my girl and i broke up yesterday. we been 2gether for 4 months. for the past few weeks or so i noticed i wasn't feeling her as much as i used to but the sex was still WOW! for those past few weeks the only reason i stayed with her was for the sex (she didn't mind 3somes, how many women would share her boyfriend, honestly). have you ever dated someone just for the sex? i mean not just a week dated i mean a few months- a year possibly?
2007-04-13 19:02:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you a dating someone for reason than you are not really dating are just killing time and there is no real love one could say that got what you deserve now it time for to move on and maybe next time you will feel love and if not keep doing what you have been
2007-04-13 19:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, when i got to college i started out dating this guy that was so hott and the sex was amazing but after a while the relationship part of it went south. So rather than breaking it off i stayed with him just because of the sex.
It's such a guy thing to say but yea for a while it was just all about the sex. Eventually i broke things off because he read more into the situation than there was. He thought that because we slept together so often that it was because i really cared for him.. and that it wasn't really all about the sex.
It can work out for a while... and for that time it's GREAT. Thing is eventually it will catch up to you and you'll hear the words you dread... "i love you". At which point you feel bad for keeping a dying relationship going for just sex.
2007-04-14 02:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, if the sex is good you keep them around until you find something better. There is nothing wrong with a 3some once and a while if everyone agrees.
2007-04-14 02:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes. we all have, at one time or another. I suppose the lenght depends on just how good she is in bed. But a year, sounds like a long time, if that is all you have in common.
Lets face it, we guys, when we get a hot sexy lady, are reluctant to leave her. It's not something we find in all our dates.
Eventually, though we do break up, as we all need other things besides sex. As hard as that is to believe sometimes, lol.
2007-04-14 02:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2007-04-14 02:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Smurfette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋