2007-04-19 03:35:42 · 15 answers · asked by nicolee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just tell him u think u should break up and keep the phone by ur side in case he gets out of hand call the police
2007-04-19 03:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by $$$$$$ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a friend with the same problem several years ago. She got 10 friends together both male and female to "help" her boyfriend move out on a Saturday. With so many people around he wasn't in much of a position to do anything except pout and call one of his friends for a place to stay.
He was moved out in a BIG hurry, and the locksmith was already changing the locks before the last box was packed out and he gave up the mail key willingly to get back his half of the deposit.
One of the bigger friends pulled him aside near the end of the move and mentioned to her now ex boyfriend that it would be wise to never contact her again if he "knew what he meant".
She also changed her number to unlisted. When he bumped into her later on he only scowled and walked away muttering.
Hope this helps!
2007-04-19 03:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is notify the police. Let them know your situation and have someone come out. You don't need a court order or anything, unless they tell you. Once this happens and he's gone, make sure you change all of the locks on your doors. If you come home one night and he's there waiting, call the police, don't speak with him on your own. All of this will also create a paper trail and make sure you keep documents yourself. Since he's the violent type, things won't get any better with him I'm afraid to say. Just becareful and also let friends and family know what's going on.
2007-04-19 03:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it is your place and yours alone then I would suggest finding a new place, letting him know when you are moving but not where to and have someone with you at all times if you truly believe he may be violent.
2007-04-19 03:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to be in for a long drawn out struggle.
Its not like he is a renter or anything like that. He lives there also.
Yo will have to go to your magistrates office and get a notice to vacate, not an eviction, and wait the time out. It costs more and there are more legal hurdles to jump over. In the time being try to get a restraining order to where he can't come back.
2007-04-19 03:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as the place is in your name only tell him he's out. if you feel he may be violent, call the local p.d. they can send someone over to escort him out. change the locks and make sure he has EVERYTHING with him when he goes. that leaves him with no excuse to come back. if you still feel threatened, get a restraining order against him. good luck to you.
2007-04-19 04:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not on the lease then when he is out change the locks. Have his belongings boxed up and ready for him to pick up on the front porch. If need be get a restraining order.
2007-04-19 03:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. I couldn't get him to leave, so i did. I talked to my landlord and explained the situation and he was very helpful. So one day when he wasn't home i packed everything up and left. You may have to do the same. Good Luck!
2007-04-19 03:44:50 · answer #8 · answered by Ammarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the police have him removed, get a restraining order out against him, change the locks on all doors and widows, get a security system put in, change your phone number, learn self defense and get a concealed weapons permit in case he tries to attack you. do anything and everything you are able to protect yourself from this guy......this type of guy is very dangerous and needs to be put in jail, for he sounds like he enjoys violence against women......do what you have to in order to protect yourself
2007-04-19 03:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by bubba gumps light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have even the slightest thing to do with a baby(that is what he is) who has"anger" problems. Call the police if he even raises his voice at you.
2007-04-19 06:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he on the lease? If he's on the lease you unfortunatley can't kick him out. But if he's not you can get a police officer to escort him from the property. I would also get a PFA against him if he is violent. Good luck hun
2007-04-19 03:39:16 · answer #11 · answered by ash 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋