Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

2007-04-19 05:02:21 · 13 answers · asked by chanz8teen 2 in Singles & Dating

im the kinda girl that wants to get out and do things so why did i marry a man that doesnt want to do anything? i didnt have a problem with it until i realized that his life literally revolves around the television, and he started gaining more weight and now his breasts are AT LEAST twice the size of mine. when i try to make subtle hints about him losing weight he says that it discourages him and makes him not want to lose weight so what can i do to encourage him? And how do i make him WANT get out and do things?

2007-04-19 05:02:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 05:01:24 · 3 answers · asked by EaglesFan69 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy james at work let me see him check me out the other day. and he always lifts is eyebrows at me?

2007-04-19 05:01:19 · 21 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

I noticed no cell phone bills were coming to the house. In Feb. I found the contract papers hidden in the basement. That's when I found out he had another phone on his account. I knew it was hers. I confronted him, he said he would turn it off. A month later I find a bill, all he did was changed the number. I told him turn the damned thing off, or I was gone. He said he would in 3 weeks (something about the contract, and she was paying the bill). Two weekends ago, he left saturday morning, and came back sunday night, but all that time his phone was off, he told me he lost it, but he mysteryously found it in his other vehicle. (He never lost that phone before or after his trip). I tried calling her number, and it was disconnected.But I think he changed it again knowing I would call it, when I couldn't get him to answer. Still no bills are coming. My ?: How do I find out,and what the number is. I dont't have any passwords. The company is Ver. I need to know, so I can get GHOST! Help!

2007-04-19 05:01:01 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should it be the Groom or the Bride (or both together) to pick out Ushers for a wedding? Should it relatives or close friends? And if you ask someone to be an Usher instead of a Groomsman, does it mean they are not good enough for that part? We already have 6 on each side to stand up with us. I don't want a whole bunch of people up there. Thanks

2007-04-19 05:00:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Basically we want to rent a house on a lake for a weekend that accomodates our needs: golfing, fishing, drinking, and women (that about covers it).

I was wondering if ya'll had suggestions or recommendations on specific places (location, phone number, price, etc.). We want to stay in the Texas area (Travis, Sam Rayburn, Conroe, etc.)

2007-04-19 04:57:56 · 2 answers · asked by Horns 3 in Weddings

Just reading an article asking who works harder men or women? and i was rather annoyed to find alot of people saying women. I must say i do not agree with that.
I personally feel i work harder than my partner and have a few male friends that do the same. i work 10 hrs and she does 8, i do most of the house work as she mainly does the cooking, washing & cleaning is done mainly by myself, and i take care of the finances. so pls can some one tell how they work harder and yes we both look after the baby, i would help with the breast feeding but that would rather difficult.

2007-04-19 04:55:57 · 23 answers · asked by cross 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok ive asked this question a couple of times....but i still havent recieved the right answer... i am 16 and i want to wait til marriage to have sex and everyone says that every guy will leave me... but there is still a a chance of a guy leaving if i do it so im really confused im thinking maybe i should change my mind about the whole save it till marriage thing

2007-04-19 04:55:08 · 60 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

i have not seen my spouse for 6 years.

2007-04-19 04:54:08 · 7 answers · asked by llliioiiiioiilll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am what people call religious so nothing illegal please. I was going to ask for a NICE camera but then my gparent siad they would give me theirs so now I don't know what to ask for .THank you so much

2007-04-19 04:51:52 · 8 answers · asked by vballqueen22 1 in Family

My best friend max wants to kill himself because my other friend mindi brokee up with him!!! It has been four months since they broke up and last night he almost commited scuicede. He is my best friend and I dont want to call someone to put him in a psycho bin. How do I convinse him that life is worth living without her????

2007-04-19 04:50:34 · 11 answers · asked by meehaa_2009 2 in Friends

I am torn as to what to do!

My ex ended our relationship out of the blue 3 mths ago. She was the love of my life!

She said her feelings changed in a short period and ended things. No amount of me persuading her to do otherwise had any effect.

I have now met someone else. We have loads in common, and I can see me and her really working. In fact, I could see us being together long term, sometimes you just get that feeling and I have only been out with her 4 times!

Trouble is, she is not my ex!! I know I will forget about my ex over time!

My ex has now been hinting that she made a mistake. What do I do????

Do I totally forget about my ex, blow her out, and concentrate on the new girl or see what is there with my ex??

2007-04-19 04:50:06 · 26 answers · asked by Paul S 1 in Singles & Dating

my daugter's father was abusive so i left him while i was pregnant.. i have raised her by myself and now she's asking who he is and where he is.. i have a way of contacting him but i dont know what to say to her. she's very emotional and i fear that the " he's not around honey" is no longer enough for her.
im a single parent that wants the best for her. he's never even bothered to call and ask how she is..

2007-04-19 04:48:22 · 25 answers · asked by machita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What happens next?

2007-04-19 04:48:19 · 2 answers · asked by tigresspunk44 2 in Singles & Dating

I married 2 months ago, but still cry each day for my ex-boyfriend. This has made my life horrible, I feel so terrible. I dated my ex for 4 years and I waited for him to marry me (one time we were going to do it, but then he wanted more time and said he wasnt ready) but he never did it. I suffered alot when he changed his mind, but we got back together and things were good. Well, it became longdistance the past year and I met another guy and after 4 months of dating, he asked me to marry him, I really didnt know what to do, but decided to accept as I was happy and thought my ex would never do it. My ex tried to convince me and even came to my country 2 times to try to get me to change and marry him, but it was too late. Now after 2 months I am married, but I always cry for my ex bcs. I know he is sad and so hurt . It has made me hurt and I feel horrible each day. Why do I feel like this? Do I still love him? I should be happy right?? Should I be crying so much? Why?

2007-04-19 04:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my ex best friends are not friends and i want to get revenage bc she always uses everything againset me if you gonna say get over it or ur a baby get out of here bc i dont want to hear it she lives in the next building i know all her secrets ok so help me

2007-04-19 04:47:24 · 18 answers · asked by Angela b 2 in Friends

that she cannot leave her hubby until her two teen daughters are off to college in 3 years.

Should I stay or should I go?

I posted this story previously but would like insight from new people. Please read my previous question to better understand where I am at in my relationship.

2007-04-19 04:47:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm bored.....................................................................

2007-04-19 04:46:23 · 12 answers · asked by Dylan B 2 in Singles & Dating

It’s my best friends birthday coming up and I have no idea what to get her.
She must be the hardest person to buy for she is so fussy, does anyone have any ideas what I can get her serious answers please

2007-04-19 04:44:39 · 23 answers · asked by XXkarlaXX 4 in Friends

2007-04-19 04:42:17 · 42 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so me and my boyfriend were together for 6 months. He was my first love and we broke up a little while ago. We told eachother that we still wanted to remain frineds because neither one of us could imagine not talking to eachother, Now we just hook up but still act like we are together, just without the title of boyfrined and girlfriend. I dont know if this is something i should continue to do or not. It sounds so bad to say but sometimes i feel that its better to have a part of him, then to not have any of him at all. What do i do?

2007-04-19 04:42:16 · 23 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

is there any place that you always wanted to get laid at or in?. let me know,give me idea's i can take on myself.thanks and have fun!. life is short!.

2007-04-19 04:41:59 · 7 answers · asked by allforzaye 1 in Singles & Dating

if i get married in another country...is it valid in the u.s.?

2007-04-19 04:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by hahahaha602 2 in Weddings

together for 1year In May
family nor friends like him
he's trying to work on our relationship
he's still involved in the same lifestyle, but wants to change
I know i can have more from a man, but want him in the end
i stayed by his side while he was incarcerated
i know he loves me
seems like its something new everyday with him

2007-04-19 04:41:05 · 13 answers · asked by nicolee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm faking my disappearance next week to get away from the wife for a while. We celebrated 13 years of legal commitment this week. I've had enough togetherness for a while.

I plan on taking my Korean girlfriend with me wherever I end up going. We both took next week off from work (we work at the same place).

I had threatened to deport her when I though she was pregnant. However, all is good in that department. No baby Kermit's are on the way! Yet anyway!

I want to work on healing our relationship. Where is a good place to take her to let her know I still care about sleeping with her regularly?

2007-04-19 04:39:06 · 24 answers · asked by Kermit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I always wanted to be a stay at home Mom, since I was little. I've been home for 3 years now caring for my 4 and 1 year old while my husband works. Here are my issues.
1. I go to church, but my husband doesn't. I want to give, but my husband would get upset if I did.
2. He spends freely because he earns the money, but I struggle to come up with grocery money.
3. He's thinking about divorcing me.
I think it is so important to be home raising my kids. Leaving them would be awful. I already feel like I am failing as a home maker, because he's not happy, so home making I am not. I am starting to feel that maybe he's right, maybe the kids would be better without me.
It just feels so wrong. I hate feeling like I have to take the easy way out. And yes, I've worked before and I know that working outside of the home is easier than staying home. I feel like such a failure. I am embarrassed that I can't realistically stay home. Should I just go back to work and give up?

2007-04-19 04:37:53 · 15 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 04:37:09 · 34 answers · asked by zara berry 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i know if a certain guy really cares for you?Him and i cant be together in any kind of relationship due to some personal matters but we are friends helping eachother through tough times.But time together has gotten a little intamite and all of the sudden when i thought everything was good...he tells me he is scared where this is going and is slowly pushing me away..what does this mean does he like me or is he telling me it meant nothing?We are friend and he is afraid to even hang out as friend and i had told him i respect him as a friend and will do whats best but it hurts..i think i fell in love..how do i know and how do i know how he feels about me?He also says he doesnt want anyone to get hurt..but it hurts being away from him.

2007-04-19 04:36:46 · 4 answers · asked by Brianna M 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help fast!

2007-04-19 04:35:27 · 11 answers · asked by Rona9 2 in Other - Family & Relationships