My boyfriend is sweet to me......thats what i think. But all of my friends think that he treats me like crap. He has a job but is always asking me to buy him things and i have had to cut off all friendships with guys.....
2007-04-19 03:35:09 · 6 answers · asked by beck<3. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he is treating you badly. He sounds selfish and insecure which isn't a good combination. If he has a job why are you buying everything? If you have to cut off all ties with your guy friends because of him, that's telling me he's jealous and insecure, and who needs that? He's manipulating you by being sweet to you so you won't leave him. It's time to cut your losses and move on.
2007-04-19 03:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think you gave enough information to really give advice on it. There could be reasons for why he does the things he does.
But if your friends say he's treating you badly, then I think you should take that into consideration. Your friends can see your relationship from a perspective that you can't. And if your friends are the type of people who really care about you and that you can count on, then I don't think they would make it up.
If you've had to cut off friendships with guys, then he definitely has some jealousy issues that you should be aware of. ANd if you're unhappy with him asking to buy things for him, then you need to sit and directly talk to him about. It could be that he just doesn't realize it and needs someone to say something.
So give it a try and just see what happens. Good Luck.
2007-04-19 10:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Roses ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are having doubts then maybe he is treating you bad, you only told a small portion of what he does but I do know that if he has a job he shouldnt be making you pay for things of his with your money he is a user and a leach, and if he is telling you who to hang around he is also controlling ,if you stay in this relationship something bad could happen and you could be headed to heartaches and pains you dont want, I mean does your friends usually judge your boyfriends like they do him... if ALL of them are telling you that he has a problem you need to consider it (REALLY)!!!
2007-04-19 10:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a job, he should be buying things for himself or for both of you guys. the fact that he is telling you to buy things for him and telling you to stay of guy friends, he wants control over you. and/or he doesn't trust you with guy friends.
2007-04-19 10:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by (♥_♥) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better get rid of him now. Him asking you to buy him things is bullsh!t. And it's going to get worse. He's a user.
2007-04-19 10:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your doubting yourself then YES
2007-04-19 10:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋