Say he is really really ugly, tries to take care of himself, but no one would marry the guy. He has no luck at all with women, and the women he goes out with say he is a very nice guy, but he is just not for them.
He knows the reason is from his ugliness. Should this guy get surgery so that he can be content in life with women? Give him a chance to get married?
2007-04-13 23:53:34 · 9 answers · asked by Scott and Friends 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the second question in my chain of tests. The first Question established that there was hardly a chance in hell for that guy to "seduce" a woman.
And yeah, I don't consider myself ugly. Not even plain. I am not considering surgery for myself, and I have no reason to.
thanks for the input. I like the guys and girls better that don't discount looks completely when it comes to love.
2007-04-14 00:19:46 · update #1
OK, so the answer that all modern, enlightened people are going to come out with is that looks don't matter as much as who you are on the inside, that a woman who is worth marrying will not care what you look like etc. However the problem is that you are still single and these answers don't actually change anything. And as we know, although all these answers above are true, actually romantic attraction does also involve what people look like. So what I would say is not to discount surgery, but to be very cautious. I would definitely advise counseling beforehand, to be avoid having unrealistic expectations about what surgery will change. And I also think you should ask some people who know you well to be absolutely brutally honest with you about what they think is giving you bad luck with women. It may be that actually you have some bad habits or unattractive attitudes and that you would have more success if you worked on changing those. But if, in the end, you decide on some surgery, then be careful, make really sure you get a good surgeon and have realistic expectations. I would also advise watching the film Shallow Hal as a quick reality check!
2007-04-14 00:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Iota 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A surgeon might say that with such a low opinion of yourself that you aren't a good candidate for surgery. You need to love your insides before you should ever consider plastic surgery because it is such a serious thing. If you decide that you need it then be sure to go to the best you can afford and I hope it turns out well for you. Good luck and God bless.
2007-04-14 00:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by blankstare: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty drastic. My friend had liposuction and went into cardiac arrest. Surgery is dangerous. You'll find somedbody. What's the hurry? Are you on a deadline?
2007-04-13 23:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
define ugly.
i think as long is the guy is hygenic and dresses decently...he has hope.
google images of rick ocasek and supermodel paulina porizkova(sp) he's fugly.
howard stern is fugly but managed to get married.
its really intellect and how u portray/carry yourself that counts in marriage. not looks.
focus on your personality and intellect more.
2007-04-14 00:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i almost never agree with surgery, but if he thinks to know the "reason" of his ugliness, and if he think surgery would make things going better, then yes, he could try this way...
kisses
2007-04-13 23:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really is said as a vasectomy. The technique is truly straightforward. The vas deferens is the tubule that transports sperm cells from the testes. in this technique, a element of each vas deferens is bumped off, thereby suffering with the sperm from accomplishing the ejaculatory ducts.
2016-12-04 00:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is going to stay single his whole life? He's got it made, buddy! If he's that desperate to get married, go and buy shakles instead...much cheaper.
2007-04-13 23:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
true love are the reason of marriage, true love doesn't care about the look, hope is what you need.....
2007-04-13 23:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were this hypothetical guy I wouldn't worry about my looks...I would only focus on:
honesty
maturity
generosity
goals
respect
Looks don't mean anything....
2007-04-13 23:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋