she was sober, he was high.
2007-04-16 19:37:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am assuming this man is your boyfriend, otherwise, why would you really care? That really sucks. I had this happen to me awhile back except I didn't live with the girl, she was just my best friend. Take my advice. Dump them both. I forgave my boyfriend and he only ended up cheating on me again (and God only knows how many times). By the way, is there really anyway to know for sure if it was really a one night stand? My bf cheated on me twice with my friend. And they used the "drunk mistake" excuse too. Trust me here, its not worth it. Neither of these people are trustworthy. The girl broke the girl code and the guy is scum. Even if he comes crawling back, apologizing, swearing to God how much he loves you and that he would die without you, DON'T BUY IT! Guys like him are not worth a second chance. Go find yourself a good man. They are out there, too, I've found one :). As far as the girl goes, I would definitely cut ties with her. If you are stuck living with her, then stick it out until the lease ends, or the end of semester or whatever. But just because you live with someone doesn't mean you have to be friends with them. You shouldn't be hostile though, that will only make things more difficult for yourself. Good luck with everything. I know how hard it can be and how lonely it can get when you realize the two people closest to you have been decieving you. Go find some new friends girl! You deserve better than that scum!
Also, if he wasn't your boyfriend (with the exception of a fresh breakup), if he was just your friend, or even a friend you had feelings for, I would suggest you talk it over with them. If he was only a friend, then no real social boundaries have been broken, only personal boundaries and they probably don't know what your boundaries are. So communicate with them and lay it out there.
2007-04-16 20:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by special_kt9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forgive either one. They have disrespected you and do not deserve your love. The fact that they were sober or high is no excuse for what they did. They betrayed your trust. How could you ever trust them again?
Find another roommate, and leave that worthless jerk. You deserve better than either of them!!! Even I am angry with them now, and I don't even know them!!!
2007-04-16 19:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..Is this guy your bf? If yes, then it will depends on how much you love him but your roomate is too much..! She should stop him unless she like him herself as well. She has betray your friendship..So sorry to hear that. Make the right decision and take care.
2007-04-16 19:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by MTan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um being high is no excuse and what kind of a room mate /friend is she obviously the not nice type........ u wanna forgive him. huh..... go a head but your asking for it to be done all over again cheaters never stop. and u should say see ya to ur so called friend too.........
2007-04-16 19:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him and end the relationship. That trust is long gone.
2007-04-16 19:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by MissRoyalT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you forgive two pieces of s*** in a toilet. Flush them down, better yet flush twice cuz they might come back up.
2007-04-16 20:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by deadStock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forgive him and dont break contact with him but watch him if he repet his mistake then take action and leave him.
2007-04-16 19:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by djsalmanj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont, grow up if it happeded once it will happen again. you make the bed be prepared to sleep in it
2007-04-16 19:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
High or not ...no excuse. Neither one is or ever was your friend.
2007-04-16 19:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by doc_up72 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the rascal and kill the bi&*h
2007-04-16 20:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by TigerPunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋