Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

the guy that ive liked for two years is moving in a month. i dont think i will get the chance to say goodbye to him and i really dont know how to deal the pain of him leaving. he already knows how i feel about him but i just wanna know how to deal with the pain of him leaving. i love him! how do i get through it?? i really dont want him to go? hes leaving to another state farrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr away!

2007-04-13 19:24:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 19:19:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Just wondering because I do!!!

2007-04-13 19:13:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When I started seeing my girlfriend we were polyamourus. Recently she left her other partner and hasn't approached a poly situation for a year now. She has said several time that she wants me all to herself. Now after we haven't been intimate for a few weeks and she just moved into a new home independently she asked me if it was ok to flirt with friends because she "knows" her personality and used Necking (Someone nibbling on her neck) as an example.

I felt that it would be normal in a *poly* relationship that is stable but since we haven't been intimate and her comments prior I am highly offended.

2007-04-13 19:10:00 · 5 answers · asked by Sukima 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girl and i broke up yesterday. we been 2gether for 4 months. for the past few weeks or so i noticed i wasn't feeling her as much as i used to but the sex was still WOW! for those past few weeks the only reason i stayed with her was for the sex (she didn't mind 3somes, how many women would share her boyfriend, honestly). have you ever dated someone just for the sex? i mean not just a week dated i mean a few months- a year possibly?

2007-04-13 19:02:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It really was an accident. He walked in on her and she had left the door unlocked. She was completely naked. When I asked him what he saw, he said "everything". I am trying to sort-out my feelings about this. I may want to talk to him and have him give me more detail.

2007-04-13 19:02:20 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i usually never flirt.....i have no clue what made me do that.
the guy i flirted with either didnt get the hint or didnt say nothing, he's a friend and i know that he has a crush on me too.

the thing is im in a serious relationship.

Do you think i shouldnt hang around with this guy no more or what should i do to help stop my flirting?

this is dumb i know :P

2007-04-13 18:54:25 · 4 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Friends

lol.....do guys mind if they are woken up for that stuff?

im just tempted to do "something" to my boyfriend....he's al sprawled out on the bed.....

he wakes me up when im asleep to do "the deed"

lol

what do you think?
what should i do to him?
:) ;) :P
lol

2007-04-13 18:38:18 · 40 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Singles & Dating

I smile the whole time that I'm talking basically. I didn't realized that until some guy I used to have a crush on asked me "Why you smile everytime, even when talking?"

When he asked me that question, I was in shocked, I didn't know what to say but my friend talked back to him saying Because I'm always happy.

Which is not true. Can I ever stop smiling for once and be serious with all my question until there is a joke or something funny??? If so, how can I do that, by the way I don't have perfect smile, I have an okay. It's creepy if I smile all of the time.

2007-04-13 18:33:36 · 16 answers · asked by Pretty 1 in Friends

my standards are so high now since i was lied and cheated on that i don't think i will be able to find anyone new.
does anyone else feel this way?

2007-04-13 18:33:10 · 12 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am very confused and need help with my situation, with a girl.. i have not felt this way in years?
i met this girl that currently has a boyfriend and we have been talking for over 2 months...we both admitted theres something between us but we never took it further than just friends. recently we have stop talking and a lot of words were exchanged. she said that she dont want to take it any further and i cause more stress than help . she works very close to my job and it been over a month since we have spoken to each other, we have not seen each other either . i do talk to other women and im a big flirt but at times but i cant stop thinking about her. i do like her and when i look in her eye i can see there is something there. she told me never to contact her and talk to her ever again but i cant help they way i feel . i have other women wanting to date me and get serious with me ..but again when im with them im thinking of her .what is WRONG WITH ME. what should i do since she told me not to contact her or talk to her ...i have her number and email..should i try calling or email??

2007-04-13 18:28:19 · 18 answers · asked by ben d 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What must we do to keep these vious acts from recurring among our most vunerable as in the case of Jessica Lundsford and many other children in our nation.

2007-04-13 18:26:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-13 18:24:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am not there yet cause i have a new born but how long does it usually take for lonelyness to set in?

2007-04-13 18:23:02 · 16 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well there is this guy ive been talking too and we definately both like eachother.
but, we are hanging out next week.
i want to kiss him but i dont know how to
casually slide it in.
He said he was shy about that stuff so i
dont want to make him uncomfortable.
I just need differnt opinions and life
experiances..

2007-04-13 18:14:38 · 7 answers · asked by bethany 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 18:09:59 · 18 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

So he made a pass at me months ago and I actually didn't catch on to it. But every time my son comes home from school this guy, who used to come over all the time, is no longer coming over. My son goes back to college and he starts to call me again. I only offer help because I'm a doctor and he is dealing with his addition. With all the training I have had, why do I feel obligated to help him?

2007-04-13 18:09:08 · 4 answers · asked by new beginnings 1 in Friends

I'm really confused and I need help sorting it all out. Last september I started college majoring in pre-med. My grades sucked and I took a semester off. I am going back to college at a different school and I intend to go for secondary education. My question being how do I tell if I changed my career focus out of fear or actual realization that being a doctor isn't what I want? When it comes down to it all i've ever wanted was to help people in my job and now I don't know what to do. I decided not to be a doctor during my time away and I don't know if it was the embarrasment of the bad grades or a genuine realization that I don't want to be a doctor. I've also wanted, at least on some level, to be a teacher ever since I was little. I also like to please people and whenever I told them I was pre-med or I was going to be a doctor; they were proud of me. When I tell these same people that I'm no longer doing so, I get an "oh that's nice" look. How am I supposed to figure this out?

2007-04-13 18:02:23 · 8 answers · asked by amandamoose 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okie well i have just started a relationship with a guy i like alot, but i dont know him well enough to trust him yet, but i want to beable to trust him more than the world, im just not sure if i can yet. and he also has this "best friend" thats a girl, and he hangs with her everyday, therefore the part when i dont know if i can trust him comes in. and i just jealous because he hugs his best friend more than me, or and i just over reacting.. please help me! FAST!

2007-04-13 18:01:31 · 6 answers · asked by t_angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 17:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-13 17:52:51 · 18 answers · asked by icecreamheadache420 2 in Marriage & Divorce

big wusses. What's up with that?

2007-04-13 17:52:16 · 20 answers · asked by Psychgirl35 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this woman through work. We were the best of friends for the longest time. We ended up hooking up and having a great relationship for over a year. The problem is that she is married. She kept me hidden and didn't want anyone to know but proceeded to tell me that she had never been more in love with someone in her life, that no one has ever treated her better, and that she was in love with me. She had planned to leave her husband and for us to have a future together. All the while I fell madly in love with her. I ended up breaking things off with her because, after a year and a half, I was tired of playing the waiting game. Now, we rarely talk, she has gone on with her miserable married life and I am still in love with her and can't seem to get on with my life. How do I get over her?

2007-04-13 17:46:43 · 4 answers · asked by gogiter 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 17:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by abhilasha b 2 in Singles & Dating

basically this is the situation with my bf/father of my child...he wants to marry me but im not sure which is more important to me. he hasnt proven to be much of a provider, well not as much as i would like him to be...in his defense he is still very young...hes not a bum he has a job is going to college he just doesnt show much ambition in my eyes. if something seems too hard he shuts it down and doesnt try.
were not struggling (were not SUPER comfortable but were not on assistance or anything), we have money, hes not a dead beat, he takes care of his child.
meanwhile.....
me and his child are the most important things in his life he would never do anything to jeopardize our relationship he is totally in love with me. i love him too i doubt i could find someone that puts me on a pedestal like he does...
i just dont know if i have my priorities straight.

2007-04-13 17:35:05 · 48 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5 in Marriage & Divorce

okay this is really difficult for me there is this boy that I like and he liked me he use to tell me he loved me but I am trying to stop liking him so much because he is a big flit and he is really breaking my heart but I don't share my feeling because I don't want to look so insecure. He is sweet but he stays in girls faces and always saves me for last and I am really sick of him he has broken my heart so many times but I just can't seem to get over him

2007-04-13 17:30:57 · 11 answers · asked by nesipoo 2 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking about marriage and divorce. I would like to know from those who are married if the decision was worth it. Is marriage all that different from a seriously committed relationship? And from those who arent married, and dont plan on getting married...Do you really see a point in it? I have been in a committed on again off again relationship for the past 3-4 years or so and I dont see marriage more than just a leagal bond. Although... sometimes I do have the urge to get married.... Am I going crazy!?

2007-04-13 17:30:29 · 20 answers · asked by motreystyle23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I HAVE HAD SEX OUTSIDE AND IT WAS GOOD

2007-04-13 17:30:20 · 20 answers · asked by Mz.peaches 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Either its really bad or............ good and you are scared to lose it!

2007-04-13 17:30:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are going thru a divorce, she decided to get a new boyfriend (which she has moved in with my 2 kids along with another couple) and her dad. All of hem smoke dope, and snort coke.
My kids tell me they are made to go to their room all the time. my guess is that they can smoke their dope. My kids tell me everything. This new boyfriend and her are sleeping together. My kids do not like this.or them.

I can not afford a lawyer but learned enough to file a petition for divorce and custody. I will be representing myself. I have learned a lot. Since she was served papers, she has called me threatened me on the phone which I recorded and reported to the police. They arrested her. How can I get my kids out of her possesion? since we have no legal custody yet, I know I can go pull them out of school (Would I look bad for doing this) I am trying to do everything legal. I still would have to bring them back to school. Then it just puts the kids in a worst situation. What do I do?

2007-04-13 17:29:50 · 17 answers · asked by Bones 5 in Marriage & Divorce