Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

i have to choose between these guys

mason:pro's.... he is sweet and hot and is in all my classesand on the baseball team
con's....he is kinda perverted and flirts with a lot of girls


tony:pro's...he is sweet and a skater boy and flirts with me a lot
con's...he is not that attractive and is in none of my classes

ryan:pro's...cute,sweet,on the baseball team
con's...smokes pot and is in the grade above mine

who should i choose to be a steady going boyfriend

2007-04-13 14:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it fair that just because i live close to my family that they send their kids over to my house every weekend and some times during the week. i'am married and have five kids.as you can see i've got my hands full.iwork in the day time and my husband works at night . i try to keep my kids from making noise during the day so he can get enough sleep so he wont be tired when he go to work that night. and after i work all day i just want to chill.am i wrong to want a little quiet time for my self.

2007-04-13 14:19:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We use to work in Worthington together and when the Deli closed down she eventually ran off with boyfriend to Grove City.They were to buy his parents house,she wasn't happy about it and was having a real concern about his drinking and behavior but still moved with him and their little girl.I have tried local phone directory she's not listed, she may have married him, hell she may have killed him...I'd just like to find her.She's alot of fun and our daughters are the same age.I miss her.Thanks.

2007-04-13 14:19:12 · 5 answers · asked by Allen13 3 in Friends

what type of behaviors/ characteristics/ traits do married women who have the potential to cheat, or do cheat, have that faithful married women dont????

2007-04-13 14:18:36 · 21 answers · asked by tim t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It is raining and cold here! :(

2007-04-13 14:18:14 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Sweetmusic ♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

She has stolen from me, lied to me, been hateful to her brothers, she has even spoken badly to her nana and grandad. Her good friends have given up and now the crowd she hangs round with are cool , so i have kicked her out, she is 17yrs. i know where she is cos me and her dad played good cop bad cop but it has not stoppped me crying. what now genuine answers only please x

2007-04-13 14:17:53 · 26 answers · asked by squawinpants 3 in Friends

I am 13 and like an 18 year old high school dropout *thug* who lives three doors down. He and I haven't met up close with each other, but he whistled at me last year in late April. I started messaging him over myspace about a month ago and he ignored all my messages except for one, telling me he was too old for me. Then a few days later I sent him a message after finding out he was moving (I was sad) and he never responded to that. But once I added pictures for the first time two days ago, he finally responded saying "its bout time u got pics" and also responded to my last message about him moving. Is he answering for ME or my body?
And if he wants me to visit him (remember, he lives three doors down), should I go? Why or why not?
*He's no pedophile, don't even consider it. He's the talk of my neighborhood since he's gotten arrested so many times, and I'm 100% POSITIVE that he's actually 18.

2007-04-13 14:15:32 · 1 answers · asked by XoPrincessXo 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 14:14:48 · 6 answers · asked by GENEVIEVE J 1 in Weddings

I am horrible at talking to guys. I can never think of anything to say! Help-- what kind of things do you talk to guys about and what do they like talking about?

2007-04-13 14:12:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you feel free to fart when your boy/girlfriend is around that truly means that you feel 100% comfortable with this person, right? Another opinion?

2007-04-13 14:12:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to once be nerd and quiet and taken advantage of at times but now im big and muscular and sometimes rude and find pleasure in taken advantage of my ex-tormentors. Is this cool?

2007-04-13 14:10:33 · 5 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how old do you have to be tobe noticed?

What makes u mad because there is a age limit on it?

2007-04-13 14:06:31 · 5 answers · asked by stylin' manda 1 in Friends

Okay so this girl i like is in my math class and music class... in math we usually talk about once a week and almost never in music... but ever since i added her to MSN, to get to know her better, she hasnt been that talkable/ talkative... is she being shy... i know i am... and it feels like shes ignoring me lately on MSN... like id ask her a question and shed give me a one word response ... like at first when i added her on MSN she was nice and talkative but now it feels like shes avoiding me... like she talked to my and her friend when i was talking to her/ my friend and she didnt even acknowledge my presence... i am hoping she is jus shy and wanted me to talk to her but i ended up leaving right when she came... and when i was tolking to my friend she came and talked to him and again i felt ignored.. but i hope she doesnt think i am a jerk cuz her last two names on MSN have been quite mean if they were about me.hopefully they were jus songs i never heard of.... is she a ***** or shy

2007-04-13 14:05:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 6 months ago my bf and I split up after 8 years. While we were together he would go out night after night with his friends while I stayed home with our boys. He has a great job and figured he could come and go as long as we were provided for. But so many things happened, I would find numbers,girls photos and even condoms in his car. No matter what happened he had an excuse and I would just go with it.

Not proudly I found comfort in someone else. He listened to me and cared about what I would say or felt, it wasn't a sexual relationship but romantic. I ended things before it got too deep.My bf found out months later.He and I broke up and in this time I started seeing someone, when he found out he was threatening suicide so i went back. I love my boys and could not let them grow up without their Dad. My problem is I don't feel the same. He is very controlling now, he searches my purse and phone and even gets mad if I stay awake if he goes to bed. I love him but I can't do this

2007-04-13 14:02:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I have a google toolbar, i'm not sure, maybe internet explorer, but every time i click the arrow next to the search text box, a history of searches comes up. how do i get rid of the history, or start over?

2007-04-13 14:01:28 · 12 answers · asked by Jo Jo 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I were together 14 years, we have 2 kids. On New Years Eve after going out and having a great time, he said to me, I am just not into you anymore, and the family life is not for me. He moved in with his mother, he is 41. We had been apart before, for a year and a half. During that time he was seeing someone else. Then he told me he wanted his family back, so we worked it out. I thought things were wonderful, we always had fun, never fought. After leaving me and the kids for a 2nd time, he called the woman who he had been seeing when we were apart before. She took him back. I can't even get a date! He won't deal with our kids when they act up. He say's I don't live there what can I do? I get jealous because he get's away with everything. Everyone makes things easy for him. He lives rent free, then stays with his gf on the weekends he does not have the kids. He goes out has fun, his mother incourages it. I struggle to pay bills, he does pay support. I want fun too.

2007-04-13 13:59:32 · 14 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a cousin of mine that is in love with a married man, and he knows how much there friendship means to him, but she wants to move forward and TRY something with him, she wants to know how she would persue that??

2007-04-13 13:51:25 · 5 answers · asked by Lovely T 2 in Friends

Bad impressions...... meaning, at one time she cheated on her boyfriend with him, didn't respect herself much, was very clingy and immature.... acted dumb when he knew she was smart.... (all while she was 18 and he was 21)

Would he notice if she had grown up and learned how to be happy and respect herself....or would he always see her as the same, sad girl? If he had respect for her, but then lost it because SHE didn't even respect HERSELF.... could he ever gain it back again?

What do you think? Its been a year....we've stayed in touch, but mostly around the time when I was still pretty unhappy. Recently, we've had some small talk and he's made subtle comments about how I seem more confident and happy... But I think hes still having trouble taking me seriously again.

What do you think....?
Will he always have that impression of me in the back of his mind? Would he be able to gain respect for me again?

Would it be best if I just stayed away from him for a while?

2007-04-13 13:48:54 · 8 answers · asked by peach 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 13:46:28 · 1 answers · asked by Romita S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so there.

2007-04-13 13:40:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-13 13:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by Cas 4 in Singles & Dating

He disapears every friday for about three hours at night,my mom is at work so she dosen't know when he leaves,about 6 months ago I called my mom and told her that he wasn't there and it was already 12:00am.Then my mom called him and asked him were he was,he got mad at me and came screaming in my room asking me why I had called my mom and told her he wasn't there,I didn't answer him and just ignored him,ever since I have told my mom when he leaves but I have asked her to please not tell him I told her.Last week I was brave enough to tell my mom in front of him that he had left for hours and I didn't know were he was,he got really mad at me and didn't talk to me for a while.Another thing that is suspicious about him is that he dosen't let me even open his cellphone,and I'm starting to think that he's hiding something in there.My mom also thinks he's cheating on her,but dosen't tell him anything ,do you think he's cheating on her???

2007-04-13 13:34:06 · 21 answers · asked by *Lime~~~~~Green* 3 in Family

I tried eHarmony once, but my matches were usually in some other part of the country.

2007-04-13 13:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by Cas 4 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a brat, and I respect my parents. I just want to present this in a way that they will understand why I want to go. If you have done something similar, and it helped you please let me know.

2007-04-13 13:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by ARMY Babe 4 in Family

Last Dec my hubby went out of town (happened to fall on his birthday) for a business. The morn after he was showering and his phone was going off. I thought it was his snooze so I went to turn it off because the baby was still sleeping. Instead I saw it was a text. It wasn't the alert either, it was the actuall msg. It only took a glance to see the words "I love you" across the screen. The rest said "I miss you and you were here to hold me" I checked his sent messages and sure enough the night b4 he sent a similar message to the phone number. (Rules out misdial)

I confronted him about it and 1st he said it was for the guy he works with.. I didnt really buy it.. but let it go...kinda

Over a month l8r I saw the phone # had been dialed again from his cell. He got really upset at me at 1st then he got sad and said he'd been covering up his best friend's affair with this girl who was getting too close to home.

Oh yea.. the # was the same area code for the wrk trip.

2007-04-13 13:28:38 · 32 answers · asked by Ready2Fly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is gone alot due to his job. We made an agreement with our 17y/o son to do the extra things around the house that his dad would do and if he did he could drive the extra vehicle as much as he needed to. My husband has decided that our son is not holding up his end of the deal because things aren't being done as my husband would do them. Things are getting done, like trash to the curb, oil changes in the cars, fixing things around the house, etc..My husband dosen't think there is more than one way to do something, it's his way or no way (With certain things). So he is taking the keys to our 3rd vehicle. I don't agree with him. Our son is doing a great job. He has dropped his plans to get something fixed around the house on more than one occasion. Our 15y/o daughter overheard the conversation and said that wasn't fair because our son does do what he is supposed to. So now my husband is VERY angry and is saying that we are babying our son. Never had this problem before.

2007-04-13 13:27:31 · 6 answers · asked by leigh J 1 in Family

So my mom orders a bunch of stuff under my name,
she uses my social and everything.
She usually gets most or part of her orders,
but she has these sent to her address.
I only recently found out by trying to order soemthing,
and found out i had an outstanding bill for over 200!
It just happens i had seen some of the items they mentioned at her house..

I didnt do anything than, but when she ordered from 1-800-flowers, and did the same thing, i had another huge bill for one of her flings..

This is starting to really make me mad, yet i dont know what my options are..I really dont want to see her go to jail.
But she just doesnt understand, 'Stop!'
Confrontation has not worked, im open to ideas..

2007-04-13 13:27:27 · 3 answers · asked by SwiftKill 4 in Friends

I search the indian yahoo recently, I wonder why indian guys or girls believe and accept the decision made by their parent?Especially in their marriage decision. Why???

2007-04-13 13:27:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please read the article and then answer.

http://www.medsocial.com/blog.aspx?blogaction=viewblog&show=347

2007-04-13 13:24:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents found out that I have a boyfriend that's 18 years old and I'm only 14. what should I do to prevent him from going to jail?? need answers!!!

2007-04-13 13:23:23 · 27 answers · asked by KIRA 1 in Other - Family & Relationships