way out if you ask me.

Answer 8

You will learn as many of us have over the years. The way a women looks has nothing at all to do with her intelligence. The beautiful, attractive and pretty women who act that way are usually as dumb as a fence post.

Answer 9

As a girl it has been my experience that most women want a man that treats them like crap. Think about it, most women who have a man that treats them good she will find some way to screw him over, now you find a woman who has a man that treats her like dirt, she will bend over backwards to try and please him.

Answer 10

These are all women without confidence and self esteem. They think this is the best they can do or don't feel they are worthy of REAL love. Losers prey on women like this!