I had a fling with the guy who i share an apartment with and we ended things only because of diffrencies ...Well i wanted to become his friend but after we agree on nothing more than friendship...We stopped talking and i dunno why...Its been a week and 5 days and everytime i do try to talk to him he is always kinda rude so i just forget even trying if he is gonna be rude to me...I think i made a mistake because we both work at the same office and i told one of our co-workers who is a guy and his friend that we havent spoken and i dont give a care if we do or not but i only said that because i was mad at the time. My friend saw that we wasnt talking so she asked him whats up and how come we dont talk anymore and he said because Juan (the guy i told) told him what i said and it made him feel bad so he just stopped talking all togethor...She told him that it was bothering me and he said it was bothing him too but last night he wouldn't try talking to me not even once and like i said when
2007-04-19 05:46:16 · 9 answers · asked by L♥VIN LIFE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whenever i try he is just rude...If i didnt live with him i wouldnt care but i do and i dont want it to be like this between us...I still have semi feelings for him and i care for him lots ...I dunno what to do? I am going out of town tomorrow and ill be gone a week...Do you think that when i come back he will have thought about whats going on and talk to me then?????
2007-04-19 05:48:13 · update #1
yes it was big mistake doing that, one of you needs to move it... what is this drama city?
2007-04-19 05:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. November 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok your biggest misstake was sleeping with him! But now that yall are no longer a thing he is moving on and if yall stay friends you will be in the way if he ever gets with another girl. Which not to be mean but from the sounds of it he already has. Sorry but good luck
2007-04-19 12:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't have sex with a guy and then just want to be friends, that would be absurd. He doesn't want you to be your friend, he whats what you gave him. You need to either become a friend with benefits, or stop being friends with him and one of you move out. There is no other options as you have already crossed the line.
It was foolish of you to think you can just be friends.
2007-04-19 12:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once sex becomes involved it is hard for a man to go back to being your friend. he might be afraid that you still want to be more than friends. try reassuring him when he gets back that you just want to be friends and there are no further feelings. he might need time to think and straighten out his feelings for you, he might not know what he is feeling. men tend to need space to think things through. they arent always good at communicating how they feel. give him some time.
just my opinion.
2007-04-19 12:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is enjoying the attention he is getting from you by ignoring you. Maybe you should think about another roommate?
2007-04-19 12:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the power of love
Power Of Love - Huey Lewis & The News (HQA)
2007-04-19 12:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what are u waiting for...rush to his apartment and talk to him..Good luck
2007-04-19 12:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by HereToAnswer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find out!
2007-04-19 12:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think so, maybe he will reconsider.
2007-04-19 13:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋