Later. I don't wanna. How to get out of this?
2007-04-13 13:04:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Could you possibly be a bit more vague?
"Do things" - rob a bank? stick a cell phone up your butt to see if you can still hear it ring? Sky dive? What things?
If you mean sexual things, by all means take the advice of 90% of the women here and lie and say you have a headache, projectile pooping, cramps, bleeding, and all the other lies they are suggesting.
Because nothing says "I love the man I married" more than lying - again - about sex to him. Oh and when you do finally give in and deign to have sex with him, remember to fake your orgasm, too.
I mean, if you start talking to him and telling the truth, that would change everything. You'd have to confront an unpleasant issue and he'd know you've been faking it all this time. And you'd start getting to the bottom of the issue and move towards resolving it.
And we can't have that.
2007-04-13 13:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey at the risk of sounding insensitive. Whay can you meet your hubby's needs. I mean he's asking you. As long as it's nice, respectful and doesn't cause pain, why not indulge him. Hey, look at it this way, he could be asking someone else.
2007-04-13 14:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by bigdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, First of all, why dont you want to do things with your"husband".?He is your life long mate, right? Second, if it is comming to that point then work it out or leave! so, the answer to your question is to figure out what makes you not want to do things with him and that will help you fix the problem...gOOd LUcK!!!
2007-04-13 14:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should cross any boundary they are not comfortable with HOWEVER if he can discuss and do these things with you what is he supposed to do? If its something outside the norm for couples just tell him you will fantasize with him but you can''t do it. If it is normal stuff, a new position, a different input you should open yourself to trying it.
2007-04-13 13:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by wonder Aloud 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
properly my question is how did the two one in each and every of yall party in the 1st place?? Yall do no longer look very properly suited. clarify to him if there's no longer a point of believe and hes going to continuously save this perspective in direction of then you hes going to push you away..
2016-12-29 08:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by kegerries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you must have a reason for not doing these things, be honest with him and tell him you dont want to and why.
2007-04-13 13:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm use your voice and let him know..you don't want to. Be Honest with him.
COMMUNICATION TRUST AND HONESTY are the 3 keys in a long healthy relationship. Without those, you have nothing.
You need to "communicate that you don't want to....you're being honest* and you need to trust that he'll understand.
No one should "have to" just because their spouse "tells" them tnight you're doing some things****etc.......If you say NO I DONTWANT TO.......he needs to respect that*~!
2007-04-13 13:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what kind of things??????? experiment is OK as long as you are comfortable with it... but you should have a line that you wont cross but you must have good communication with him.. trying new things will keep things new for y'all but again only if you are comfortable with it and he should be understanding about it.
2007-04-13 13:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by AKAPAC69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a mouth so sound off.
If he wants you to do things you don't, then don't. You have the right to say no. Just because you're married to him doesn't mean you have to appease his every desire.
2007-04-13 13:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get some booze in you and give it a try. You might actually have fun.
2007-04-13 13:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋