Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

How many times a day , week , month or year , do you get these feelings ? And how does a fellah tell ?

How many times have you actually followed through ?

2007-04-13 23:55:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mine would be the summer, so i could wear nice clothes without wearing a big coat on me. hehehe.

2007-04-13 23:54:08 · 14 answers · asked by bunny 2 in Family

Say he is really really ugly, tries to take care of himself, but no one would marry the guy. He has no luck at all with women, and the women he goes out with say he is a very nice guy, but he is just not for them.
He knows the reason is from his ugliness. Should this guy get surgery so that he can be content in life with women? Give him a chance to get married?

2007-04-13 23:53:34 · 9 answers · asked by Scott and Friends 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 23:52:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi guys, I just came here to ask for opinions over my issue. See I am 15 and I want to work as an editor of vogue as I heard they earn alot and get to go to fashion parties and show. So I told my friends that I am willing to give up family and friendship time for wealth and status. They say that even if I achieve my goal I will not be happy . what do you guys think ?

2007-04-13 23:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by danci 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you know why?

2007-04-13 23:32:22 · 10 answers · asked by ME 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-13 23:29:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she is staying at our hotel for 2 weeks so he wants me to ask her out to the bar for drinks to show her a good time but i know he wants me to do it so she will sleep with me. He has already tried to set me up with a ugly lesbian with a mohawk and his grandma. so needless to say i don't trust him or his opinion in this matter so what do you think i should do?

2007-04-13 23:27:18 · 4 answers · asked by chiefsquattingdan 1 in Singles & Dating

I have for a long time now thought that my dad's been cheating on my mom.I wasn't sure if I was thinking logically or just being paranoid.Now I am almost sure that he is cheating.

I asked him if I could play games on his phone, he said yes, but he picked up the phone first and started doing something (I found out later, he was DELETING messages).

I wondered why he had grabbed the phone so quickly, so I got a bit nosy and after I had played a few games,I went to his messages...there was nothing in his inbox or his sent messages, but there were tons in his deleted messages.

I went to them and saw that alot of them were from, or to, the same woman.I opened a few.

I wish I hadn't, they were these messages about closeness, and sex, and love.It kills me that he doesn't have a relationship with my mom like he does with this other woman.

My question still stands, Should I tell my mom, should I confront him? This is hurting me so much, I have cried every night since I found out

2007-04-13 23:22:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 23:21:14 · 5 answers · asked by butch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 23:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by bam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I truly have! 21/2 "GREAT" years ago! She's amazing,and it's everything I dreamed I't would be!

2007-04-13 21:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by Clark in the City 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For the past month a cashier has been flirting with me but I only see her while she's working. Would this be inapropriate considering the akwardness if I misunderstood her and then had to see her every time I go shopping?

2007-04-13 21:48:00 · 14 answers · asked by damned_flipper 1 in Singles & Dating

off him ,and does not buy him eneything can she come and take my son to live with her what can i do to keep him, i have my name on birth cert

2007-04-13 21:39:16 · 24 answers · asked by KEVIN C 1 in Family

i ahve this crush i am 31 he is 31 we are friends and he has a girlfriend who i can honestly say is not very good to him she messes around with other guys at the bar and hangs on them.well last week i decided that i would just try to move on and have fun. and that is what i did. i danced with other guys and i could have taken almost any guy home in the bar with me. not saying i am hot but when there is only 4 females in the bar it is easy. well he was working and he girlfriend left because i think they had a fight not to sure. but he was smiling at me and even messed up what he was doing when i was dancing with a guy i asked him jokinly if he was distracted and he replayed yes. the ? is should i just give up and be just his friend or should i try to get him. a long time ago when he was single i told him i liked him and it didn't hurt our friendship he told me i was to classy and a saint at the time he was getting over a 13 year relationship and having sex with alot of females

2007-04-13 21:20:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If feel that my mom dosen't want me to socialize with other people and go hang out at the mall with my friends thats why im so shy because she dosen't let me socialize or experience things in life that your suppose to know. She always complain about how im lazy she dosen't really understand what it's like for a teenager it's very tiring and you just want to have time alone to be by yourself and have me time. I feel that 11 year old sister gets privillages and i don't at all when she asks to do something she gets to do it. But when i ask for something it's a problem it's always i don't have money or im not taking you anywhere. I want to know why this is happening? And what can i do to stop it?

2007-04-13 21:09:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

After marring most of the girls change?Sometime boys.Why is it like that?My friends are act different after marring.Are there any physiological thing.

2007-04-13 21:01:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 20:59:34 · 21 answers · asked by hiss 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been apart for few weeks, and it don't sem like he has any reaction to this. When it's ripping me apart. I miss him so much. He always looks for a reason to leave. Dose he still love me?

2007-04-13 20:56:48 · 11 answers · asked by Crystal P 1 in Family

LOVE.... what do it really mean for you????
^_^

2007-04-13 20:51:32 · 4 answers · asked by _Be_Real_ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend just informed me yesterday that she was 13 days late with her period. The first thing that came to my mind was pregnancy. Which was OK with me, since I’m in my 30’s and seriously thinking about marriage and raising a family. Here is the problem. I know that I didn’t ejaculate into her since I’m REALY careful about that. However there’s one time that I got a drunk as a skunk and me and the old lady had some fun in the bedroom. But that was about two weeks ago. She called me yesterday that she was late as I mentioned above (13 days). I got really worried not because she was pregnant but maybe that something else might be wrong with her. She told me that she was going to get a pregnancy test and find out. I said fine but I also told her to go and see a doctor to make sure that everything was OK.
Today she called me and said that she just got her period and that everything was fine.
Here’s my question. Is that normal for a woman to have a late period; should I be worried about her health or was she just saying that to obtain more attention. I live in China, I’m an American and she is 10 years younger than me. Is it possible that she was just seeking extra attention or wanting to know how I felt about her?
If she was, then I’m quite livid, because that’s not the way to gain attention or love from someone.

2007-04-13 20:48:20 · 5 answers · asked by swegricht 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're going to have the big froofy traditional wedding. It makes them very happy, I'm not paying and it is really only one day, so before the advice to do what I want, I want to put the needs of others above my own wishes.

Well, the problem is, I suppose, I may be a bit of an introvert and despise the idea of all this attention seeking bridal behavour. It's not because I'm shy or anxious around my family or his or with large groups of people. I'm just not interested. At family gatherings and weddings I usually sit quietly and throw in a quick witted remark here and there, but am almost always quite bored by these events.

I know I cannot just sit at my table, looking bored and ignoring the guests.. I do need to know, what is expected of me? How much socialising must I do? Can I get away with a few words to the most boring of relatives or must I endure conversation? I need to look as if I'm enjoying myself and avoid percieved rudeness. This is for familial happiness, not my own.

2007-04-13 20:44:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How long should you wait, after getting engaged, to get married? I've been with my man for a little over a year and a half and he proposed and I said yes, so how long should we wait? We don't want a church wedding..we want to just get married in a lawyer's office or judge's chamber with a couple of close friends or family members.

2007-04-13 20:24:25 · 8 answers · asked by melissa_53105 3 in Weddings

yeah.... parsonalty too.... throw in populary..... what ever u feel like

2007-04-13 20:23:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have started to make edding plans but I'm not even engaged he hasn't ever bought me jewelry but we're serious does this seem too desperate

2007-04-13 20:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by janie p 2 in Weddings

2007-04-13 20:05:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Not just slightly. This is my best friend. These feelings have grown over a long time. I left my girlfriend of 4 years because I couldn't feel anything for her anymore. All I think about is this woman. She kinda knows, but not to the extent. We talk 3-4 hours a day and hang at least twice a week. I don't know what to do anymore. I have never made any advances on her and dont think she would ever change her life around.

2007-04-13 19:45:58 · 12 answers · asked by charles h 1 in Singles & Dating

I lost touch with a friend (who I thought was one of the greatest friends ever) awhile ago. I'd say around Fall of 2006 was when we stopped talking. I'm not sure what happend, but we stopped talking. A week or so after we did stop talking, I called, but there was no answer. Maybe that friend suddenly didn't bother as much to pick up my calls anymore. You know, the more closer you get to someone the easier it is to blow them off. But after two more times of trying to contact that friend (that would now total into one call and two text messages) and not getting a response, I gave up.

So now, I'm thinking of contacting that friend again. Should I? I still feel betrayed, don't get me wrong, since I thought we were such good friends, but I was thinking of inviting that friend to dinner and at least get closure, since I wanna ask in a joking manner (so there's no negative tension) why that friend stopped talking to me.

So should I or should I just leave it as it is and move on?

2007-04-13 19:43:24 · 20 answers · asked by NereidoftheBlue 2 in Friends

whenever i talk to my girl we talk and end up running out of things to talk about any ideas on what i should talk about

2007-04-13 19:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not the hansomest man. I would be if I didn't have a cut on my neck that didn't heal right... It's a long scar with stitch marks on my left side. Plus minor acne scars under my jaw. Other than that I'm perfect.

There is this girl who seems to like me. I'm caucasian (U.S.) She is a Japanese immigrant. We're in lv nv I think she's great. And we've been friends for almost a year. Not close friends but, you know. Anyway, things were really starting to work. When all of a sudden, yesterday night, I called her and she was really sick and at the hospital. And she informed me that her boyfriend drove her there and left his lights on. Their battery was dead and they were stranded all day. I didn't know she had a boyfriend untill then, and I gave them a jump. Thus meeting her bf. He has more muscle than me but a lazy eye.

She text messaged me late that night and said she and her bf didn't know each other very well. So again, maybe she likes me.

How do I ask her out?

2007-04-13 19:33:47 · 1 answers · asked by rhsnipes 2 in Singles & Dating