Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

2007-04-13 13:21:47 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm going to a new high school next year and only 1 guy from my old school is going there. it's a public school. at my school right now, i'm not a nerd, but i'm not in the "cool" crowd. i hang out with some of the "cool" people, but i'm not their best friends or anything. i have a lot of friends right now, but i just don't want to be a huge nerd going into high school. should i stay the same? or completely change?? since i don't know anyone, what should i change??

2007-04-13 13:21:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We would like to have something outdoors or close to it. ( No beaches) Maybe in a garden. It has to be in N. California so we are looking into places like Napa or Lake Tahoe areas ( driving distance from San Francisco). Its short notice but going to a chapel, vegas or the courthouse are out of the question. ( and no I am not pregnant )

2007-04-13 13:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by Lovelee 2 in Weddings

speed/amfetamines because I have adhd they say!
whaaahaa !

2007-04-13 13:19:53 · 22 answers · asked by roger t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 13:17:12 · 7 answers · asked by dcm8 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I recently broke up. The underlining reason of this being that she wanted to get back in touch with herself spiritually and felt that she had been ignoring a large part of herself in being with me (I claim no religion). Also know that I love her.

So my question is, should I explore sharing her religion even though I would be completely modivated by my love of her and not of God?

SUBQUESTION: I never asked her to put her morals or ethics on the shelf for me...so why do I get the shaft?

Is it better to burn out or to fade away?

2007-04-13 13:16:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A holiday? A day trip to a great place?

2007-04-13 13:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay,she gave birth to me(and my 3 sisters) and my parents divorced in 1977. I love my mother but I don't trust her.
How can I when she has lied to me so many times before?
The last time that I've seen her was around Christmas and she lives with my sister who doesn't live too far from me.

I try to be in her life but she seems as if she takes advantage of me and all.I love when I'm with her but I can't learn to trust her.
She's let me down most of my life and I have her e-mail & when I try to contact her,she never replies back or never calls me.I have tried to get in touch with her but I get upset because we never hang out that much anymore.

This is a serious question and I've been depressed most of my life because of it.I just hope that one day she'll come through.
I miss my mother.I love her very much.I have a step mom(since 1995)and she seems to be a better mom to me than my biological mother.

Any thoughts or advice u can give? Thanks.

2007-04-13 13:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by drew1jms 3 in Family

I recently emailed my bf n asked whether he was happy being with me and all and that i always picture him happier with another girl.its in my habit to do that for the past 3 yrs. we have been tgt for 3 yrs now coming 4th this yr.He replied me with something like i did thought of that too but he still cannot let go, in me and for me. and he said its up to me whether i want it to end or to continue. i feel quite hurt, i am like trying to salvage it and he is just letting it hang loosely?... and in the first place i did state that i didnt want it to end..things have been gettin cold, and we are drifting. the limited time we have is becoming a problem..we have been through alot the past 3 yrs. we fought through the parents objection to be together..but maybe time have neutralise everything .sometimes it doesnt feel as impt anymore...isit me or isit him?i am upset.but i cant cry. i feel like everything's bottled up inside. gosh. pls help....

2007-04-13 13:15:28 · 6 answers · asked by blacked_sheep 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl I know and like has just been dumped and I want to ask her out but not appear insensitive, how long should I wait?

2007-04-13 13:14:43 · 12 answers · asked by cranberrysticks 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been planning this trip since Jan. to get away from Cali and visit my boyfriend for a week. I already have the entire week off of work! But the bad news is we broke up. I have a lot of friends looking forward to seeing me, but I know the sole prupose of me going was to see him. i have saved my money up and I am ready to go. The other thing is my b-day is coming up. this was my b-day celebration. Now i dont know what to do for my birthday.

2007-04-13 13:13:54 · 17 answers · asked by Mersadez H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I told her she was creating work for herself and she yelled at me and stuck her finger in my face (in a restaurant!) saying I had no idea what I was talking about. Now she is acting like teenage girl - making her assitant call me, and refusing to sit with me at lunch (small town - few restaurants.) Do I need to apologise? Or does she?

2007-04-13 13:13:26 · 2 answers · asked by sigh 1 in Friends

If the divorce rate is higher than 50% is it really worth it to get married? I am 18 and I have been really depressed lately because my boyfriend and I broke up. We were together for 2 years and I feel like I am never going to stay with one man forever. I always wanted to get married and have a great marriage but it seems impossible to me. My parents aren't happy. My dad is a loner - always has been and he is not affectionate. He spends all of his time on the computer and barely says 2 sentences to me or my mom. They have been married for 19 years. She told me yesterday that she used to care that he wasn't spending time with her but now she doesn't. This was why me and my bf broke up b/c for the past month he hardly wanted to spend time with me and when I finally spoke up about it he turned it around & made it look like it was my fault and he broke up with me. I just don't want to end up like my parents and I want to know if it is really rare for a marriage to last.

2007-04-13 13:13:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i wrote this but i did not edit it and i want you help i want to give it to this bot but it sounds stupid





he makes me smile when im feeling down
he makes me feel warm when its freezing cold
i love him but does he love me?
im insecure when im around him because i wonder if he likes me
i hear he likes another girl.
will she and not me rock his world?
why cant i get the courage to go up and say
"will you love me"








please help me edit it i really like this guy and please no smart remarks

2007-04-13 13:13:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he told me that he compared our relationship to his relationship with his ex and he said he knew it was wrong to do it and he felt bad about it but that he had done it anyway. now i feel second best. i know he doesnt like her anymore, but i feel like i cant give him the same relationship she did, and now i feel really bad. i told him, but he didnt quite get it- he just thought i was saying he didnt love me anymore. i know he does, but i think he loved her better. =(

2007-04-13 13:12:09 · 6 answers · asked by emzie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 13:11:56 · 21 answers · asked by heidih800 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 13:08:59 · 21 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

i just broke up with my bf a week ago...he lives in indiana and i live in texas, we were goint out for about 3 months but we kinda stopped emailing each other and i couldnt get thru to him on the phone, and he had said that he was too busy to call me...so i ended it, i really miss him and i havent talked to him since, i wana meet new ppl and start dating, but i cant get over him...what should i do??

2007-04-13 13:08:12 · 13 answers · asked by jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

Everyone always suggests counseling but how many of you suggesting it have actually gone themselves? For anyone that has, did you find that it helped your relationship or just prolonged the inevitable?

2007-04-13 13:07:54 · 9 answers · asked by jennifer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 13:07:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like this guy but i cant find the confidence to say hi to him. we always look at each other in the hallway and im not sure if hes interseted and thats why i want to talk to him and get to know him. but im to scared.

should i suck it up and go for it or wait for him to make a move?

2007-04-13 13:06:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-13 13:06:07 · 11 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

Later. I don't wanna. How to get out of this?

2007-04-13 13:04:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 13:02:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out with this one guy for about half a year.
He dumped me about 2-3 months ago and I swore to myself ten million times that I am over him, but so far, I just keep falling for him again and again and again.

As time went on though, I have gone through some hard times, and he has always been there for me, and I have always been there for him. and as the time went by, we have became really close and good friends.
But I still really like him. I don't know what to do.
Anyone have any ideas in how to get my mind off him, but to keep our relationship as strong?
Or in general: How to get over a guy?




(most advice I have seen on here is to sleep with their best friend/mom/sister. but I will NOT do that. hahah)

2007-04-13 12:59:26 · 5 answers · asked by irishpride01 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 12:58:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-13 12:57:58 · 16 answers · asked by itawaka girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the thing - it's not a good place now, our marriage. Without going into much detail - we lived in different rooms for 2 years. My husband did not even try to be physical and explained it because it was my fault as I moved out of our room. Okay, after we had therapy I moved back to our room. Nothing changed. Some people say "why don't you take control and put your leg on him". Well, easy to say, but I have no desire because I am used to feel like a furniture. I mean, he never showed any desire before. The worst is that I am the one, who tries to talk. Every time I talk to him, he sends me on a guild trip. I wrote him the letter, suggesting to go back to the counsellor. He does not bother to reply. Is he waiting for me to go up the wall so I leave? Is it just that he does not want to take any responsibility and just wants to be the victim, when I leave?

2007-04-13 12:57:18 · 7 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 12:57:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy and he will shoot everyone that gets on his property and his kid stole my skateboard now I am mad so I need to know how to get back at him and how? oh yeah he also has to other sisters that helped him steal it!!!!

2007-04-13 12:54:51 · 6 answers · asked by coco 1 in Other - Family & Relationships