Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

2007-04-19 02:13:56 · 3 answers · asked by nonyeamu 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife was going on a field trip with my daughter today and last night she asked if she could use the digital camera that belongs to my work (which i do not own). i had some picture on the camera i would be downloading for a report and said i really couldn't allow her to borrow it. I am allowed to bring the camera home and it has kept us from buying one on our own. i bring it home on weekends and often during the week. She also has taken to using my cell phone (again we personally don't own one) when she goes shopping or on small day trips. The phone is on the blink and i didn't offer for her to use it because i was going to take it back to our IT guy today and ask him to have it fixed. She was upset i didn't offer the phone and also upset i didn't offer the camera. i will be needing the camera and so said i was selfish and couldn't believe i refused her. what if my boss said, go take a picture, today and i didn't have the camera. What am i going to say...my wife has it?

2007-04-19 02:13:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Tired of the pain and misery!!!

2007-04-19 02:12:15 · 11 answers · asked by Kraziegurl79 ist ein Rock Star 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok I been seeing this guy for almost 5 months now and things were just great at the begining. We couldnt get enough of eachother. We both have kids and he lives about an hour away so we dont see eachother everyday. Usually every 2-3 days. Well we used to talk on msn everyday, he would msg me usually in the morning to say good morning and goodnite too. And he would txt me everyday. Not no more. And when he does talk to me on msn he always takes so long to reply, almost like he's talkin to someone else. Also when i was at his house he turned off his msn/computer, whats up with that??? Almost like he's hiding something. I dunno something def doesnt seem right I just got that feeling. But alos my x cheated on me ALOT, is it just me being paranoid??? I hate this feeling. Also we're not seeing eachother as often as we used to. I just get the feeling something is not right. Help me please!!!

2007-04-19 02:11:29 · 5 answers · asked by missmindysue1981 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been dating 11 months now! About3 or 4 months after we start dating, a lot of people ask us if we have yet, or how many times or we do it all the time? It gets on our nerves because we diffently do not! We have never and will never until we are married! Why do you think?

2007-04-19 02:09:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he gets to see the mother of the baby frequently..they were together before he and i but he didi not tell me this with fear of me not going out with him.... i realy like him but another part of me says i deserve better...
help

2007-04-19 02:06:06 · 18 answers · asked by teddybear 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for him to see how he is doing in life and what he has been up to the last 9 years.

2007-04-19 01:58:59 · 1 answers · asked by bootylicious 2 in Friends

Im 25, he's 35.
I know this is stupid - i fell in love- but, it has been a year since i moved with my boyfriend, who is now 5yrs married to his wife and has a 3 yr-old son.
Its so obvious that he doesnt love his wife (its shows and he said so).
He's with me on working days, stays with his family on non-working days.
The first and last time we talked about it, all he said was he doesnt want to be the faulty and bad one.
And any annulment case would only lead him to not marrying again.

Any advice? explanation?
I cannot find help from any of my friends coz they all despise him and all they want to for me to move out of the apartment and find a new beginning.

2007-04-19 01:58:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know people will probably judge me on here if they read my other questions. But why is it some people, like myself seem to go through life destorying everything in its path? I have a marriage falling apart, I had a relationship that fell apart, I have terrible depression, now I feel I'm falling apart! It's as if i'm not happy with anything, that I can't find happiness or that i'm looking for something that can't be found! Does anyone else feel like this, or is it just me?

2007-04-19 01:54:47 · 21 answers · asked by Vixx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 01:49:52 · 12 answers · asked by sachin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and made it through to the girlfriend stage and felt comfortable in the relationship?

Say for example if Wayne Rooney got it on with Scarlett Johnanson, it would never happen would it!

2007-04-19 01:40:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 01:36:34 · 38 answers · asked by pankhuri V 1 in Friends

2007-04-19 01:36:13 · 2 answers · asked by pure chick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I ( taurus) met a guy ( capricorn) and he and I started talking. B4 he and i had done anything, he had told me that he had just gotten out of a long relationship and he was already talking to another female. I assumed they were casual phone buddies. He and I had sex, right afterward, he told me that he had been married but was seperated. He had also begun to have sex with the other girl ( phone buddy), while he was having sex with me. One day he tells me that he wants me to get tested. I asked him why and he gets all offended and tells me that he doesn't know who I am having sex with. Maybe a month later, he tells me that he has a friend that he wants to hook me up with b/c he is developing stronger feelings for the other girl. I am extremely hurt. Then he tells me the reason he wanted me to get tested was because he and the other girl were having unprotected sex, he and i had only had unprotected sex once. Why does he want me to be with his friend why doesn't he jus break it off?

2007-04-19 01:34:46 · 19 answers · asked by trickortreat 2 in Singles & Dating

He rejected me a few months ago. But I could swear this was a hit on..Peoples thoughts.

Me:
I'm bored think of a NEW TOPIC
He says:
"i've got something in my front pocket for you"
Me:
Im not wearing pants, lol
He says:
oh good neither am i

He's usually serious at hiding his feelings, I was a little shocked. Ya think he likes me now?

2007-04-19 01:32:11 · 6 answers · asked by Shy_Taurus 1 in Singles & Dating

is this guy in school i really like him and i don't no what to do? i no he likes me (he told me) but when i was about to tell him i like him i ran of and went red, he's in most of my classes.
what would u do if u was in my case?
thanks for havin time to read this.
we are really gd mates do u think i should tell him and have are freindship go down the train of leave it and TRY and move on

2007-04-19 01:27:40 · 7 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Friends

Is there any downside, ya think, to having your first physically intimate experience (say being blown) involve a 'sex worker'? (I'm 22)

I realize this sounds sort of bizarre but I'm serious! My logic is that 'getting something' once will improve the confidence level, which in turn will have a positive feedback effect... Heck, on the morality scale it beats 'playing someone' which is how many guys did it the first time right?

2007-04-19 01:16:31 · 8 answers · asked by ratherlate 1 in Singles & Dating

Been dating off and on for a year and a half. Want the best for both of us. Cant go on w/all the mystery it sucks.

2007-04-19 01:13:15 · 3 answers · asked by James K 1 in Singles & Dating

and relax to maintain mental and sexual balance. adults only any age pl real answers no jokes

2007-04-19 01:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Was it as easy for all of you as it was for me?. Husband has puposely tried to make my life hell .. Do you believe in KARMA?

2007-04-19 01:08:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i work in a call center and have some great people working with me but.
what makes your day worth while?

2007-04-19 00:57:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am 29 years old, i know this elderly man who is 80 for 1 year, he is a kind and loving person, he has no children, a widower, his other family members never visit. I was the only friend he has, 4 weeks ago he fell in his house, i started doing shopping for him, taking him to hospital, but now he expect me to do this all the time, like today i went out with my friends after dinner, he was very upset that i didn't shop for him, he called me and said he is very sad that 'old people get forgotten by others', i feel guilty but i also know its not my responsiblity to look after him, i asked him if he have any plan for his future, he has none, but he will never go to nursing home, or asisstant living, or meals on wheals as he doesn't trust any strangers! so what should i do? i have my life to live but i can't discard him

2007-04-19 00:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

tourist, working or studying visa?

2007-04-19 00:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by urgirlulu 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband wants me to put his kids on my insurance, I don't want to do that. I feel it's his and his X wifes responsibility to care for the kids. It's going to cost me 190.00 a month to cover his 3 kids. He is going to get a court order for that because we can't add them unless he has that. That will mean he will be paying 500.00 a month for child support and then I will be paying for the health care!!! Do you think I am wrong to feel this way? Those kids are not my responsibility! The only reason he wants this to happen is because his kids need braces and doesn't want to pay the 5000.00 per kid. I can understand not wanting to pay that amount, but it's still not my problem! Their mom has them on the Oregon health plan, so it's not like they don't have some kind of coverage.

2007-04-19 00:47:40 · 26 answers · asked by Tami H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm in the 8th grade. ok there is this new girl. (VERY HOT MIX BLACK/WHITE) she came here 2 weeks ago. on her first day me and her actually played catch (kinda childish). anyways so good start right? so today she passed me a note that said "hey baby" i responded by righting "wus up" and we just keeped on doing that for about 2 periods. then she brought up the subject "do you have a GF"? and i put no so she wrote"don't u wanna go wit me" i said "if u don't have a BF already then yea i do" and she wrote "ok, you're my boyfriend now" we kinda flirt alittle but the only problems r i never get a chance to talk to her, and since she's hot a whole bunch of boys always flirt wit her but she doesn't flirt back, she just laughs. i didn't even get a chance to ask her for her # yet. i'm gonna ask her for her # tommorow but what do u think. is she fakin' it? what do u think about the whole situation?
plz serious answers only
don't need no smart asses

2007-04-19 00:46:18 · 7 answers · asked by me, myself and i 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 00:23:12 · 3 answers · asked by gatesyiscool 1 in Family

I was in a relationship for 3 yrs, and we were engaged, and had a son that was 6 months old. My fiancee left me saying he needed time, so I gave that to him.Now before this happened it was all about me and he would never have did anything to hurt me. Yea I wanted him back and i cried all the time because of it. Well the whole time I figured it was because a girl at work, and he denied it. When he was ready to take me back, I had found someone that made me so happy, and that would do everything for me, and I also found out my ex had been with another girl, and had slept with my best friend of 4 yrs. Till this day he is wanting me to get back with him, and Just the other day i found a letter in his truck from a girl saying they were in love with him, etc.... and he is denying everything saying the girl is crazy and saying the only one i want is you, etc. yea I wanna trust him but how can i, and how can i give up someone that makes me happy to be with him, and he could do everything again

2007-04-19 00:21:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as my relationship with my boyfriend is gettin even worst is it so wrong if I go out 4 a drink with somebody alse?

2007-04-19 00:14:41 · 25 answers · asked by crinicky 1 in Singles & Dating

ne ways i am dating this guy with whom i broke up=got 2gether with my ex since we figured out what we needed to=and all of a sudden he is acting more distant than usual.he will give me a kiss on the cheek,few on the lips,will tell me that he will call and then forget-happened twice-and i know that he is busy with his school work and trying to make good grades as well as going to work part time.i know that he is giving up a lot at the moment with the posibility of him wanting to open a business and a lot being at steak-he is 24 and i am 22;we dated for 20 months before calling it quits and started to redate 4-5 weeks ago;but why is he not that close to me ne more?before he would come and hang out at my place and now it is less and less:live in a dorm and him in an apartment he is renting at the same univ.and i know that my place is not as big or spacious as his so what is stopping him?i already put a lot in our relationship yet feel confused rt now by his behavior.i know he does luvs me

2007-04-19 00:02:56 · 4 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating