Family & Relationships - 16 April 2007

Hi so I've been wondering this for a while and since Yahoo! answers came out I thougt hey now I can ask so....

I'm 21 and I'm HIV+and have been for 3 years. Completely healthy and stable. I work full-time great guy blah blah blah so on and so forth. I've been with both men and women. But as I'm becoming a bit older I realize I only want to be with women and I want the whole picket fenc dog yard and all that fun stuff one day. I was wondering if I would ever find a woman who isn't halfway around the world who would accept my status. I know I'll probably get a lot of responses saying it's all about love but... My question is I guess this is for the ladies... If you went out on a date and found out the guy you were dating had HIV what would you do? How would you like to find out? Would you date a REALLY GOOD GUY that just happened to have HIV? Or am I totally screwed?

2007-04-16 23:52:28 · 12 answers · asked by just_wondering 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 23:46:09 · 12 answers · asked by tammy h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a person who hates manipulator or robot maker. But then there are really existing individuals in this world. I hope everybody will learn to love themselves by not allowing this!

2007-04-16 23:40:09 · 1 answers · asked by kath 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister told me that many of her female coworkers are single and not looking. Why? Don't women want to be with a man?

2007-04-16 23:35:04 · 17 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

k for you regulars here - you will know that my best mate is a guy whose girlfriend has been trying it on with another guy that I know - when what she had been doing came out in the open - her bf met up with this guy who showed him text messages with her saying she wanted to be with him etc. During this time she slated me to the other guy - today her bf (my best mate) has told her that he knows what she was doing behind his back and what a surprise - she has tried to blame for it saying she was only talking to him to try and set me up with him and that Im a b!tch that never wanted her going out with my best mate and was trying to break us up from day one. This is total crap as me and her had become friends with me obviously not realising what she was saying behind my back.
My question is this - now that her and the bf have split up - I feel she will hold me as responsible when telling people why they broke up - what is my best way to deal with this?

2007-04-16 23:30:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-16 23:28:08 · 8 answers · asked by imu m 1 in Weddings

This morning my step dad and his son had a huge bust up his son is 16, he was meant to be getting ready for school but he start getting lippy towards my step dad and then it all hit off and my step dad punched him a couple times in the face and his son punched him back . My step dad is a police officer and deals with fraud i know what he's done is wrong and my mum and me r wondering if he would lose is job over this? his son has gone crying to his mum and his mum is going to lie saying she gave my step dad the split lip not her son and say that my step dad started on her son for no reason.

2007-04-16 23:19:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

New at a restraunt and often called peers to trade shifts- which led to one host to call daily and consistently to gab for hours. by the time he made his desire for a ralationship clear, we had gotten to know eachother by phone; though not to my satisfaction- I doubted the sincerity of a 19 y.o. who threw parties on weekdays & whom i could hardly distinguish the level of alcohol content @ a given moment. Honestly i by no means tried to lead him on, though it may seem so as i am sometimes naive and friendly. In days follwing his rejection, he began dating a mutual friend- in a relationship of convience (for months). Though even when he's w/ her, shows signs of his attraction to me. However, he is so verbally hostile/angry/aggressive towards when i have to work/talk with him. My question is, is it his damaged ego that makes him act that way, is he still smitten w/ me or does he hate me & find me unbearable? & how can i rise above & communicate effectively & professionally w/ him at work?

2007-04-16 23:01:17 · 3 answers · asked by Natalia 1 in Singles & Dating

She is not really fat i just try to get her to lose some pounds. She is 5.4-5.5 126pounds. I told her i wanted her to be around 115. I am working on my weight and she blows me off when i ask her if she wants to work out.

2007-04-16 22:55:49 · 42 answers · asked by alrazod 1 in Singles & Dating

In other words, is it an appropriate thing to do if you thing its right to propose to your girlfriend in highschool but you both know that you'll get married when your like 20-25 years old? Not saying to avoid doing it later but say you have the money now for an expensive ring and you feel you are at the peak of your relationship, is it acceptable?

2007-04-16 22:52:48 · 13 answers · asked by ProFessa_Connartyst 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 22:52:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend asked me to wear her tights (pantyhose). To be honest I enjoyed it and found them something of a turn on. However, I am not sure how I should respond if she asks me again, I am straight and I don't know if I want to make a habit out of it.

2007-04-16 22:50:48 · 28 answers · asked by Carlos Gomez 2 in Singles & Dating

round after just waving to your neighbour, while you were out sweeping the garden, to walk with your head smack into a wall, and not have headache....?

2007-04-16 22:49:36 · 7 answers · asked by yahoobloo 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-16 22:46:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriends parents are 30 years married on Friday and I still havent gotten them a present. We have been going out for over two years, so I really have to get them a present, and a good one at that... :(

Anyone have any good ideas/suggestions?

2007-04-16 22:44:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've really been missing my ex-fiance for the last couple of weeks. We havent talked since around January (I stopped talking to her) and I've been wondering if it's a bad idea to send her an email telling her that I miss her.

2007-04-16 22:44:37 · 12 answers · asked by Jesse B 1 in Singles & Dating

Do really men leave their wives to go and live with their lovers? How many of you can say that you had an affair and he has left his wife to marry you?

My theory is that married men do never leave their wives. In fact, men do never leave, its always woman who leave.

2007-04-16 22:40:34 · 27 answers · asked by Sesoid 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 22:39:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he have no clue about his gf is cheating on him.His gf is my friend.But she's a *****.She talk to me like she's ok with me.But it's the other way around.
we're not in the same school.but we'll be seeing each other a lot this year for the same activity each year...i think my apearrences is great and his cute either...how to win his heart???help me....

2007-04-16 22:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by radleef J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 22:37:04 · 7 answers · asked by lover 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm in a relationship with a man who is divorced his wife about a year ago , who can i treat him so that he underestands that not all girls are the same , and he can be relaxed and be loved with me and that i'm not thinking about marrige &...

2007-04-16 22:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been seeing a girl on and off for 2 years, she has moved to england twice to to live with me but simply cant settle here, she has a good job in holland and a great life, i have the same here, a great job and a very charmed life!
i cant live with without her and she feels the same.
now she wants me to move there, she will take of everything and i realy want to move there, i dont speak the language and i not sure what i will do as a job, should i move and give everything up? or should i stay and end it?

2007-04-16 22:33:06 · 14 answers · asked by damien t 1 in Singles & Dating

I have ignored her every time she say she likes me, yes I do believd that she really love me, but we are both married and Im afraid of the consequencies, but I miss her when she was gone. I could hardly sleep for almost a week since she is gone, always checking my mailbox for her message, but hurts when find out nothing. I think of her every time I wake up, even thoug in the middle of the night. Is this really a love?.. or I just miss her coz she is gone?... I never told her I like her too..

2007-04-16 22:31:55 · 5 answers · asked by palaboy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on a guy. We talk on msn and we stay in contact by messages. My friends told me that he also has a crush on me because we met up and started french kising. But we've only met once. I think he is shy to tell me that he likes me. Should I tell him that I like him, or what???

2007-04-16 22:31:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 22:28:10 · 3 answers · asked by modjgan d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There will come a day
when your tears of sorrow
will softly flow into tears of remembrance...
and your heart will begin to heal itself...
and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...
and you will hear the whisper of hope.
There will come a day
when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...
as a sunshower of the soul...
a turning of the tide...
a promise of peace.
There will come a day when you will...
risk loving...
go on believing...
and treasure the tears of remembering.

2007-04-16 22:26:39 · 9 answers · asked by Fader's Girl 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

We talk to eachother constantly on msn and facebook. BUt physically we barely talk. Although on my b-day there were signs like she sat beside me, and gave me pics of us on her cell, i don't know whether it is a frdly jesture or not. although we don't talk much when we keep it short. When there are flirting chances like spare-time, she spends it with other ppl, pretty much everyone except me. BUt she someones does like touch me like feels my abs, touches my arms and stuff. But dude this is confusing, does she like me? if so what should i do next?

2007-04-16 22:25:23 · 2 answers · asked by treborplus 1 in Singles & Dating

wats the scientific reasons behind this

2007-04-16 22:24:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you told your husband early in your relationship that you would never be a with a drug user, and he understood and agreed never to use drugs, then started using drugs 2 years after you were married, and told you he would never stop, no matter what you thought, would you leave him?

2007-04-16 22:20:26 · 28 answers · asked by BobTheBlazer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have decided I want to try my best to try and get my ex back. She ended things 3 mths ago as "her feelings had changed". They changed pretty quickly, 3 wks before she was telling me she loved me, she said we should move in etc

I was gutted when things ended. I decided to give her space for a while. She got back into contact with me. She met and she was clearly interested and acting as if she still had feelings for me. The next time I met she was the opposite.

So I decided to write to her and say how I felt. We had a long chat. She said in reply I "was a wonderful person and whoever I ended up with would be as lucky to meet me as she was". I found that weird. She later said that she didn't say that.

I decided that I was getting nowhere talking to her about us so I decided on no contact.

After a mth maybe I will re-contact her. What should I do to try and get her back? I am thinking I don't mention the relationship but just work on getting to know each other again? Tips?

2007-04-16 22:19:08 · 12 answers · asked by hantsguy1977 1 in Singles & Dating