2007-04-13 18:24:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just because you are married doesn't mean your dreams come to an end. Some will change, some may need to be delayed, and some may never materialize. If you have a dream that is really important, discuss it with your spouse and try to make it a reality.
2007-04-13 18:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jim Maryland 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now and then the grass seems greener or I wonder what if this or that. But I adore my husband and wouldn't change a thing even if I could. Recently an old schoolmate of mine got divorced and I was like, "Now you can go have fun and be single again!" I had good intentions, but he wasn't into that at all because he wasn't over the divorce. Hopefully he'll get there someday. It occurred to me though that for me to be single again would mean either going through a divorce or becoming a widow. Both of those things would put a BIG damper on single life for a long time, if not forever. Single life is fun at times, but it's only just a search for something I've already found.
2007-04-14 01:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne Rides 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am living my dream. We have our ups and downs, but that is the same as single life. I felt lost and empty when I was single and I now feel whole with my husband and daughter. I wouldn't trade them for anything in the world. At times I do wish that I didn't have as many obligations and responsibilities, wish that I could come and go as I please, but if I did those things, I wouldn't have the wonderful things that I have (my loving family). I think you should live life enough BEFORE you get married so that you won't want to stray once you get married.
2007-04-14 02:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by mother_of_a_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess my dream when I was single was to be married & have kids. Now that I have fulfilled that dream, occasionally I do wish for being single & having no ties & a great career. It would be easier. Still it is what it is, I gave up a lot, but I got a lot, too. I don't expect my children to fulfill my dreams - they have their own dreams - I only hope they'll love & appreciate me after they're raised & take on some positive attributes that I may have given them. All in all, it's a crap shoot.
2007-04-14 01:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweet pea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fulfilled a lot of my dreams before getting married...and wondered why my life still felt so empty. I never even wanted to get married, till I met the man I did marry! Some of my dreams have gone by the wayside--but others have taken their place. life is a fluid, changing thing. You just have to go with the flow, as long as it is going in a good direction.
2007-04-14 01:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by hdgrrl72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although there are times I might think I'd wish to be single (happens usually during a . . .dispute), I KNOW being married is to live the dream!
2007-04-14 01:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Ji k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah you like to be like that leaving all the tensions in life and have a very nice life as a single as before you used to be well this is a kind of dream every adult or gent will have after they get married and have jobs which increase tensions and stress well i can
2007-04-14 01:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live my dreams & have support from my soul mate, why would I want to be single again & play games again.Bar scenes are so sad. Nothing beats my love & shared life with my husband.
2007-04-14 01:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Faith walker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I lived my life very fully prior to getting married and marriage has helped to round it out completely. When my kids are grown I can go back to being selfish and self centered once again.
2007-04-14 01:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dream is to be with this woman. That's why we got married. Do I sometimes think about other possibilities, Yes, but that's why I choose to be here (the other possibilities don't look that good)
2007-04-14 01:33:52 · answer #10 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋