He broke up with me many times in the past and i always chased him back. that's just my personality. I thought if i try hard enough, anything can happen, including a relationship. It's not true.
So when he broke up with me 4 months ago i finally didnt chase him. He came back to me, for the first time, 2 months ago.
Things are going well and he bought tickets to see me(we are long distance and i used to buy tickets all the time to see him). A month ago one night I got emotional and i broke it off. He cancelled his flight. I didnt think he'd give up that easily but he did. Since i didnt really mean to break up I called him back, emailed him, apologized a million times. But he wont even respond to me.
Now he's posting depressing aways messages on aim and facebook like he's sick and barely surviving and stuff like that. Is now a good time to talk to him? I'm scared. I dont wanna be ignored again b/c that way i got hurt all over again. What should i do?
2007-04-13 14:54:30 · 11 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget about him. move on.
2007-04-13 14:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by morobell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there really isn't anything you can do. If you two have broke up so many times already, it probably won't end up good in the very end. I would just TRY to move on. If that doesn't work, just give it time. From the sound of it, hes just being a guy. Maybe he just needs time off of everything and so he really doesnt want to talk about his feelings yet. Like I said, Just give it time, hope for the best, and things MIGHT work out.
2007-04-13 14:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by ~!~Jo~!~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two keep breaking up and getting together and breaking up and getting together, it sounds like you aren't really meant to be together. It's hard to let go, and when you've been with someone for a while, you're almost addicted to them. Maybe you should really give this relationship a break for a while. I mean a good, LONG while. If after a year or so you feel like you want to try again, maybe contact him then. I would think that the two of you are not going to be happy going back and forth like this, and you've just got yourselves into this cycle. Take a breather.
2007-04-13 15:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he thinks that you don't love him anymore..I mean you break up constantly...it's not a stable relationship. It's about time you let him and the relationship go. There will be other guys. Why be with someone who constantly breaks up with you and you have to go chase after. It's all one big game....and it's only to leading both of you down a road that's full of let downs and depression.
2007-04-13 15:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've obviously broken his heart..he was looking forward to getting together with you, bought a plane ticket and you cancel at the last minute and break up with him??? Wow* because one night you got "emotional"??wow..You're cold*~
and YOU don't want to be ignored again cuz u will get hurt?? WOW*
You need to do some soul searching and figure out what you want in life. GoodLuck to you*
2007-04-13 15:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember the good times you had with him, and call it a day. Stop being a fool about him. Your relationship with him had big issues, so it's time you stay away from him. He doesn't want to see you again. Leave it at that.
2007-04-13 15:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for what you are going through but it seems that you need to first love yourself before you can give your love to someone else. A person that loves themselves doesn't allow someone to treat them like the way he treats you. Be strong this doesn't seem to be a good relationship for you or him. Be strong and occupy yourself with positive people. Look for people that love you no matter what.
2007-04-13 15:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by jv27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time look before you leap. Don't dance on a dangling rope. You will fall helplessly.
2007-04-13 14:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop talkin to him is the best wai to go. im sry about ur situation.
2007-04-13 14:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Doing Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talc to him and worc it out
2007-04-13 14:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by autumn p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋