he told me that he compared our relationship to his relationship with his ex and he said he knew it was wrong to do it and he felt bad about it but that he had done it anyway. now i feel second best. i know he doesnt like her anymore, but i feel like i cant give him the same relationship she did, and now i feel really bad. i told him, but he didnt quite get it- he just thought i was saying he didnt love me anymore. i know he does, but i think he loved her better. =(
2007-04-13 13:12:09 · 6 answers · asked by emzie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd tell him, if the relationship was so great with your ex, you'd still be together so back off or I will.
And if he didn't drop it right then and there the next time he opened his selfish inexcusable mouth, I'd simply turn and walk away. He'd know why and I'd move on.
*if you'd like you can print everyone's answers out and hand them to him, maybe he'll get it then.
2007-04-13 13:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by Chicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, did he actually tell you how his relationship with his ex was? if not, then your relationship with him is probably better. it's not that he loved her better...he probably feels like it was a big mistake going out with her, and his relationship with you proves that. do you think of your past relationships when you meet someone so much better? it makes you feel like you've come so far and there is hope to find true love.
2007-04-13 20:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you open the door say throw outr this crap now about her u are not her by no means need to be compared ur you !! your unique you are you.. if he does then say bye bye ya dont need a immature weasel.he needs closure and counseling or least closure about her.. he isnt ready.he is greiving this is why they compare .. it is called detachment withdrawals..he loves u perhaps in a diferent way ur still new.. his ego was bruised hes trying to figure out what went wrong so.. let him breath give it a break..
2007-04-13 20:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to nip that in the bud right now. If you don't it's going to get worse. He would never put up with that from you so don't you either. I think that's so disrespectful. You should never have to feel that way. I've beed through the same thing.
2007-04-13 20:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, if he's comparing her to you, he's not that into you. His heart is somewhere else, and I think he is giving you some subtle hints about where your relationship is headed is his mind. You should be totally focused on you and not still thinking of her.
2007-04-13 20:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by lipglossaddiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would it make you feel better to just kick him? lol
2007-04-13 20:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋