My sister stinks, literally. My oldest sister says it is rude to say nethng evn tho we drp hnts the tm!?

Question

Her hair is constantly greasy. When she walks by you the smell gets in your mouth and nose. She is fine if she doesnt move. I have had enough with the hints . i want to tell her outright:
1.she stinks
2. its common courtesy to at least take a shower, warsh your hair, brush your teeth and hair, wear deodarent.
3. She is constanltly negative.
4. (she just got her teeth pulled)stop lying about **** like i sneezed and the dentures popped out of her mouth.
5.that she can't get a ride to appointments. she just doesn't want to go.
6. that she hasn'tdone everything you have. trust me i know what she has done and hasn't
7.she is a habitual liar
8. she is disqusting
9. that is unbelievable yet true that all she knows how to write is her information and what she does.like pogo and all the stupid screenames of her so called friends
10.just because she found a picture of a guy from new york doesnt mean she knows him.
11.that i can't stand to be around her any more.

Answer 1

Don't resent your family! Understand, she is your family member and confronting her with this attitude is just selfish and shows why she is the way she is. You stay'd out of her life, shows also that you've been out of it for quite while too, and that you have no real friendship. Shows pretty plainly too that maybe thats what she needs and your not doing your part any better then her to fix that? Go ahead thou talk to her about it, but understand that it isn't a shower thats going to fix it, its actual having a sister thats not disgusted in her for so much...