I went out with this one guy for about half a year.
He dumped me about 2-3 months ago and I swore to myself ten million times that I am over him, but so far, I just keep falling for him again and again and again.
As time went on though, I have gone through some hard times, and he has always been there for me, and I have always been there for him. and as the time went by, we have became really close and good friends.
But I still really like him. I don't know what to do.
Anyone have any ideas in how to get my mind off him, but to keep our relationship as strong?
Or in general: How to get over a guy?
(most advice I have seen on here is to sleep with their best friend/mom/sister. but I will NOT do that. hahah)
2007-04-13 12:59:26 · 5 answers · asked by irishpride01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep yourself busy...i know i hate when people tell me that,but its true..Your are not fully over him..it takes us women a long time to get over guys usually..its very normal. You can try dating again..you just might find yourself very much in love with someone else..
2007-04-13 13:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... I was in your exact place a while ago, but me and the guy were going out for about 9 months.. Then 9 months later we went back out and we have been going out for about a year now. I know you still like him.. But.. what you have to do is kind of....idk?... Build up shield between the two of you. But you could still be friends. I think that if you do think he likes you back, tell him how you feel. Or, play 20 questions and later in the game ask him if he would consider being your boyfriend again. But take my advice.... if you guys broke up because of cheating, abuse, fighting....serious things. Stay friends... but... GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-13 13:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experience.. be glad that if u had a choice if he served in army went over and died or be alive and close to you be glad he is still talking to you and will and still being a friend.. be glad as in time who knows u will heal or he will mature to see that ur very much in love with him and will stay by him as a good friend will perhaps u need to wait and in the meantime healing will begin.. and at least hun... he is in the picture somewhere. it is hard. i still have dreams and hear his voice in my head. i feel his touch and wake up and hes not there so be glad he is alive and in ur life somehow u will heal in time.. and he is still close he is not all gone.. let him know somehow without being pushy or mushy that you do value him in your life ... tell him no matter what u need him in ur life and want him as ur friend no matter what.. all you can do without suffocating him. you never forget relationships so you wont get over him but in time you will be guided to know what it is you can have or need.
2007-04-13 13:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-wife and I are still good friends . Just start dating other guys and stop looking at him as a boyfriend . It is hard but it can be done .good luck
2007-04-13 13:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by knightrunner13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh ha and how do ypou feeel about that?
2007-04-13 13:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋