Family & Relationships - 19 April 2007

2007-04-19 05:49:47 · 37 answers · asked by Tess 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend got into a huge fight yeasterday and we kinda work it out on the phone but we still have that fire that we had yesterday when we was fighting. He said he would come over so we could work it out but i am scared that when he comes over we just gonna fight. can anyone tell me what to do in order for us to not fight and work it out. Thank you

2007-04-19 05:47:35 · 19 answers · asked by mrs.foster8_11_09 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-19 05:47:26 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-19 05:46:34 · 31 answers · asked by Voight-Kampff 3 in Singles & Dating

I had a fling with the guy who i share an apartment with and we ended things only because of diffrencies ...Well i wanted to become his friend but after we agree on nothing more than friendship...We stopped talking and i dunno why...Its been a week and 5 days and everytime i do try to talk to him he is always kinda rude so i just forget even trying if he is gonna be rude to me...I think i made a mistake because we both work at the same office and i told one of our co-workers who is a guy and his friend that we havent spoken and i dont give a care if we do or not but i only said that because i was mad at the time. My friend saw that we wasnt talking so she asked him whats up and how come we dont talk anymore and he said because Juan (the guy i told) told him what i said and it made him feel bad so he just stopped talking all togethor...She told him that it was bothering me and he said it was bothing him too but last night he wouldn't try talking to me not even once and like i said when

2007-04-19 05:46:16 · 9 answers · asked by L♥VIN LIFE 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i met and he seems like a real nice guy. Well just the other day he asked me out, i told him it's really complicating for me because there is this other guy who wants to go out with me. The reason why it is so complicating is because i just met this guy. And the other guy i have known for 3 years. I am just so confused mostly on what i want. I want to date both because they both make me feel like iam a person worth while. It's just hard to tell each that i am not ready for a realtionship until i know for sure. How can i tell them both how i feel about them with out each getting mad with me?

2007-04-19 05:45:44 · 21 answers · asked by Kidd 2 in Singles & Dating

I reallly like this girl a lot, and she knows I like her. However I haven't told her yet. We hung out today, and she was really fun/funny to hang out with. However I just get the feeling as though she dosen't like me the way I like her. We talk and laugh, but she flirts and talks about other guys all the time. Even though I'm not her Boyfriend It does kind of make me jealous because I really like her. Should I just tell her I like her, or should i just play it cool and remain friends with her? She calls me randomly out of nowhere and we talk about serious stuff and stupid stuff, but I just don't get the feeling she likes me. I have a lot of money which might be the reason why she hangs out and talks to me. I don't know though, what are some signs that would show a guy that a grl likes him? Another thing today that was just awkward was when we were hanging out with a bunch of her friends, I just talked on my cell phone because I didn't know her friends, and I felt really awkward.

2007-04-19 05:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

We had gotten married right before he deployed so we were still newly weds. I found out I was pregnant after he left and after a little while he starting talking to girls on-line and getting their phone numbers. He says that was just to relieve stress from being overseas and it means nothing. He says that he loves me and that it wasn't cheating because it was just emails. He says now that he is home he is not going to do anything like that anymore. Should I believe him or is he going to continue to do this plus more ?

2007-04-19 05:43:31 · 50 answers · asked by nessa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need u to pray or hope for the school counties in my area . ( Thats about 40-50 schools) last night a church right next to my school got a call . This guy is about 28 and he was on meth at the time. He said he would make VT look mild , he has a gun and poisin, and he wants to commit suicide. im sooo scared . my mom came to pic me up . all schools are on lockdown but still... i love my friends and every1 and i want NOTHING to happen to them . this is sooo scary . please pray or something ....... i need u to pray tht this man is arrested , that every1 will be ok and that i can be strong and my friends can be strong . please dont take this lightly . this is VERY scary . im only 14 and idk wht to do ! im sooo scared . i realized we arent promised tomorrow and right now there are so many things i need to tell pple who i know who go to so many of these schools . im glad im safe but i know a lot of my friends and pple i know arent. our county is in a panic so also pray for a calming spirit.

2007-04-19 05:42:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Imagine that you have been seeing someone for 6months but now you are both in separate countries, but will be together in same country soon. However, while u have been apart, u have met someone and started to see them, but she has now found out about the girl u were seeing before her and technically still are. She confronts u about the other girl, (bearing in mind that in 3 weeks u r leaving ur country for 6 months to where the other girl would be), what would ur reaction be to the confrontation? would u want to be kind to the girl that u have just met to spare her feelings and not hurt her?

2007-04-19 05:42:39 · 27 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

What do guys think about when they have a crush on a certain girl? does he think about what she whould look like n****? does he think about what s** whould be like with her. the guy that likes me always lifts his eyebrows at and i wonder what he looks at to make him do that?

2007-04-19 05:42:30 · 16 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

Im the type of female who loves to wear sexy clothing in the privacy of my own home.Or some times I prefer to be completely nude, I don't have a man or anything but I was just curious to know how any of you men felt about your woman doing such a thing and is it a turn on or a turn off. And I wanted to know if there were any women out there who felt secure enough about teir bodies and sexuality too try this. Because I see a lot of women who get angry about their husbands wanting them to dress sexy for them while doing housework, you washing dishes, laundry, cleaning, etc etc.Because they feel that their husbands look at them as sex objects.But I say so what! And who cares! Im that type of woman who loves doing those kinds of things as well as putting on a strip show and dancing for my man I love it , its like a passion and a honor to peform this type of behaviour . So men and women how do you feel about all of this?

2007-04-19 05:41:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was driving me crazy and pushing my buttons. I found myself getting upset and almost got physical with her, so I immediately seperated myself from the situation to calm down. I am planning on getting back together with her this Sunday. I cleaned my house up and added some plants since she was always whining about the smell and cleanliness. I quit smoking for both of us. What else can I be doing to legitimize all the time Ive taken off from her?

2007-04-19 05:40:44 · 5 answers · asked by mmikle 2 in Singles & Dating

tell me bout' the last book in the bible!! I had a friend to tell me half tell me the rest!!!

2007-04-19 05:39:49 · 4 answers · asked by dark_angel 1 in Friends

Do you think I have made a bad start by asking a question rather than answering one first?

2007-04-19 05:39:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He comes in bed with the computer on his lap. He wakes up and first thing he does is check the computer. It is taking up so much of his free time. I have talked with him about how it bothers me but he won't stop. Am I wrong to ask him to give up a hobby he loves?

2007-04-19 05:39:07 · 19 answers · asked by Rockinrobin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It has been over 2 mths since the breakup. I'm really tired of going through mood swings. One moment, I'm feeling better that he's out of my life. The next moment, I miss him so much and I just wish that I could be with him again...

How do I deal with all of these??

2007-04-19 05:36:35 · 27 answers · asked by Grace 3 in Singles & Dating

He needs to be Blonde hair and Brown eyes

2007-04-19 05:36:08 · 20 answers · asked by Erica 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since I have started dating, the boyfriends I end up with always end up hurting me. Jan. of last year, one of my ex's cheated on me right and front of me. And later on during the summer, I found out that one of my past boyfriends were cheating on me with three different girls and engaged to another one too. At the same time, I started dating another guy but later on during the Fall, he wanted to enslave me.... Why is this always happening to me? Why can I not just find the right guy ? But then again... how can I really know if this guy is my Lifemate? How am I to regain my trust in the male species?

2007-04-19 05:35:59 · 15 answers · asked by Angel Of Lost Souls 2 in Singles & Dating

well we ve been married for 2 months now and my hubby is a nice guy, but good god he is so messy. :( he has been living alone for 8 years and i guess he cleans up the place only on weekend. he does the same now. do i let the stuff lie around until the weekend ? if he does help its simply not good. how do i make him understand that its important to me ?

2007-04-19 05:35:22 · 7 answers · asked by Sweety 2 in Family

(teens) I read just about everything E.R.Burroughs wrote, you know Tarzan, John Carter of Mars. It had an effect on me. There was nothing Tarzan wouldn't do to protect and keep Jane. That guy even broke a lions back that was after Jane, with his bare hands! When Jane was rescued from Africa she went all the way back to England, maybe it was America? Does that stop Tarzan from getting her back? Hell No, he goes all the way to England or America to reclaim his mate. (And they hadn't even had sex yet!) He didn't even know where England or the U.S.A. was.That really got to me. I'm all grown up now. But I still retain that romantic notion instilled in me from reading those books. The idea that a woman is special and LOVE between a man & woman should be an unbreakable bond. Tarzan and Jane had the kind of Love. Is this stupid to feel this way? Is it wrong to want to go out on a limb for her, to respect her, even whorship her. Should I not want to give her the last bite of my only bannana?

2007-04-19 05:34:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've told you once, i've told you a.......now......never......again....!

2007-04-19 05:32:54 · 12 answers · asked by trueblueplayaz 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I dated this guy and we broke up.A month or two later he asked me to a formal dinner/dance.I was dating another guy at the time.I told him I was planning on breaking uip with him anyway.So I agreed to go.We danced and he even kissed me.It's now been about a month and he hasn't rly talked to me at all.He thinks that I lied to him about the time that i broke up with my BF.A friend of mine talks to him alot and says that he still likes me.She says he's playin hard to get.What do you think.Any advise.I still rly like him.Should I just forget him or what?

2007-04-19 05:32:50 · 4 answers · asked by Sunny D 1 in Singles & Dating

im REALLY confused.. i'm 13 years old and i ask this girl (same age) out. She said no.... thought in a nice way :) but... ever scince then....
when someone is in love with another person you can't help looking at them. In lessons for example she'll try and sit as near as possilble ...(we have 4 and sought of 5 lessons each week) she would always say hi when ever we walk past each other but usualy.. im jsut to shy to asnwer back and today.. i was in the luch queue, and her and her m8s came aswell i didn't really look but she stoot nxt to me and i had my hand sligthy closed and a bit open and she starting i think... rubbing her had agaisnt mine..... and then says "hi julian" and being an idiot i would be.. i smiled and waved my hand...im so shy.. anyway....... what do you think this tells u? i dont know if i've already asked this question if so sorry..:) thank you

2007-04-19 05:32:12 · 17 answers · asked by apples and pears 4 in Singles & Dating

I was a late starter and was 26 and it was in a hotel near Chichester.

2007-04-19 05:31:31 · 56 answers · asked by Pearl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently borke off a relationship with the love of my life. Mostly due to the fact that he is not ready to date anyone serious. He just got out of a 20 year relationship/marriage in Dec 06'. It has been three weeks, and I cant stop thinkin about him or wanting to call him and try to work out something. Even if it means to just see each other on a casual basis. I love him and want him back in my life. He was my best friend and now, i find myslef being bumbed out and starting to do stupid things.... like wanting to call or just stop by. UGH

I love him...

~Sad in love~

2007-04-19 05:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by Mitch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this weird relationship with one of my friends,we recently slept together for the first time but im not sure it was the right decision as our realionship is annoying, one minute we get on fine we laughing,messing about the next minute were having massive arguements over little things.he said im the only person who can get to him.

2007-04-19 05:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I have really hard trouble verbally expressing myself to anyone, especially my boyfriend. I've never said the words "i love you" verbally to him (but I want to) because I grew up hating love until I found him. He tells me how he feels verbally and It makes me happy and fall in love with him more, but I just upset at myself that I cant return the same thing.

But what I do is write him email and letters or leave long messages on his AIM telling him how I feel because it is the only place I can really express myself without being speechless or tongue twisted or afraid. Do you think its wrong of me to only express myself through written words then spoken?

I've tried to tell him how i feel verbally, but it doesn't come out and I stuck there in silence. If it matters in any way, we've been together for 1yr+

But at times, I feel like I'm being desperate whenever I leave him letters or messages over internet expressing my worries/thoughts/love/feelings/doubts/anything. anyone else?

2007-04-19 05:29:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What harm can it do?
An old boyfriend and I want to meet up once a month for you know what. I don't want him. He is married and lives 1200 miles away. He goes on with his life and I go on with mine.
Don't have any diseases. Not seeng anyone else.

2007-04-19 05:27:40 · 54 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have 3 kids (her 1 and my 2) and got married a year ago. It’s been rough blending issues and dealing with a new marriage. She is convinced that if I won’t have a kid with her, I love my ex. Wife more than her. I understand her point but my point is that I love her 10 times more than my ex. But because of our kids from previous relationships I’m not sure we have the time, energy, or resources to have another one. Has nothing to do if I love her or not. Doesn’t help that she’s turning 30 and feeling that clock ticking. Also doesn’t help that my ex. Wife is thin, blonde, and tall (she’s short and has gained 20 pounds since we got married). She just is convinced that because I don’t have a kid with her I’ll go back to my ex. Wife because I had kids with her and won’t with my wife. It has nothing to do with love but resources and time. I don’t want another one right now. It’s too much and she knows it but her emotions are running the show. I’m afraid she will leave and create a self fulfilling prophecy about this marriage if she doesn’t start seeing things clearly. What can I do?

2007-04-19 05:26:34 · 21 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce