i get the line "i think i like you more as a friend" . why could this be?
2007-04-13 14:27:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's wrong with that? I thought girls wanted to be friends with guys. If you're trying to get a boyfriend, maybe you should start letting the guys "pick you" instead of you picking them. You could also have that "Oprah factor" working for you...where you don't really need a man and the guys can sense it.
Guys you meet in bars are trying to get one thing and they probably know that you're to smart to fall for their game. But don't change your game to get a guy. Some people are just meant to be alone. I'm single for over 3 years and loving every minute of it.
2007-04-13 14:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're very pretty and talented...i would suggest working on your personality*.......are you loud? bossy? sad? or are you too shy you don't speak, ...do you always talk of yourself and your ?talent?..search within and find out what it is in your personality that you need to work on. Ask the guy when he says I think i like you more as a friend...say ok my friend..can you be honest with me and tell me why i'm always hearing that line?? what is it about me that you feel the need to say that? See what his answer is...ask a true friend of yours..what is it that i do or say that is coming across to guys that they don't want anything other than a "friend"..or like you like my sister"...Only way to find out...for you to improve yourself...is to Ask straight up...What it is that drives them away?? GoodLuck*
2007-04-13 21:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be that you get too close to them. I know i personally sometimes have to pull that line because its the truth, if you like somebody like a friend, its hard to see them as a girlfriend. Jus sometimes, you have to push them away to get them to like you. Give it a shot, the worst that can happen is that that doesnt work either, and go back to the old way.
2007-04-13 21:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what type of person are you? you try to be there buddy or best friend more than there lover? Yes, we need our lover to be our friend as well, but we also need someone to be different then our friends. If you try to hard, or come off to strong in liking the same stuff, you might give off the friend vibe, instead of the serious romantic vibe.
2007-04-13 21:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by kasstastrophy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really hard to tell as you don't tell us much about yourself and what you are saying or doing or sharing with them after you meet and talk and all..? maybe you are giving them the signs or just telling them in plain english that you don't or wont' put out? which is a good thing...this would be most peoples' first thoughts on it..
2007-04-13 21:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe they feel intimidated by your beauty or you make them feel uncomfortable. But some guy when they are uncomfortable they need to get out. SO don't worry your knight in shining armour will come one day. And if you need to chat IM me anytime.
2007-04-13 21:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U probably dont show sex appeal.... guys need that in life, they need to know that u want them sexually, dont be hoe but dont be a prude..... and guys will like u relationally more.... pull out that low cut shirt and jeans that show that A S S so he will want u and show that u want him too...... this will greatly help because u asound innnocent as ever! LOLZ try it and give me the best answer
2007-04-13 21:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by partyanimalkg12 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it's not because you're pretty or talented or confident. it must be something else about you that you are not telling us. maybe your attitude is off putting, maybe you talk to much, maybe youre annoying. maybe youre conceited (most likely). i really dont know, these are some possible reasons though
2007-04-13 21:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by fippypoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they figured that you and them might not have that connection or chemistry with you. its perfectly okay, it just means you havent found the right guy for you yet. you need some time before you you meet the right one, not every guy you meet is a good potential for you.
2007-04-13 21:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually one of two things, either there's something about your personalities that clash, or...they think you're too good for them and they find you intimidating. Either way, they both suck. But there's a guy for you out there, somewhere.
2007-04-13 21:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by shere143 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋