Why is it that white guys don't lust after latinas and black girls as much as asian girls?

Question

Is there some kind of perceived stereotype that latinas and black girls are harder to control than asian girls? Asian girls represent docile lotus blossoms and are to willing to serve the white man where the black girl or latina girl doesn't?

Answer 1

I used to manage a predominantly Korean bar in a hotel. We had 3 Japanese women working there. All of the white guys that came into the bar were there for asian women. They were the most pathetic people I have ever met. Looking for subserviant slaves, basically. Fu*k that. Spanish women are HOT. They scare weak men.

Answer 2

I'm an white (Italian-American) male and my girlfriend is a girl from Colombia... I have developed a strong taste for Latina gals like yourself they have a lot white features facially (my gf is olive skinned like me) but also got that voluptuous body so it is like best of both worlds!!! White girls can be super stuck up and conceded... I always saw myself marrying a White girl when I was young but now I have to say Latinas make better girlfriends IME. It is funny u mention the White male/Asian female duo because before meeting my gf I had a thing for Asian girls they are very good in bed... i know i am not alone i see the duo everywhere also!!

Answer 3

Interesting observation. I'm a white guy in my mid-fifties and have been with my lovely Filipina for going on nineteen years.
I once held the erroneous notion that Asians were more submissive but I have not found that to be the case at all. Devoted perhaps but not submissive. I have dated several Filipinas, in addition to two Koreans and one Vietnamese. Never had the pleasure of dating a Japanese, Chinese or other East Asian. (I have dated one Iranian & one Sr Lankan but they are West Asian & technically Caucasian.) I once had a date planned with a beautiful Japanese girl that I met through a personals ad. Turned out she lived directly across the street! Unfortunately, the night before the scheduled date, she called me to cancel, saying she didn't want to "bring shame" on her family! (Apparently only because I didn't have a degree.)
It would appear that some East Asians, Japanese especially, are very concerned with saving face. I've even heard it said that some would rather committ suicide than "disgrace" their families. Very shallow IMO.
Anyway, from the age of twenty-one through thirty-six, I exclusively dated Latinas. Married two of them, in fact. (One from Peru & one from El Salvador.) I can't say enough about Latinas as mates either. Very loving & devoted but jealous!!!
Having said that, I've always considered Latinas/Hispanics to be white, unless they are predominately Amerindian or mixed with black, so I never saw them as being any different than the white Mediterraneans (Italians, Greeks, etc.) that I've always loved as well. Dated a Greek girl and was, in fact, engaged to a wonderful Sicilian girl before I ever got marrried the first time. I regret breaking up with her to this day but that's life!
Oh yeah, I frequently find black women just as appealing as any other kind of woman but I just don't see them liking white guys so much, at least it didn't appear that way back when I was younger and dating. I did, however, date three of them: a Brazilian (white dad & black mom), an American (black dad and white mom (German) but she considered herself white) and a Kenyan. All gorgeous and lots of fun! For whatever reason, I've never had any particular interest in "Anglo" women. I do like the Irish women, though! Just can't say enough about Filipinas, Latinas & Italians!

Answer 4

That is just a stereo type. I see white men date and marry women of a different ethnic background besides Asian especially military. You need to get out in the world and experience life and ethnic cultures even more.

Answer 5

I think there's a perceived stereotype that Asian girls are classier, better educated, and more unselfish than the other two. From my experience, latinas and blacks have a "what have you done for me lately" image which makes them unappealing to alot of guys. Asian girls think more about giving and pleasing their man while the other two only think about taking and controlling. That's the IMPRESSION of course, not necessarily the truth.

Answer 6

i think thats why... i think like the asian woman is more sumise and docile and just waits to receive orders from the white guy.. in the other hand the black or latina isnt that docile or weak personality speaking... thats what i think and what ive seen

Answer 7

ive been trying to get any of the three for awhile now!

i think its just about where you live and your perception on the other races, not that any of that matters but everyone has a "type" they are attracted to, latinos and blacks have always been know for throwing things and being jealous and controlling, im not saying all of them are, but thats how theyve always been seen. a few of my black guy friends date white girls because of that reason alone!

Answer 8

hahahaha! asian girls are ANYTHING but docile. they are polite and respectful, but NOT docile. i think latino women are VERY sexy. they always have that hoop earring and stripper heel thing going on and that's HOT! black girls are hot too when they are not being arrogant and ghetto. that turns white guys off in a heartbeat.

Answer 9

I think spanish women are beautiful,but i live in south texas and 80% of the women here are hispanic so im use to liking them

Answer 10

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Maybe it's the area where you live! I normally see white guys with black girls! Saw a couple just yesterday! Stop assuming and generalizing!