Family & Relationships - 16 April 2007

She claimed to be a Virgin and they married. Now they're getting a divroce because he found out she lied and was not a Virgin. Is that a good excuse for divorce?

2007-04-16 20:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its not as simple as it sounds.
ok here it goes. I'm currently dating this girl for more than 2 months now. I think she has an awesome personality and cute... but the problem is I'm not really falling in love with her. I just started talking to my ex (who is like the most gorgeous girl in the world...she's like an angel to me!) a few days ago...and only to find out that she still has feelings for me. I really did loved and still love my ex. Now i'm in a situation where no matter what i choose...someone is going to get hurt badly... I am so freakin lost. I dont know what to do?!?!?

(1) Would it be too bad/cruel to break up with my current gf just be with the girl who i love the most?
or
(2) Should I stay loyal to my current gf...and just sacrifice/disregard my intense feelings of love for my ex?

2007-04-16 20:21:24 · 21 answers · asked by confused zer0 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife makes me mad she's alway's gambling and flirting with other guys. I got alittle buzzed so I went over to her cousins house we both got really drunk and I cornered her in the kitchen and we started making out. I really want her so bad I can't stop dreaming about her, I can't tell my wife but one of her family members might they've seen me over there. I said I was just fixing her car. what should I do?

2007-04-16 20:13:15 · 8 answers · asked by Semper fi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 20:07:17 · 6 answers · asked by nils 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks for the immediate replies. I wanted to tell you all one more thing I had a relationship (by all means)before marriage. But he is a married guy and having children. He still loves me because of this dissatisfaction I was tempted to continue the relationship.Even as per my horoscope it is predicted that I would be dissatisfied with my married life and I would continue to have this relationship and will have a child thro him.I am just maitaining this married relationship just for my familys sake. That person is not getting enough affection from his wife that is why this relationship with me .

2007-04-16 20:05:00 · 6 answers · asked by janu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hard on cause he says its like I can't get in...he swears by this, and it usually happens after having sex a few hours prior.
Also is it possible that a man can be to sore from having too much sex?
He says this too and yes we do, do it alot. But I have never heard of this, mind you my ex was crappy in the bedroom.
Seriously, are those real things that can happen to a man?
Im 26 and I had a kid so I find it hard to believe I could be too tight for him!
But he swears I am.

2007-04-16 20:04:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

his courting this young lady. He got a 6-yr old kid. Can be? What do you think would be their life together?

2007-04-16 19:55:17 · 14 answers · asked by sweety_posh:=) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 19:53:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

sex videos regularly that too he likes to watch it alone is it normal watching it daily, due to this habbit my freind is very upset is that guy nornal?

2007-04-16 19:49:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Men/Guys: I would appreciate an insight of the male mind. Serious anwers only please.

Long story short: I dated a guy. He turns out to be engaged.I never take his calls after that. He calls me even after he gets married leaving me crazy messages,"I can't believe U -R doing this!" blah. blah blah. Yeah, I was hurt. I was betrayed,deceived, angry, very upset. The worst part was a trying to understand how the heck it happened & how I became the "mistress". I was p#ss#d!
He ran in2 my b.f. & told her about his "wife" &the "wedding" &the house they bought, &his "wife's" career. My b.f. didn't even ask him. She doesn't even know him! He just knew who she was & volunteeres this info. Why? Obviously he knows I'll find out. But why do it? What's his real intentions besides the obvious?
I ran in2 him this weekend @ a diner. He has a baby now. It was weird. What does he do? Taking the long way out, walks by my table.
What's he doing? After 3 years he still plays this games? Why?

2007-04-16 19:48:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she was sober, he was high.

2007-04-16 19:37:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey I was reading some of the answers that I got and thought I should say a bit more about the situation ! She is 27 I am 28 and He is 37 He stole her right out of highschool when she was only 19 and she did have a bit of family trouble growing up , She told me that at one time he was all she had ! But we get along great my family likes her and she likes them ( Unlike some of his ) I have this feeling that she is codependant on him as maybe a father figure ( he is old enough ) lol and maybe that has something to do with her going back to him ?? she told me that we have a passion between us that she had never felt before ! Everyone that she knows pretty much told her that she is making a bad decision but she just bucks it and says that she has to do this because she feels that it might be the last time that she can put herself first ! I just don't know why if two ppl love eachother and are having a baby like we are why she wouldn't want to try to have a healthy relationship ??

2007-04-16 19:34:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If I want something, They tell me to pay for it myself. I tell them I cant because I dont have a job and they tell me im not getting a job.
Im 13 turning 14 in about 6 months and where I live you can get a job as soon as you turn 13.
My parents have set up this thing where if I do something around the house I get money for it. But i find the prices are unfair. We have quite a large house and one of the rules are for $3 vacumn the whole house which takes me 2 hours. Things like that. Im not aloud to babysit or wash cars either. Im also a only child.
My parents expect me to earn at least $40 a month by the thing they made. I usually only make $15. I need to pay for my $30 a month cell phone bill, All my outtings, Anything fun I want to do..etc..
I know I could easily get a job. But they wont let me.
My friends parents told me it isnt up to my parents to decide whether I should get a job, Its up to the person who hires me.
Im not sure what to do.
Do you have any ideas?

2007-04-16 19:29:34 · 6 answers · asked by OhReally 2 in Family

My husband and i live next door to his family. his sick mother and unmarried two sisters live there. they all own alot of business together (which was managed by their father but who died two years ago), so now my husband manages it.. his mother is very lazy and complains of all the illnesses.she gets my husband to do things for her. my sisters in law are also basically to them selves. so my husband always is in and out of their house next door seeng to their matters. sometimes their curtains are so dirty but no one their bothers to clean it. my husband goes their and gets it done for them. they have a maid to cook for them. since i work i dont cook so we go to that house for meals.(that’s good!) as his mother complains of illness now my husband would like to sleep with her sometimes. i insist in coming too, so we both sleep with her. he is obsessed with his family and i think i tolerate alot. I feel sorry for myself. but he thinks it is part of my job too. he says sorry but thats it!

2007-04-16 19:22:45 · 8 answers · asked by Ellen 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what would be the first thing you do if you won the lottery ????

i would buy my mom a new car and them i would take my kids to disney and back to mexico to visit my husbands mom and dad no iam not mexican then i would put the rest in CDs to make more money so my kids would have money to buy a house and a car for them selfs when they get older

2007-04-16 19:20:54 · 12 answers · asked by sad_angel_eyes_4u 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been trying to conceive for what seems like forever.. 1 year 3 months 12 days to be exact.. Seeing a big fat negative... will be the last thing I want to see this cycle.. My last period was 3/10/07 and it is now 4/17/07 and I am hoping this is our lucky month... My hopes are soo high.. but here goes my story on 3/9/07 I tested to see if I was pregnant... with an equate pregnancy test... it came out with a faint positive and the next day I started my period... it lasted from 3/10- 3/13 and on March 23. 2007 I experienced a faint pink discharge I thought it was an early period... but the blood that was on the toilet paper was all that I had.. on April 2nd cramps came about like I was going to start my period. I have been wearing a pad since then because I am afraid I might start at work.. thats how much it feels like I am going to start the cramps don't stay though they come about other day... does this sound like my lucky month or does it sound like too much hope??

2007-04-16 19:20:19 · 6 answers · asked by *Due 8/28/09* Baby Boy!#1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 26 & my husband is 33. We're married for 3 yrs & no kid yet. My husband likes to hang out with his guy friends. About 2-3 times/week & sometimes until pass midnight. Sometimes I joined them but most of the times my husband doesn't want me to join because he's afraid I'll get bored. I don't have problem with him hanging out with friends but I don't like him coming back late & leave me home alone. We argued about this a few times. He said sorry but he continued doing it. I think that if he continue doing things that I don't like means that he doesn't really love me but he said that's not true. What do u guys think? Am I being over protective?

2007-04-16 19:14:14 · 18 answers · asked by NIA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 18:45:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-16 18:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My name is rebecca Schnnopp-He calls Me Rebecca Snot
His Name-connor Murphy--What can I call Him??

2007-04-16 18:37:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-16 18:33:53 · 30 answers · asked by jrfpvarsity07 1 in Singles & Dating

i still have strong feelings for this girl who use to like me too, but we now live 500 miles away and are dating other people... but tonight she told me that she was cutting herself and hadn't told anybody else. i don't know what i can do bc of the distance so i just gave her my phone number and told her to call me if she ever felt like hurting herself. was this the right thing to do? why would she not talk to me for a while then come to me with this? what does that mean?

2007-04-16 18:33:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 38 yo, Male. I am divorced since 11-16-2006, I met a nice 21 yo she is nice and sweet, I have a business
This girl says she love me very much after 3 weeks of dating her, I made her my girlfriend the first day I met her, she is so nice, do you think 16.4 years is too much difference, I took her to my new house, she is virgen I tried to seduce her BUT she say that that could only happen if we get married, my brother says that she has no morality for the simple fact of accepting an invitation to my house a house of a divorce 38 yo man....what should Ithink and tell me if age may be a problem in years to come..when I'll 56 she will be only 40....please make your best comments

2007-04-16 18:32:07 · 16 answers · asked by Richard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just want to say thanks. im glad im not the only loser out there who lost his wife who wanted to act like a whore, how about everybody come over to my house and we go on a shooting rampaige or maybe just start a small riot.

2007-04-16 18:31:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In relation on today's Virginia shooting....

2007-04-16 18:29:31 · 14 answers · asked by Conejo 1 in Friends

How do you evaluate the reaction that the University had when the shooting occur?

2007-04-16 18:27:52 · 22 answers · asked by Conejo 1 in Friends

They werent like sucking eachothers faces off but they kissed like every 20 mins.

Would this bug anyone else???

2007-04-16 18:27:24 · 10 answers · asked by kt_lang 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey guys just wanted to know what u would do if a girl attempted not to moan when she was with u (sex, foreplay, whatever) &remained expressionless??

would hike up the heat to get a reaction??

stop immediatly??

think she was faking it?? lol

girls have u tried this &gotten into some heated trouble??
&what is it about getting a girl to moan that turns u on more??

2007-04-16 18:25:36 · 18 answers · asked by Phoenix21 7 in Singles & Dating

that when it come to sex, he's too gentle, without making him feel bad or putting him down.....

2007-04-16 18:24:59 · 14 answers · asked by Gardenia 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to make friends for years now to no avail, I don't know if it is because of my impeccable grammar skills or because I am an amazing mathematician. If anyone can give me tips or wants to share their stories please I would love to hear it.

2007-04-16 18:22:20 · 10 answers · asked by Jason M 1 in Friends