Family & Relationships - 16 April 2007

2007-04-16 17:39:30 · 1 answers · asked by Cathy R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-16 17:39:18 · 3 answers · asked by kaa l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I havent talk to my best friend over a month, lately seems like i don't now her... seems like i am the only person right now that actually being a friend. she never calls or see if i want to hang out with her... and she been dating this guy, and she hasnt told me... i found out by another friend of mine... i thought were best friends... and to me seems like she doesnt even want to be my friend... what should i say to her?

2007-04-16 17:32:34 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie T 4 in Friends

Started seeing this guy who is married(at the time I had no idea) He had been trying to get a divorce but she doesn't want one(they have NO kids together) She contacted me Friday called me a *****, a home wrecker, and everything else and now wont leave me alone. What do I do??...They were married 3 months, he and everyone else knows that he doesn't want to be with her.

2007-04-16 17:31:28 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We met over Facebook and I liked her instantly. We talked for about two months, and then I told her I love her (because I really do), but she didn't say anything. She just said, "I would love to get to know you more. Whats the hurry? Now I'm blushing fully". Anyway, I took her phone number and I called her. We spoke for about two hours and a half on the first day. A week later, I called her again, and we spoke again for two hours, and I thought everything went well.

Maybe I was wrong, but when I called her the next day, she didn't answer. I called her the day after, and still she didn't answer. The next day, I had gotten my own phone, so I called her and left a message with my new number. Still she didn't call. Its been almost eight days and no word from her so far. I am really confused about her because when she talks to me, she sounds interested in me, but then she responds so late - in this case not at all. I really love this girl, but I don't know what to do? Any ideas?

2007-04-16 17:27:13 · 15 answers · asked by Priety M 1 in Singles & Dating

I live w/my best friend of a long time who is the epitome of a meathead...attractive, tough, horny, quick temper...but he also has a good heart. His girlfriend has also lived with us for as long as weve lived together, and she is an absolute doll...nurturing, smart, just the nicest thing youve ever met and Ive become very close with her too. Not by choice, I am in between them often because he can be hot-headed and it's not always easy for her/anyone to talk to him. Today she confronted me about him lying to her. He hasnt actually cheated, but there have been plans to meet with other girls/texting/phone calls, expecting me to assist. I broke under the pressure but I care for her as much as him & shes been cheated on before and lost her mother to cancer 3 years ago. I didnt have it in me to lie for him, although usually probably would. I know technically I acted ethically, but now shes moved out, he's gonna too, and he's disowned me. She's thankful but I feel dreadful...was I wrong?

2007-04-16 17:15:31 · 8 answers · asked by Matthew L 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been liking this guy for a long time (5 years) and he has liked this other girl for lieka long time too. I feels o heartbroken and he always tells me he likes her!! I think I should stop liking him? Well, should I?

2007-04-16 17:14:15 · 25 answers · asked by Cutie with a booty! 1 in Singles & Dating

What does this mean and what are positives and negatives about it?

2007-04-16 16:56:06 · 13 answers · asked by purplepolkadotties 2 in Singles & Dating

When I was 12 (23 now) I was sitting at the kitchen table struggling to finish my math homework, when my Dad asked why it was taking so long.

I got a little sarcastic and said, "Um, because it's really hard."

That's when he grabbed my hair and started hitting me in the face while screaming and cursing at me.
I got away & locked myself in my bedroom. He kicked the door in & started choking me & banging my head into the wall. Then he left the house.

I laid on the floor crying & Mom forced me to go to school the next day.

Why did he do that? My Dad had never physically abused me before and hasn't since. My Mom grew up in a rough neighborhood and talks about fighting her Uncle and ex-husband. Mom was @ the sink when it happened. Why didn't she try to stop my Dad?

I've tried to talk to her about it over the years but she says she doesn't remember. Dad never apologized or mentioned the incident again.

What should I do? Therapist said forgive, but I'm still hurting.

2007-04-16 16:54:42 · 20 answers · asked by The "Hmm" Girl 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her hair is constantly greasy. When she walks by you the smell gets in your mouth and nose. She is fine if she doesnt move. I have had enough with the hints . i want to tell her outright:
1.she stinks
2. its common courtesy to at least take a shower, warsh your hair, brush your teeth and hair, wear deodarent.
3. She is constanltly negative.
4. (she just got her teeth pulled)stop lying about **** like i sneezed and the dentures popped out of her mouth.
5.that she can't get a ride to appointments. she just doesn't want to go.
6. that she hasn'tdone everything you have. trust me i know what she has done and hasn't
7.she is a habitual liar
8. she is disqusting
9. that is unbelievable yet true that all she knows how to write is her information and what she does.like pogo and all the stupid screenames of her so called friends
10.just because she found a picture of a guy from new york doesnt mean she knows him.
11.that i can't stand to be around her any more.

2007-04-16 16:53:22 · 1 answers · asked by melody42 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello All,
My girlfriend and I broke up last week and I am desperate to fix things. She is scared about the future, about the kind of person I am, the fact I'm not religious and about her maybe wanting move back to Brazil.
When we broke up I cried for 3 straight days. I don't know what I'm going to do without her. Today she agreed to meet up with me and talk (after I have been trying almost everyday for this). What should I not say?
I want to tell her everything I want to say that "I was scared of completely letting my guard down!", "That I will change my negativity about things." I want to say that "I would risk everything and move with her if that's what she wanted!" That I'd support her in everything. "That the only thing I'm now scared of now in my whole life is not being with her!"
Will these things be too much? Should I go more as a friend and listen?
I'm confused I don't want to lose her. It's a dark room loneliness

2007-04-16 16:51:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 16:51:31 · 20 answers · asked by bennie 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone have a good idea of a gift to get my hostess for my bachelorette party?

2007-04-16 16:49:36 · 10 answers · asked by CR 2 in Weddings

I went to a concert that my drum teacher was playing last night, but he was acting very awkward and strange. He had asked me to come and told me about it several times beforehand, and he and I have a friendly relationship that is different from most students and teachers. I've been taking lessons with him for almost 2 years and he's only 9 yrs older than I am (I'm 19, he's 28). When I saw him after the show, he gave me a hug and then I introduced him to my friend and he ignored her presence for the rest of the time. I talked to him a bit, but he was acting weird and being awkward with everyone. He didn't introduce people by name, which was strange. I was a little confused and frustrated, so when he said he needed to go start packing up his drums, I started to leave, and he said "wait, are you leaving?" and then said "make sure you come say bye to me before you go, I'll be on stage." We stayed a bit longer while he was packing, but he kept glancing over at me every minute or so.

2007-04-16 16:48:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I personally wouldn't, but I'm just curious about what most people will say.

2007-04-16 16:43:47 · 11 answers · asked by lil_bit 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm doing a report please help me with this.

2007-04-16 16:42:52 · 9 answers · asked by Tracey Fahnestock 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f's Xwife & his youngest sis was able to put into plan & WIN. They got the Xwife back into good favor with my b/f's family & got me OUST! Lies, vindictive women, sneaky conieving sisters & parents. We've been together 4+yrs. His family loved me & my 5 kids til 1 1/2 yrs ago when my b/f proposed. His xwife made up a story that she was dying of cancer! This got her "back into touch" with his family. (She actually had dysplasia. Abnormal cells caused by an STD virus of the cervics.) She then had surgery on her leg for a blood clot. His sister invited her to her wedding just after the surgery. His youngest two sis were threatening me & telling me I wasn't really invited but that their brother was in the wedding & wanted me to go. I didn't go. The pressure from his family to get me to leave almost became unbearable for me last summer when they invited the X to 4th of july picnic/pool party. And then put the X in the other sis wedding at the last minute.His parents told me that if my bf

2007-04-16 16:39:27 · 12 answers · asked by HeavenlyAngel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i miss her alot how do i make her like me again plz can i haave sum ideas

2007-04-16 16:38:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Serious answers only just list and identify the problems which a couple may have to face if wife is elder to husband. Is it true that most couples try tohide this fact.

2007-04-16 16:38:14 · 20 answers · asked by Friendly medic 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to clear it up b/c i'm going to this thing where EVERYONE is going to be there.

2007-04-16 16:36:07 · 9 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has requested a separate parent-teacher conference from his son's mother because the two of them do not get along and he says his son's mother didn't allow him to ask any questions in the last one. His son goes to a private school and they say they won't do separate conferences as it is their policy. My husband wants to know if he has any legal standing on this. He wants to be involved in his son's education but cannot effectively do so when forced into settings like this. We are in Texas.

2007-04-16 16:29:14 · 7 answers · asked by A3Mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. so i gave this question.
when you lose your virginity for the first time
how much blood comes out?
what do you do with it?
and why does it happen.
this will probley get deleted but i need to know.
thanks.
:/

2007-04-16 16:25:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am in love with this woman, but i can never have her. i am madly in love and i cant stop thinking about her. i dont even think she knows I exist. How do I get over her, because its very hard for me to get her.

2007-04-16 16:23:07 · 22 answers · asked by tinka k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-16 16:22:20 · 7 answers · asked by richman062000 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it that most men will stay beside a woman that craps on them , and walk away from a good woman, who stands be side them??

2007-04-16 16:22:07 · 9 answers · asked by thepainter 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been divorced now for A year after six years of marriage and my friend set me up on date with a friend of hers I cant remember what the signs are if they are attracted to you any more sorry I have been married for six years and before we married we were together for 3 years before.Please help I need to know if I go out if it will be worth it or should we call it an early night. I just dont want to make myself look dumb.And like I said LADIES ANAWER ONLY sorry guys

2007-04-16 16:21:03 · 7 answers · asked by slayermetalkreator 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a really nice guy, smart, kind of attractive physically i guess. Its like I can't win with women. I get rejections ike one gets mail. Its frustrating but I try to keep myslef together. I feel there is a women out there for me. I'm fairly young not even nineteen but that seems insignificant to me. I just want one to love forever thats all. Rejection sure is getting in the way.

2007-04-16 16:20:24 · 20 answers · asked by Ronell B 1 in Singles & Dating

Some friends of mine are giving a lingerie shower. We are a group of Christians. I want to give her a unique gift. Maybe some type of sex book. But would like to find a Christian based one that focuses on God's intentions for husbands and wives.

2007-04-16 16:20:15 · 5 answers · asked by april_hwth 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-16 16:19:54 · 14 answers · asked by point2west 1 in Friends

Is there some kind of perceived stereotype that latinas and black girls are harder to control than asian girls? Asian girls represent docile lotus blossoms and are to willing to serve the white man where the black girl or latina girl doesn't?

2007-04-16 16:16:55 · 14 answers · asked by conservative_122 2 in Singles & Dating