I am not there yet cause i have a new born but how long does it usually take for lonelyness to set in?
2007-04-13 18:23:02 · 16 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what are some signs that you are lonely?
2007-04-13 18:24:30 · update #1
it was not the lonely part that worries me it is the part where i start to trust again beem 6 yrs
2007-04-13 18:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by k dog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was more lonely when I was married than after the divorce. I had a full time job, a 5 year old child, friends and family around, and I bought a house 18 months after the divorce, so I had all of that to do.
I never have been as lonely after the divorce, as I was during the marriage. You may not get lonely..dont' look for monsters in the closet. If it happens, then see it for what it is, and keep on moving.
2007-04-14 07:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the process of a divorce already, I filed and everything. I don't really feel lonely at all because he's been gone away for along time. Surround yourself with friends and family, get out and do things. Just keep yourself busy so you don't have time to feel lonely, live your life and have fun to the fullest.
2007-04-14 03:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by iNd€p€nd€nt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question to answer but as soon as you start wishing there was someone to cuddle with on those lonely nights. Why do so many people divorce? It's almost like marriage is taken so lightly these days.
2007-04-14 01:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by GTM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I took some serious time to relearn who I am and to do the things that I wanted to do. The days were really easy, the nights kinda sucked though sometimes. I always kept a bottle of Tylenol PM for the really bad nights though.
Now, after 2 years, I find that I have to hide from all of my new friends to get any peace and quiet.
2007-04-14 04:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never. I started going out, seeing friends, having a nice time. All things I couldn't do with my ex because he disdained everything I liked, including my friends. While he was out boffing every barfly he could, I went out dancing, art shows, movies, gaming with friends, just basic social stuff. I met nice guys everywhere I went. I never had a problem getting a date but mostly, I had friends, good friends i could talk to and hang out with anytime. And if I felt alone at night, I masterbated. But generally sex wasn't something I lacked either.
I think a lot of it is attitude; I was very lonely in my marriage. Once I got out, i felt MUCH better.
2007-04-14 03:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people are quite lonely before the divorce
2007-04-14 01:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the divorce and your situation.
You have a new baby - that will keep you busy!
Keep busy and try not to feel sorry for yourself.
Sometimes, loneliness or sadness will hit you one day or night when you don't expect it.
Honestly, you will feel lonely at times and miss him at times, get sad at times. Just be aware these feelings get less with time. Concentrate on your job, your projects and goals, your baby (and if you have them, other children).
2007-04-14 01:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by Tanya968 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It won't be long but you know what? you just hold on to that newborn it's your way to keep your mind of sad toughts, and in time you may find your self thinking that if you got a divorce if was for a reason and time heals emotional wounds. Keep your faith up and find a way to get over it. You will be fine. Good luck.
2007-04-14 01:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was lonely during my marriage...since I left 5 years ago haven't been lonely.
2007-04-14 01:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋