Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

and it actually worked out?? If you have why do you think it worked out the second time around? If not, why – b/c the same problems were there...the other person never changed?

2007-04-19 06:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by gdesigner 2 in Singles & Dating

so if you were dating someone and you ended up not wanting to be in a relationship would you flat out tell her that you didn't want her, or would you drag the relationship on till she finally broke up with you?

i have found guys are to scared to end it but i want your opinion please

2007-04-19 06:56:04 · 17 answers · asked by carmelfude2003 4 in Singles & Dating

I recently came up on a way new situation. My husband has a 9 year old from a previous relationship, and hadn't seen his daughter in 4 1/2 years (I still do not know why this is, but did find out the reason he told me was a lie). His daughters mother contacted him recently (conveinently 3 weeks after I gave birth to our second child) and said she needed some paperwork signed, and hence they have come back into his life. The daughter is as sweet as can be, and although it is unusual i have a 9 yr old step daughter ( I am only 25) that isn't the part that bothers me. It is actually the mom, she seems to find reasons to contact my husband almost daily, and I told him I just didn't feel like that much contact is nessacary. The text email talk on the phone....you name it. Is is wrong for me to be asking him not to have so much contact with and ex...even though they do have a daughter together? She also happens to be the one person who completly shattered my husbands heart when they broke up

2007-04-19 06:55:41 · 21 answers · asked by Tami H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated a guy from a different country for a while, I ended up pregnant and keeping the baby. However when i was pregnant he was deported back to his own country, he promised for a long time to come back and i waited for close to 5 years on broken promises. We now have broken up for a while and I finally healed. The problem is I've started to fall for another guy, I know this guy because we've talked on the internet for over 6 yrs but I met him because he was a friend of the first guy they went to school together. They're not really good friends anymore so that's not an issue. He lives in the same country as me but far away from me. He's talking about coming to where I live to visit, but I'm scared that if i fall for him the same thing could happen again, I really like this guy but the idea of going through that again terrifies me. Can someone please tell me what I should do?

2007-04-19 06:54:44 · 1 answers · asked by kalihas_mum 3 in Singles & Dating

It's funny to hear the new wives complain. My H does not have a new wife yet but it is tempting to think of causing them grief ( all within the law, of course.) (While meanwhile I date bigger and richer men.) LOL!

2007-04-19 06:54:33 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 06:53:59 · 24 answers · asked by vishwas d 1 in Weddings

2007-04-19 06:52:54 · 15 answers · asked by Diana B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If not can you get pretty damn close?

2007-04-19 06:52:14 · 9 answers · asked by These Five Words 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-19 06:50:51 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa B 2 in Singles & Dating

what makes you want to propose? what might keep you from proposing to a woman you love?

serious answers only please. thanks!

2007-04-19 06:50:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work a full time day job & a part time job @ night; I feel like all I do is work. I have no time for my friends & family, my husband, or even to clean & take care of my house & yard! Let alone time to try to workout-which I really need to start doing again- & actually have a life; and I am always so tired.

2007-04-19 06:45:43 · 3 answers · asked by Misty B 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

A very good friend of mine is married to a guy who is overly jealous and controlling. She has literally become a prisoner in her own home... afraid to make waves. How can she make him understand that ultimately, he is going to make her resent/hate him? She has tried talking to him... putting it in terms that a 5 year old could understand.. but he just doesn't get it. She's not allowed basically, to go anywhere at all without him... everyone needs space.. friends.. A LIFE!!! She is being completely deprived of this... and it's killing me to watch her suffocate!!!

2007-04-19 06:42:38 · 17 answers · asked by Jane D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had a huge arguement with my shagging buddy, as has found someone else. I have basically called it off, i don't want anything to do with him, as its not fair on his new girl. I don't think he liked what he heard.
He has since called and said that he still wants to see me and doesn't want to make an enemy of me.

Is he like i think, setting me as a shag on the side? (want 2 be prepared with a knockback if he is!!)

2007-04-19 06:41:37 · 29 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 06:40:31 · 4 answers · asked by matt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband love to have sex more then three time everday does that mean that he enjoy my boby

2007-04-19 06:40:06 · 21 answers · asked by tachy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

think you can found answers about love, your boyfriend/ girlfriend, sex, marriage and all those personal things here???????
How often do you listen advices given to you on Answers?

2007-04-19 06:38:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anita 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 06:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by shanika j 2 in Singles & Dating

have any of you ever confessed to cheating to your significant other even though there was no way they would have found out on their own? What was the outcome?

2007-04-19 06:34:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 06:32:55 · 5 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

One problem.My husband has legal issues back in Ontario.He is fine if he does not go there but it is outstanding.Nothing major but it is becoming an inconvienence.Does anyone know if we can still travel?Are there certain countries we can still go to or am I left to spend my honeymoon in Canada?

2007-04-19 06:30:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

having sex?
like the first time
cause i found someone i love
and he loves me too
and he wants to take my virginity
so does it hurt?

2007-04-19 06:27:02 · 38 answers · asked by +_+SHORTIE+_+ 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I'm single and I need a boyfriend bad.

2007-04-19 06:20:23 · 14 answers · asked by jessica_vega5 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just curioUs about it .SOME EVEN SAY RUBBING $$$$ AFTER EJACULATION CAN MAKE YOUR SKIN SMOOTHER .iS THAT TRUE? IS THE MEDICAL SCIENCE TO PROVE FOR THIS ?

2007-04-19 06:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this man that bartends at the local bar i go to once in a while. Everytime im in there he seems to drop everything to say to me when i walk in and when i say his name (for help with little things like the pool table, a drink, or just to smile at him) he seems to be nervous and always runs right over to me. I know he has a girlfriend, although i was told he likes me. So i keep my distance knowing he has a girlfirend, but is it possible for a man to like a girl even when he is with another?

2007-04-19 06:19:30 · 10 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for the past 5 years. of those 5 years, there was a period that we were separated. In that period of time, we seen other people. We decided to get back together and try to make things work. Now he wants me to tell him everything I did, detail by detail what I did. I dont have a problem being honest with him, but if I leave out one minor detail, he flys off the deep end. He has been telling me that he is going to leave me, and today he told me that he no longer wants me. I told him that I will always be here. I love him so much, and I dont want to lose him, but some how he is unable to forgive me, as I have forgiven him. Help me! what should I do?

Thank you....

2007-04-19 06:19:04 · 13 answers · asked by Miss. American Nightmare 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is the epitome of wat my parents would hav imagined as my ideal guy, I met him 2.5 ago and we've had an idyllic relationship. Now I am 20 yrs old. I've been to his house a multitude of times and he has never been to mine, although I have sneaked him in a couple of times. My parents don't approve of him coming home, and although they meet him very often and get along very well, they just don't want him setting foot in our home. We are not such a homey family and don't always have people at home, but we've never left anyone on the doorstep and it pains me whenever he comes to see me, and even if it's raining, we have to converse on the doorstep or the drive. It's shameful and I'm just sorry for him. He has sort of accepted the fact and doesn't question it. How do you think I should convince my parents? I've tried real hard and had no positive answer till now. Is anyone passing thru the same ting and do you have any tips? Anything is appreciated!!

2007-04-19 06:18:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-19 06:17:57 · 24 answers · asked by Melissa B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

To all the GROWN UP people, don't you find all of those people on Adult Friend Finder just plain pathetic? Usually they are either lowlives just taking up space on Earth or really successfull people with ZERO moral values and LOADS of issues? I mean, aren't these people affraid of disease?? How can you trust a lowlife having an account there anything they say??? I have to say that I used to talk to this guy online for whom I couldn't trust at all and wanted to put my finger on it, ya know? So i searched and found an adult account, he turned out to be lying and deceiving people, his bills are overdue but he has a gold membership on that site. How pathetic is that??

2007-04-19 06:17:43 · 7 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Singles & Dating

i know bartenders are usually sleezy men who get a lot of phone numbers and their job is to flirt and be friendly for tips.

2007-04-19 06:15:18 · 7 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

Repeated for the spelling monsters.
Let's see. You all believe that it is terrible to have an affair unbeknownst to the wife.

Aren't you the same people who are friends with people who leave or have left their spouses and kids for someone else? Aren't you the same people who say that you "can't judge" so you still have these adulterers over for dinner? Look around. How many of your friends started out as affairs on one of your other friends and you welcome them into your home?

OK. Begin the excuses, diffrentiation and personal attacks.

2007-04-19 06:14:00 · 41 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce