i usually never flirt.....i have no clue what made me do that.
the guy i flirted with either didnt get the hint or didnt say nothing, he's a friend and i know that he has a crush on me too.
the thing is im in a serious relationship.
Do you think i shouldnt hang around with this guy no more or what should i do to help stop my flirting?
this is dumb i know :P
2007-04-13 18:54:25 · 4 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What you did is not uncommon. It's a bit about our self image. When you are in a commited relationship, often one's partner, may take you for granted, and not compliement you on how you look, or how pretty you are.
When some other guy, that you find attractive, looks at you, you flirt with him to see if you still have what it takes to attract a man.
It's a great boost to your ego, when he does react to you. And besides flirting can be fun. So as long as you remember you love your man, flirting, will just remain that.
However, try to tell the guy you are flirting with, that you are taken and happy with your guy.
As long as you both know, the flirting is just for fun, then just enjoy it.
You will know if either he or you go to far with it.
Just be honest with him and yourself, and it should go well.
2007-04-13 19:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you might be a little 2 young 2 be in a serious relationship girl have fun flirt wit who ever he might be doing the same thing you know u cant trust a boy these days they lie so much i think you should hang with him he's just a friend but tell him you want 2 hang out as friends and nothing else
2007-04-14 02:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by babygyrl092003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't sweat it too much unless it's happening all the time.
If it's rare then it still means u love the one you're with now. If it's happening a lot, u might check your feelings about the one you're in a relationship with. Maybe u ain't satisfied with that relationship.
Either way, be honest with the guy you're with now.
2007-04-14 02:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by Travis M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remind yourself of the relationship you're in. If it's serious and you really love him, you'll stop it naturally.
2007-04-14 01:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋