I met this woman through work. We were the best of friends for the longest time. We ended up hooking up and having a great relationship for over a year. The problem is that she is married. She kept me hidden and didn't want anyone to know but proceeded to tell me that she had never been more in love with someone in her life, that no one has ever treated her better, and that she was in love with me. She had planned to leave her husband and for us to have a future together. All the while I fell madly in love with her. I ended up breaking things off with her because, after a year and a half, I was tired of playing the waiting game. Now, we rarely talk, she has gone on with her miserable married life and I am still in love with her and can't seem to get on with my life. How do I get over her?
2007-04-13 17:46:43 · 4 answers · asked by gogiter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start hanging out with your friends and family. Keep busy. Time heals all wounds. Be glad you're out the relationship. She may have ended up doing the same thing to you in the future. Be happy, you've freed your self and are allowing yourself the opportunity to meet someone that's right for you. Just don't jump right into another relationship too soon. Everything happens for a reason. Learn from this. It's hard having to see her at work, try not to focus on her. This is drastic, but you may think about changing jobs. If you've thought of it before, now is the time to do it. Good luck!!!
2007-04-13 17:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by yani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably won't be easy b/c she loves you too. did she say why she hadn't proceeded with the divorce? maybe she was scared to leave her husband (if he takes care of most of the finances) do they have children together? You really have to look at all factors in this situation. The easiest way is to talk to her and get some closure. Don't act like you want her back when you talk...she may have been playing you (no intention of leaving her husband). You should probably talk with her for some closure though. good luck!
2007-04-13 17:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't easy to get over any romance, but it is especially hard when you work together...so maybe that should be the life lesson you learn...keep romance and work separate. Maybe you could go out with friends , and mingle a little with people away from work. You don't give your age, but I am sure there are lots of interesting single women out there who could distract you once you put your feelings for an unavailable woman to the side.
2007-04-13 17:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ul have to go to classes or do u like anyone else
2007-04-13 17:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋