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I’ve been married now for almost 2 years to an incredible man who means the world to me. The first time we meet was at a restaurant and it was love at first sight. We dated for 2 years before he proposed. His family was convinced I was a gold digger after his money but never said a thing as he threatened to cut them out of his life completely if they didn’t show me respect. About 6 months into our marriage I started sleeping with my ex-boyfriend who my husband trusted me to spend time with as I insisted we were just friends. This continued for about a year ending about 3 months ago. I was so selfish and self-centered back then not caring how much it would hurt him if he were to find out as long as I got what I wanted never realizing just how lucky I was to be married to someone like that. My husband adores children and has told me time and time again how he couldn’t wait for us to have a baby of our own without ever putting any pressure on me. I found out 2 months ago I was pregnant and my husband was just ecstatic. I’d never seen him so happy before. Problem is the baby isn’t his. The dates don’t match at all so it’s definitely my ex’s baby and considering that my husband trusts me completely he never once doubted the paternity of the baby. Should I tell him and break him heart? It's definitely not his baby. By my calculations the baby would have been conceived some time in the 2 weeks my husband was away on business. My ex is your typical bad boy trust fun baby with no ambition or drive which is why I ended it in the first place. He called as soon as he found out I was pregnant though and assured me that if the baby is his and my husband leaves me he’d take care of us. Still I’d much rather my husband be the male role model in the kid’s life as he’d make a truly wonderful dad. Should I tell him?

2007-04-19 03:53:16 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Help! I can't seem to find a flower girl for my wedding that's in less than 4 months. We asked 2 flower girls that's family backed out on us after giving us their word. I'm thinking about asking a couple we know (that we're not that close with) that has a 6 or 7 year old daughter. But if they say no then we're out of ideas. Can we not have a flower girl for our wedding?

2007-04-19 03:51:20 · 23 answers · asked by Shrimpboat 3 in Weddings

About 2 years ago I committed an awful betrayal of my husband of then 5 years by walking out on him when he was diagnosed with cancer. For more info read previous questions. I was desperate for a second chance and when I was served with divorce papers a few weeks ago I was devastated. Thankfully my one last attempt to get him to give me another chance was successful and after a very long talk we're back together, in marital therapy and I moved back in even though I sleep in the guest room for now. I’m incredibly grateful for the second chance but now that I'm back I'm realizing just how much damage I have done. The abandonment issues I caused in him seem to surface every day and it's just heartbreaking to see. Spending all this time with him is actually reminding what made me fall for him in the first place. He just doesn't seem to believe I won't leave again. How do you prove to someone you're here to stay?

2007-04-19 03:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been married 4 years and feel like I'm living in a bubble. I see people at work and at church and wife at home and that's it. I have no other interactions with anyone. This life style is beginning to feel a bit confining. That being said is it appropriate and healthy for a married man to go out to the club on a occasion. Once per quarter for example.

2007-04-19 03:44:23 · 17 answers · asked by the man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should your significant other be afraid of losing you? My bf does not seem to have this fear. If he thinks I'm being unreasonable he does not agree with me even though it could lead to us being angry with each other to the point that I may break yo with him. I believes he loves me but shouldn't he try to see things my way.

2007-04-19 03:43:32 · 5 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 03:38:00 · 17 answers · asked by I_LURVE_CHOCOLATE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is sweet to me......thats what i think. But all of my friends think that he treats me like crap. He has a job but is always asking me to buy him things and i have had to cut off all friendships with guys.....

2007-04-19 03:35:09 · 6 answers · asked by beck<3. 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my exbf, we ended it up bcos we have a big age difference, about 25 years, I chose my husband, bcos he is a very nice guy and has a lot of good qualities, he is loyal, intelligent, very thoughtful and he loves me a lot...but I dont love him, I dont know if its bcos my exbf still has my attention or is bcos I dont love him in the first place, I just couldnt feel the chemistry...I feel him more like a friend to me not a lover... I miss the feeling when I was with my exbf, there is nothing can compare to our passion, he always made me happy bcos he is very skillful and mature, and I was so satisfied just sitting beside him... I dont have that feeling for my husband... now one of them is in Australia, the other is in USA, and Im in another country... I dont know which country to go... I begin to wonder if I made a wrong decision to marry to my husband...

2007-04-19 03:27:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know this guy 3 yrs ago..at 1st we were just friends..then close friends...and now i love him...and i don't know his feelings towards me...and also i don't have the courage to tell him the truth...i'm so afraid to lose him...
he's also saying some words with double meaning...
i don't know if he means thet he loves me...or just coz i love him i'm feelin this way??????????

2007-04-19 03:26:57 · 3 answers · asked by no care for all 2 in Singles & Dating

after a long hard week of work how would you like to be pampered by your woman on your weekend off?
no smutty answers please - I do know the obvious!
Thanks everyone!
xx

2007-04-19 03:26:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell out with my close female friend-we didn't speak for 4 months-we got too close for comfort, I fell for her,she didn't feel the same.To deal with this,I broke contact-(not the best idea-I know!)

2 months ago we met for the 1st time since I broke contact,there was terrible tension bwt us-she didn't want to talk to me,snapped at me a few times!.I apologised for hurting her(when i broke contact)she snapped bck 'You never hurt me,ok!' -1. DID I HURT HER?

I iniated contact by asking if i can add her as a friend on Facebook,she said yes.I asked if we're still friends,she said YES,but replied bluntly+rudely! 2. WHY??

Contact has increased just THIS WEEK via Facebook(SHE INITIATED IT) It's like it used to be! 3. Why the sudden increase in contact?

I invited her to a roadtrip and she will join us!

I'm surprised we're in contact as she said "the friendship is OVER!" 4.Why she say that?

5. She ever like me?

2007-04-19 03:25:54 · 8 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Friends

Last weekend, my husband told me he wants a divorce. He had been drinking. We are in the middle of buying a new house. He is the sole income earner, as I am home with our 4 and 1 year old. He told me that he will be picking all the colors for the house cabinets, carpeting, paint, since sooner or later he's going to divorce me and I'll be leaving anyway. He told me he deserves a thin wife. It came as a shock to me. We aren't perfect, but I didn't think we had come to divorce.
The next day, he told me he was just angry and he didn't mean it. I am not one to lose control of my mouth like that and I can't let go of the things he said. I have said things when I'm angry that I regret or feel embarrassed for saying, but I never outright lie out of anger.

Do you? I think he really does want a divorce. He's now upset with me because I can't drop it. Do people really say things they don't mean or is it a cop out to admitting you spoke the truth in the heat of the moment?

2007-04-19 03:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-19 03:22:28 · 24 answers · asked by PRINCESS! 2 in Singles & Dating

Any advice on what to use (aside from condoms!!) or do, i use the above as a double entendre because yahoo answers treat me like their question-deleting-beeyatch!!

2007-04-19 03:21:34 · 4 answers · asked by dodge 1 in Singles & Dating

he has been asking me to go out with him for a while and i dont know if i should because i think he would be cheating on me. what should i do?????

2007-04-19 03:20:59 · 20 answers · asked by ms niesha need a hood boy 1 in Singles & Dating

You capture my heart
When I just hear you laugh
And though we are young
You're my missing half
When you're playing with children
And showing them love
You make my heart beat
Like your sent from above
You capture my heart
With your captivating beauty
And inspire me to make
Caring for you my duty
When you're walking, you move
With such style and grace
And I could study all day
Every line of your face
I'll search high and low
Until each other we find
But now for today
You exist in my mind
I'll learn your inner beauty
On the net when we chat
And know as you type
That my heart's where you're at
When we are apart
It's you I will miss
And long once again
To taste your sweet kiss
I'll embrace you so close
Each night and each day
But for now I will search
Till I find you .................Someday

2007-04-19 03:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

I filed a police report but the school refuses to punish this child beyond the standard, "You shouldn't have done that."

My 13 year old son was drumming his fingers in class when another 13 year old boy sitting next to him got "annoyed" and stabbed my son in the hand with a mechanical pencil to make him stop.

The boy is still in school, with little consequence, and my son is now afraid to go to school. How do I make the school do the right thing? The Superintendent is out of town until next week so I can't even talk to him about it.

Please help.

2007-04-19 03:19:38 · 27 answers · asked by Nancy D 1 in Family

Okay, to begin with, I am a loyal person. I have a really great life and don't plan on trading it off for anything less. My husband and I get along well, but there are some areas that he doesn't meet my needs. I think he knows this because he sometimes makes statements such as "when you divorce me...." which of course is ridiculous because I'm not going to tear up my family. There is a man on the side and this man is truly my soul mate. Nothing has happened that would be considered cheating. My husband knows I have a relationship with this (single/older) man and have for over 2 years. As my husband is a very intellegent(and very jealous) person, he realizes this and doesn't seem to mind...I think that his rationale is that this man is very kind to me and he believes this man really cares for me. Do you think my husband just thinks the guy is gay? LOL Or is it that he doesn't mind sharing me with this person?

2007-04-19 03:18:35 · 14 answers · asked by mzadamz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong to go out with your sisters ex-boyfriend, when really all they did was talk and they never went on a date, but she told me it was wrong to go w/ some one she talked too?

2007-04-19 03:17:26 · 38 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

Please help me find out if ive made the right choice!

2007-04-19 03:13:31 · 6 answers · asked by Jemma C 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently got accpeted to a school that I have been applying to. Its a school for singing and I have been spending the last four years of my life getting ready to be accepted to this school. The problem is that I would be leaving my family, friedns and boyfriend at home. I woul be a state awaywhile everyone that I love is here. Should I follow my dreams or stay with the people who I love the most.

2007-04-19 03:13:25 · 13 answers · asked by I love You 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I talked to my bf last night, it was probably about 11:45 at night we had a long conversation but after we got off the phone he said I might come by there but I'm not making any promises. He's at my place 5 nights a week & even when he isn't he comes by every morning to shower because his water is off at his place. When he said this I assumed that he meant he might come by last night after he got done studied but he didn't know 4 sure if he would.

I woke up this morning & felt like maybe he meant he wasn't coming by this morning. I mean he comes by everyday to take a shower, maybe I'm feeling insecure & feel like he said he wasn't going to come by this morning because he may be spending the night some where else. Am I thinking 2 hard. I mean he has a key to my place & when he comes in the morning I've already left 4 work anyway so why would he feel the need 2 mention that he may not come if I wasn't going 2 be there anyway.

2007-04-19 03:13:14 · 1 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

Can he just like me and nothing more?

2007-04-19 03:12:19 · 37 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

:D thanks! i need a single person's advise. :)

2007-04-19 03:10:59 · 12 answers · asked by Kurii 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy ( passenger on a airplane) hitted me on my butt?
i am a flight stewardes, and this guy is so, so horrible i cant be mad at him bacause he is a passenger, why he do does such thing, i wonder.... uhhhh.....

2007-04-19 03:10:46 · 21 answers · asked by Honey 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex had a messy break up 6 months ago and im with a great guy but now im finding it physically impossible to remember my ex. its like my mind is blocking it. whats wrong with me? should i be happy this is happening becuz it saves the pain of remembering? what do i do?

2007-04-19 03:09:10 · 11 answers · asked by xxsupergirl2007xx 1 in Singles & Dating

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