Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

my new husband has a young child "sam"with his ex who he pays the required child support for.the ex allways wants more money but knows she can't get it.so what she does(just some examples) is let sams hair get so long that my husband takes and pays for him to get it cut.if sam needs something at school she has him call and ask my husband to pay for it(being a great dad he never says no and she knows this)I know these are all small things but she pulls this stuff all the time and money is tight for us .I feel his ex should pay for these things as he pays her child support.My husband thinks im overeacting am i?

2007-04-13 15:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-13 15:40:27 · 12 answers · asked by sheryl r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Because I thought I found "The One" - my god, I pined for this girl two years back - then I eventually just let the whole thing go to shi-t. Now we've broken, completely my fault, and I'm wondering what the heck happened. Im 25 shes 30, perhaps were at different stages?

2007-04-13 15:39:20 · 1 answers · asked by jk101south 1 in Singles & Dating

those men that are simply hot and whoa!

2007-04-13 15:37:17 · 3 answers · asked by Thug_oho 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is a real tomboy and she isn't too thrilled about the idea of dressing up for the wedding, (she hasn't said this but she's my sister, i know her) Is it wrong for me not to have her as a bridesmaid? i want my bridesmaids to be enthusiastic and happy, and i'm not sure if i'll get that from my sister, who don't get me wrong is happy for me but like i said she's not a dress up be infront of people person. I just don't want to break some unwritten rule and neglect to ask her to be a bridesmaid...and if she is a bridesmaid, is it wrong to have my best friend as my maid of honor instead of my sister?

2007-04-13 15:34:19 · 31 answers · asked by teeny tiny KT 2 in Weddings

2007-04-13 15:34:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

job in an area that brings up memories of my own dream of being chased by someone who wanted to rape and murder me, does this dream mean somthing else or should I be concerned??

2007-04-13 15:21:14 · 2 answers · asked by kathleen h 2 in Family

I'm moving 2 hours away, i don't want to end my realationship. It's not too far ,but will it still be far enough to end it?

2007-04-13 15:19:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

again... If you are an adult, and want to be in a relationship with a minor, what is the age difference that is the legal limit to be in that relationship in the state of Tennessee?

2007-04-13 15:19:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean I feel bad for her but you don't have to tolerate that behavior. Why do women put up with abuse?

2007-04-13 15:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by Jackie Oh! 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 15:17:57 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

He spilled Kool Aid all over himself.

Very poor coordination.

Bap! Bap!

He's crying his little eyes out now.

I'm sorry, but it's really f'n funny! Like it's that big of an f'n deal. Good lord. I have a feeling this kid might be playing on the pink team when he hits puberty, if you kjow what i mean.

LOL!

Bap Bap! Machine gun!

2007-04-13 15:16:41 · 12 answers · asked by Mel Dogg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

[this happened to me 2day]

2007-04-13 15:11:32 · 10 answers · asked by Lexi W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So i really like this guy and i got my friend to give him the note for me. Everytime i get near him i freak out and run away. I just wanted him to know how i feel and my friends took to note from him because they thought it was creepy to be open about how i feel. He is older than me he is in 9th grade and im in 8th was it a dumb thing to do?

2007-04-13 15:10:58 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and my friend asked him and she said he likes me too, should I tell him I like him or get someone to do it for me, or should I not tell him at all?

2007-04-13 15:09:00 · 10 answers · asked by ...heartshapedbox... 2 in Singles & Dating

i sometimes wonder if i had played my cards differently and had not wasted so much time on unimportant bull and stupid goals like a mba which was useless in my business. i am wasting time now because bad health has be down and just taking up space. i enjoy good food and some tv, and messing around of computer. but shouldn't i be doing something more imporantatn. my i should have done a lot more for other people. maybe that would have made life more satisfying. wasted time, wasted mind.

2007-04-13 15:03:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 14:55:00 · 3 answers · asked by heidih800 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He broke up with me many times in the past and i always chased him back. that's just my personality. I thought if i try hard enough, anything can happen, including a relationship. It's not true.

So when he broke up with me 4 months ago i finally didnt chase him. He came back to me, for the first time, 2 months ago.

Things are going well and he bought tickets to see me(we are long distance and i used to buy tickets all the time to see him). A month ago one night I got emotional and i broke it off. He cancelled his flight. I didnt think he'd give up that easily but he did. Since i didnt really mean to break up I called him back, emailed him, apologized a million times. But he wont even respond to me.

Now he's posting depressing aways messages on aim and facebook like he's sick and barely surviving and stuff like that. Is now a good time to talk to him? I'm scared. I dont wanna be ignored again b/c that way i got hurt all over again. What should i do?

2007-04-13 14:54:30 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

This little boy likes me, he is in the 4th grade and I am in the
6th grade.I can't go with him because well you should know
the reason.I want to tell him I dont like him but I also don't want to hurt his feelings,he is cute and all but he is too young.

Please help me out.
thanks.

2007-04-13 14:51:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 14:51:30 · 14 answers · asked by asmikeocsit 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering.

2007-04-13 14:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. in tha rain
2. in front of tha fireplace
3. snowing outside

-i would in tha rain[]

2007-04-13 14:50:29 · 19 answers · asked by Miss Murder 2 in Singles & Dating

is there something other than the breahth right strip's [that don't work} cure this? IT'S REALLY BAD!!

2007-04-13 14:49:57 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 5'4", shoulder length brown wavey hair, and wear glasses. Im getting contacts this weekend and Im interested in cutting and dying my hair, getting contacts ( like i said) and hopefully getting a new hair straightener. Guys, what hair color and style do you like in a girl....im kind of trying to impress this guy... but girls can help to! Any advise?

2007-04-13 14:43:30 · 10 answers · asked by plastic.hearts.&&.paper.smiles 2 in Singles & Dating

well...theres this girl at my school and she asked me what my last name was and i told her then she said omg...do you know (well im not gonna say the name) blank and i said yes and then she said that he likes me and that his b-day was a cupple of days ago and and he wished for me to say yes...what does that mean yes to what being his girlfriend or something...i hardly even know him all i know is that he went to my school last year and his name...so anyways the point is do you think she was telling the truth or what?

2007-04-13 14:39:36 · 7 answers · asked by Jelly 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you consider a subconcious act like dreaming to be cheating if you were with someone else apart from your significant other?

2007-04-13 14:35:26 · 29 answers · asked by Murray 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf & i had problems coz he's christian & i'm not, he's been trying to get me into believing god, but i felt so much pressure that i said some regretful things to him, like i why can't he accept me as i am. it's not like i don't accept god but i really want to do it on my own & not because of him. i love him. but now he's telling me that his feelings for me hasn't changed yet (no feelings). i really want to know how can i find those lost feelings again. we were almost getting to the marriage stage and i find it so disappointing for such a thing to separate us. what can i do to save our relationship?

2007-04-13 14:34:03 · 5 answers · asked by silver 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 14:32:22 · 27 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

i get the line "i think i like you more as a friend" . why could this be?

2007-04-13 14:27:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's next Saturday.

2007-04-13 14:24:33 · 23 answers · asked by ~~~~~~~~ ~ 4 in Singles & Dating