Please help me find out if ive made the right choice!
2007-04-19 03:13:31 · 6 answers · asked by Jemma C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I split with my fiance - we were meant to be getting married in september - feel as if we were just best friends for the last year - should that have been enough or did i do the right thing by ending it?
2007-04-19 03:20:00 · update #1
First off, what was the decision you had to make? it's hard to answer your question without even minimum details....but in general, you have to think long and hard about the problem and decision you need to make, then let it go!! for at least a day or two........you cannot rush into an important decision...you must be sure you are well-rested and not upset, angry, etc...yes, this is hard to do, but if you are any of those things, your ability to make a wise decision will suffer...if you don't mind giving me more details, I'll be glad to help out further; email whenever you like...
2007-04-19 03:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the specifics of your relationship so I'm gonna assume you thought that out before you made the decision. The right decision isn't selfish. Even if that means hurting the other person because he/she doesn't know how much better they'd be without you. The safest way to make a good decision is to think things through before you do something stupid. (Not saying that you did or didn't) I always take into consideration of the effects it will have on the other person involved too (both long and short term) and not just about myself. Like I said, don't be selfish. Then make a decision you'll be able to live with. And if you can't, sometimes, you can go back.... If you feel you've make a bad decision in this case, you might be able to go back otherwise move on. Good luck.
2007-04-19 03:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by David C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say that if you have to make a decision about something you need to talk to a higher power that is GOD and let him lead you in the right way. When every you make a big or little decision let GOD have his way.
2007-04-19 03:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need the Magic Eight Ball
2007-04-19 03:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the something? RIGHT GET RID BABES,,, im free haha
2007-04-19 03:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u feel you r peace of mind
2007-04-19 03:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by amirat7oby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋