i am in love with her?

Question

i am in love with this woman, but i can never have her. i am madly in love and i cant stop thinking about her. i dont even think she knows I exist. How do I get over her, because its very hard for me to get her.

Answer 1

u need to find urself a girl

Answer 2

Have you tried asking her out?

If the reason you can't get her is that she's married then you're right you just have to get over her. If she's not married and you think you're so in love that you have to post a question here then try your very best to get her first. If it were easy, you wouldn't be this in love. Sometimes, it's the chase or the challenge of the chase that men like so act because it seems that you've done so much thinking all ready.

Answer 3

Is she married, is that why you say "you can never have her"?
Its hard to really like someone, we sometimes meet people who we really admire and look up to or we just think they are a genuine, good and beautiful person.
If you know 100% you can't have this woman, then you will just have a strong distant affection for her.
Well, she must me single since you say, she doesn't think you exist.
If you really want a shot with her , you will have to be creative and get her to notice you. Send her a small plant or a box of chocolates.

Answer 4

It actually sounds more like infatuation!! You must be a competive soul! I think it's just the challange your after! You know the saying "you want what you can't have" I suggest you let this obsession with her go...... You might be so wrapped up in her that your missing out on the "Real Deal"! Best of luck to you! Hope this will help in some way!

Answer 5

why is it hard to get her? is she not interested? If you think you have a chance at all, even a little one, pursue it man. If you think theres no chance at all, then best way to stop thinking about her is to start thinking about another lady. So go out there and start looking?

I used to be a shy type, now if i see a beautiful women, ( not wearing a wedding ring, lol) i go up to her and talk about something. Giving her a compliment or similar, good luck.

Answer 6

If you really love her as much as you say, then I think you should try everything you can to get her. You will always wonder "what if" and you have to take risks in life a lot if theres something you really want. Just go for it. Good luck!

Answer 7

Well...right when you think about her just think about someone else and try to find someone else who you would madly be in love with then you can always think about that person.

Answer 8

Be a man... Grap some opportunity to know her. Try to talk with her... Anything... Make it look like you accidentally meet her and say "Hi I think I know you... You're the girl that live next door, right?" Just do something... Don't just stand there...

Answer 9

How do u know u can't have her, if she doesn't know u exist? Sounds like u haven't given yourself a fair chance. Let her know what you're about, if she's not interested, there's someone out there that will be.

Answer 10

The deal with women I have found is this. You want them until you have them. Then you want to get rid of them, but you will find that getting rid of them is harder than getting them. It's a vicious cycle. As my ex-girlfriend's father told me, "F

Answer 11

i have the same problem...and therefore i dont have anything to say. people have been telling me to try to forget about him and to think about all of the bad qualities. the hard part is finding bad qualities when it appears that they dont have any.