Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

i am about 65 year old this year . I got to know this girlA from my workplave .she has a crush for me at least 6 years .GirlB from my childhood told me she has been in love with me for 10 years. GirlC (my ex steady) just break off with man and wanna a patched back. All of them are really nice towards me and care for me .Who should i choose ? girl A girl B or Girl C

2007-04-19 06:13:50 · 12 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2 in Singles & Dating

i won but that doesnt matter, she was telling me that her grandma used to wear the same purfume as me and i took that as an insult because her grandma is dead, or i took dat ***** to the ground!!!!! now my great grandson wont talk to me!!!! how do i get him to talk to me again?

2007-04-19 06:13:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to have a small wedding in the backyard any ideas how to have it at home. Or my other options was to have my cereomony and reception at the same place but there is no xtra room for the ceremony so it would just be in the middle of room in while the guest sat at their tables, I didn't know if that would be tacky or not.

2007-04-19 06:11:40 · 15 answers · asked by ucme 1 in Weddings

Here is what I have learned from a very painful love experience. I have been fooled emotionally by a guy who is emotionally unavailable, so he felt no consequences of his actions and was unable to take responsibility for anything. If I am correct, there are ALWAYS SIGNS that someone doesn't feel the same way back and is just using you for this or that reason to make themselves feel better. Usually it's something that is stronger than your conscience, but it's NOT an EXCUSE! So after receiving many of these signs, you confront them about it and they deny and promise eternal love. You believe because love is blind. But it NEVER works out! So next time, you should be strong and walk away at the first sign of your partner being untruthfull. Actually I am so grateful this guy happened to me, because I would've never realized that YES, the world is corrupted and people, besides your own family and best friends, are...

2007-04-19 06:10:15 · 5 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 06:09:22 · 5 answers · asked by babybunny2110 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's see. You all believe that it is terrible to have an affair unbeknownst to the wife.

Aren't you the same people who are friends with people who leave or have left their spouses and kids for someone else? Aren't you the same people who say that you "can't judge" so you still have these adulterers over for dinner? Look around. How many of your friends started out as affairs on one of your other friends and you welcome them into your home?

OK. Begin the excuses, diffrentiation and personal attacks.

2007-04-19 06:06:33 · 23 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please read and advise me...I am really confused & worried about whether what I am feeling & doing is unnecessary? The guy I love (who doesn't reciprocate my feelings at this stage..but who I am in touch with) is living in another country. During this stage, I got in touch with his friend in urgency (who I had never talked to before) to find out what's going on with the guy I love coz he wasn't responding. I was emotionally distressed. This friend lent me a warm shoulder and helped me out. Since then, I got kinda attached to this friend I think. I liked talking to him. I started calling him often, but I think it backfired since he said he has been busy. I guess I became a lil emotionally dependent on this friendship which wasn't reciprocated strongly either. It has very become awkward now for another reason. I told this friend I am uncomfortable becoz the guy I love is in another country, and I *feel* like I am in touch with his friend behind his back.

2007-04-19 06:05:13 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

ever since my ex has told me that he still has feelings for his ex, he seems a little distance and it seems weird.Also he doesn't seem that physically attracted to me.Does he think I'm mad at him or is thinking about her thinking I'm okay with it.When we talked about it I told him it didn't bug me but now he
s gotten all distant its starting to worry me.

2007-04-19 06:04:09 · 11 answers · asked by Patti c 1 in Singles & Dating

What should be best suprise for womens from man for 1st night to make women happy n make memorable 1st night.

2007-04-19 06:03:53 · 13 answers · asked by syscon1210 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the comment by b/f :

My expectation out of my relationship with you was that YOU ONLY LOVE ME.


Now let me tell you this, I left my husband of 10 years less than a year ago. I will love him until the day I die, though we are not together, and can no longer get along, we still have "love" feelings for each other, and we have two kids. How can you make that love go away?? Over time I think it will diminish, we spent alot of good times together (and alot of bad) but as I see it, that love will always remain. You think my b/f is being unreasonable?


This is her b/f : I understand her point saying that she has feeling for his ex as they stayed for long time together. I love her immensely but I will say that it is hard for me to see that my love also loves someone else. It is apperant and and I can see it in her face. I also know that by demanding, I can get anything materialistic but love, emotions, feeling etc. I want her to love me devotedly .. is it too much to ask

2007-04-19 06:02:57 · 14 answers · asked by Partha C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How old were you? Who tied you up? What did they do to you?

2007-04-19 06:02:36 · 9 answers · asked by pleasetiemetight 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-19 06:02:21 · 5 answers · asked by Debbie S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has a 4 year old son with a women he never had a relationship with. (she also as a another child different father) My boyfriend is fully involved in his sons life from the moment he found out about him. He pays all the child support on time, has his son over nights wednesdays and over nights every other weekend. She continually complains about everything, no matter what my boyfriend does she finds something to call him and yell at him about. It is affecting our relationship and I told my boyfriend to tell her to stop calling, but he said he can't do that. Although my boyfriend sees his son every other weekend she still complains that it is enough. He picks his son up, drops him off and she doesn't put forth any effort. She doesn't understand alot of things b\c she came from a family where it was the norm to have multiple kids with mulitple fathers. Does anyone have any advice??

2007-04-19 06:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by K K 1 in Family

I dont have one but I see all these other girls with them and they boyfriends so what is your opinion on them?

2007-04-19 05:59:47 · 31 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for good rock music for my wedding.. I dont want anything slow and boring, and nothing too hardcore and spastic fast... I already have some queen, journey, metalica, kiss, and zz top, I need more! so if anyone can tell me some good songs with a love theme, I would appreciate it!

2007-04-19 05:59:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-04-19 05:59:39 · 22 answers · asked by Britt D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all my life i have not got on with my sister, but i wouldnt have called it hate. but recently everything she does makes me want to hit her! even the sight of her! she is v annoying at times but even when she isnt being a pain i still get annoyed! eg if im watching tv and she comes i nand watches it 2! or even breathes/eats 2 loud! i just cant figure out why ive started to hate her so much??!!!!!!!! why??!? anyone else in the same boat?

2007-04-19 05:58:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-04-19 05:58:14 · 14 answers · asked by wonder Aloud 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He quit his job 3 weeks ago...hasn't even tried looking for work yet...and then he has the nerve to ask me to ask my dad for money so he could buy a game...so he could continue staying up all night playing xbox, and sleeping all day, instead of finding a job.
He said he is going to borrow money from his brother to pay back my dad...how is that supposed to make it ok.
I said, "You know we don't have the money right now." And he freaked and refuses to speak to me.
He's worse than a child...I told him that too...He won't speak to me at all...I really want him to discuss this with in an adult manner. Really pissing me off right now.
Any advice is much appreciated.

2007-04-19 05:57:54 · 6 answers · asked by alicej84 3 in Family

I met the two guy's at school, i only have them for one class period. The two guy's are in the same class with me. They asked me out on Monday both of them, one of them asked me in lunch time, and the other one asked me in the morning before school started. I did not answered to the guy in the morning because i am not sure if i like him or the other guy.

2007-04-19 05:57:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what the best way to maintain a long lasting erec tion?

2007-04-19 05:57:46 · 13 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Singles & Dating

We are a middle class, hard working couple, that would love to adopt a baby but because of past financial problems we find it hard to qualify for most agencies high fees. We can afford to raise a child comfortably in a loving home but can't figure out how to finance it.

2007-04-19 05:56:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

can someone tell me how to get a quicker devoce online please

2007-04-19 05:56:25 · 4 answers · asked by lil bexicles 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 05:55:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my boyfriend and I started dating over a year ago, he spoiled me with all kinds of attention which was a huge breath of fresh air because I'd dated nothing but losers in the past. I returned the attention of course, spoiling him in the process. He'd always talk about how he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me constantly saying "when we get married..." and sending me text messages saying how much he missed me and loved me (once again, I returned the affection). I moved in with him at the three month mark. Now, a little over a year later, I no longer get the cute text messages. I no longer get the smile when he comes home from work. I no longer get the cuddling on the couch during movies/tv. He no longer helps clean after I cook. I no longer get the "when we get married.." (instead he tells people the timing's not right when he used to descirbe the kind of ring he would get me). I cook, I clean, I try to be affectionate, but he just constantly complains now. What happened?

2007-04-19 05:54:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 05:54:13 · 10 answers · asked by jean d 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i posted on here a couple days ago about how i was worried cuz i gave someone on the internet my cell number that i had been talking to for a very long time. Because i was worried i told him i was changing my number so not to call it or text it. He then proceeded sayin that he isnt like that and if i want to we dont have to talk at all online if i am uncomfortable, he also said not to change the number because he would not call me or text. So we were talkin and then he said that he is kinda upset at me that i would assume he is being a perv or a guy older than himself. he then said he would forgive me but it would take a while for him to not be mad. so what does everyone think? tips anything? (plz dont tell me to not give out my cell number again cuz believe me i have had enough of that and i wont do it ever again!!!)

2007-04-19 05:53:33 · 2 answers · asked by SMasewicz 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 05:52:59 · 5 answers · asked by ellisd1950 3 in Singles & Dating

I am considering eloping and going to Vegas but I am not sure if I will regret it or not. My family doesn't fly so I know that they would not be apart of this adventure. If you did get married at Vegas were you happy with the outcome and any suggestions where to go and what to do. What is the best month to go?

2007-04-19 05:51:38 · 9 answers · asked by ucme 1 in Weddings

I'm ready to leave, but I really NEED to find out this info, so I can give it to him before I leave. Again, does anyone have any idea how to find this out? I know there was someone in my situation or a similiar one.

2007-04-19 05:50:02 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships