I recently borke off a relationship with the love of my life. Mostly due to the fact that he is not ready to date anyone serious. He just got out of a 20 year relationship/marriage in Dec 06'. It has been three weeks, and I cant stop thinkin about him or wanting to call him and try to work out something. Even if it means to just see each other on a casual basis. I love him and want him back in my life. He was my best friend and now, i find myslef being bumbed out and starting to do stupid things.... like wanting to call or just stop by. UGH
I love him...
~Sad in love~
2007-04-19 05:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by Mitch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And I just found out from his best friend that he was cheating on me the entire time we were together. And is still seeing one of the hoes. UGH! I am so mad now...what a fool I am.
2007-04-19 08:12:10 · update #1
I am in a similar situation. I know its hard, really hard, but you have to try to give him space. If he wants you, he will come back and if he doesn't well too bad for him (he is the one that doesn't get to have sweet, wonderful you).
Build your own life and make yourself happy.
2007-04-19 05:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-04-19 11:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mark V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him how much you miss him. Tell him you need to see him if it is just on a casual basis. You might have to take things a little slow with him being he is just getting over a bad marriage. Don't pressure him into anything. Just be there for him and he'll be greatful for you. Hang in there. Good luck!
2007-04-19 05:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously aren't going to feel any better until you call. But once you do, that has to be it. He doesn't want to get serious, and that isn't going to change by you calling him or stopping by. Agonizing over the break-up will just make you feel worse, and is he really worth all that? Take a day and pamper yourself...new outfit, nails, the works. You need to remember how special you are so that it won't be so hard to let go of a guy that doesn't deserve your affections.
2007-04-19 05:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by flowerbug26 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 22:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well breaking up is a bummer but if u keep bothering him u might not ever see him again, if it takes now and then to see him, well then respect that...I was in a 13 yr marriage and i never got involved with no one...just didnt have it to give exept to my kids and grandaughter...And he might be the same...I think its hard to open ur self up to somone again,after u have been through a long marriage... think of it this way .. he might need a rally long time, 3 wks isnt enough to knowhow u feel... a friend of mine married her best friend and i stress best freind.... got married and after a few monhs he broke her jaw...so lighten up give him is space. and be that friend that he might need
2007-04-19 05:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest you not head to temptation. Calling him will only make you seem desperate. If he isn't ready to be in a relationship then you are wasting your time. Move on with your life and find someone who is willing to share the same life you are seeking.
2007-04-19 05:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is the one you really want to be with give it sometime. How long have you been seeing each other could it be things where just moving to fast for him and scared him off.
2007-04-19 05:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by michelleb0701 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be friends. The man has been locked up for twenty years. If he wants you he will buz you..
2007-04-19 05:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by jed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and call him.All the best.
2007-04-19 05:35:29 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋