Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

i bet this is almost never the case....but if your spouse is being a jerk, being mean...just not being a good spouse, and you cheat on them....if it makes them change as a person for the better, is it okay?

now thats a dilly of a pickle

2007-04-13 10:53:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It seemed when I was 106 and 19 more guys were attracted to me than they are to me now, when I'm 23 but now weigh 95 lbs. at five-feet-two. Also, why don't guys like thin legs? Why do they like girls with fat thighs?

2007-04-13 10:51:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just found out that, while I still don't have a job to support myself and my child, my ex-husband opened a bank account in his name only to controll all of the money.

What do I do? Do I have any rights? I can't even hire a lawyer in this case cause I don't have any money at all.

Is my ex right to do this? What do you all think?

How can I survive with $45 in the bank and no job right now?

2007-04-13 10:50:01 · 13 answers · asked by Flor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my best friends is a boy and i REALLY like him, but dont know what to do. I've been told he likes me but sometimes get confused whether this is true. Any advide on what to do ?

2007-04-13 10:49:08 · 12 answers · asked by robyn 2 in Friends

I asked him out and he said that he just broke up with his girlfriend and he needed some time. 4 days later another girl asked him out and he said yes! i reallly like him, and i think he likes me too. Everyone says i'm prettier than her and i truly am. not that she's ugly or anything like that. Whats making him do this to me?

2007-04-13 10:47:00 · 18 answers · asked by kbabe 1 in Singles & Dating

id love to see what animal i am

2007-04-13 10:44:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 10:43:27 · 27 answers · asked by joeelliot 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend got married at 19. I think she was too young, but whatever. Last summer her husband was living in another town (he had to finish his job in the other town before he could move to this town with her) and during that summer my friend cheated on her husband with three different men, that I know of. Every time she drinks it seems like she falls into bed with another man. Her husband has to know about this because she hasn't exactly been secretive about it. There are lots of people that know about her infidelity.

2007-04-13 10:40:43 · 14 answers · asked by cutietexanchik 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating my male friend for 2 years now. He gave me a key to his home to come and go as I please. I was excited when he gave this key because I felt with a key this will put a title on friendship. So now that I have this key things are not what they seem. to start, he comes in around 2 - 3 am has to be to work by 6am, lay on the couch, sleep to about 4:30am that's when his alarm clock goes off. He'll then get up come in the bedroom where I am lay next to me for about 20-25 minutes touch me all over my body and doze off to sleep. Then he'll get back up and get ready for work. Now the story is a little more complicated because he hasn't had sex with me in over a month and a half. This frustrates me. I've spoken to him about our no sex life several times and all he says is "I am tired, but I will start having sex with you more". Then he never does. I don't know what to do anymore, should I walk away giving back his keys or stay and try to work it out as i really love him.

2007-04-13 10:40:41 · 14 answers · asked by candi 2 in Singles & Dating

heres a short and possibly easy question//
why do guys like to tickle girls, poke them, and hug them

2007-04-13 10:39:01 · 1 answers · asked by Chelle 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend with all my heart, he's the only thing in my life, that I live for, my family is cruel, and I been treated on 10 times before , and I dont need no more heart ache, I'm a loveing kind hearted person, I'm just think dowen on myself, and my boyfriend is my life, and I bought him a cell phone , and twice he had girls, phone numbers in his cell, and we argued about it, he said it was just the friends I met at a party, but I dont really know them, I really got hurt , when the time, a girl tiffny called him, and I wanted to slap him, but he saids that it wont happen again, and the 2nd time , I found three new girls, I told him it will be over, if it happends again, then he cried , and he saids it wont and he loves me, and what's to marry me and have kids one day , but we fight sometimes cause he saids, that I should trust him, cause he trust me, but sometime I dont know when he tells me the truth, I love him, but I think he's treating on me, cause he's been busy lately.

2007-04-13 10:38:23 · 7 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i got this big problem!
so recently on this friday the 13th,my boyfriend and my ex met at the same bus stop. and had a talk on the bus,i called both of them and asked what they talked about but they said boy stuff.
im only 14 yrs old just so u know.
i just hate this right now.
me and my ex still have been talkin and stuff. so seriously should this bother me because it is what if they become friends this can't be good! thanks 4 the advice!

2007-04-13 10:38:16 · 27 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband's new job is not proving to be very successful. He has barely made 1/3 of what his old job would have provided for us to this point in the year. He gets upset with me when I bring up or ask if he has any appointments set up or any enrollments going through. He tells me he knows he isn't making great money but I don't have to bring it up everyday. Instead of actually discussing it, we just don't really talk. There is a huge elephant in the room. He loves the job because he gets off when he wants and has weekends off. I like it too, but I don't really feel like getting a second job at the moment.

I don't know a way to let him know that it isn't working and we cannot go much longer without slipping into bad debt. I am more concerned with our relationship to be honest.

Job is a individual sales representative for a supplemental insurance company.

2007-04-13 10:34:27 · 11 answers · asked by InsuranceGooRoo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I find myself so confused. I think we still feel something for each other, but not what a couple should feel for one another. He is w/me to be near the kids, and I am w/for money stability. He is a good father, he has a great job, but i don't feel his equal. i feel like he has no respect for me. he calls me the occasional name, and tells my family our problems. it seems he puts me down every chance he gets. i can't think of anytime that he has ever had something positive to say about me. i haven't worked in 8 years, we live a good life and i would be lying if i said i wasnt scared to make it on my own. i think he is addicted to porn, and i recently found him looking up his ex on myspace. i don't think his heart is in it anymore. i think its all for the kids now. i don't know what to do anymore, we are suppose to be moving soon due to him being military, but i'm not sure i want to go w/him now. a person can only take so much.
anyone out there been thru something like this? help!

2007-04-13 10:34:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 10:31:52 · 12 answers · asked by thegodfather7375 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 10:30:19 · 19 answers · asked by :-P ily babbe 1 in Singles & Dating

Divorce your husband and marry me please.

Thank you.

2007-04-13 10:18:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and i broke up after almost being engaged for a year. (a week before our wedding last dec my family canceled it, and we've been tryin to save up for another one). He broke up with me, but he still calls me many times a day from work, and still tells me he loves me, and that he wants to get back w/ me, but that he needs some time. He said he wants to get his life in order and wants me to work on mine. He's about $4,000 in debt right now with credit cards and bills, and just got a new job so he wants to work 9-9 every day (temporarily) and doesn't think he could balance working long hours and a relationship with me right now. Also, i'm in college, so i'm busy also. I just don't know if he's trying to break up with me nicely (but he still says he wants to be with me) or if he's not sure, or if he really wants some space for now to get caught up. Are finances really that important to guys that they'll put relationships on hold? should i wait or move on? what could he be thinkin?

2007-04-13 10:11:21 · 6 answers · asked by Andii 3 in Singles & Dating

when he cheats and lie about it.

2007-04-13 10:10:26 · 10 answers · asked by bettyprince2006 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know ? HELP people!!

2007-04-13 10:09:53 · 1 answers · asked by tommy girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know that if i ask her my mom will jump to the conclusion that im have sex and will never allow me to leave the house again other than for school. I want to take birth control for my period, because i hate to deal with it. How would you suggest i ask my mom to be on birth control?

2007-04-13 10:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by Lynn 2 in Singles & Dating

Three years my husband cheated with a woman at work (who was my friend). They decided they were "soulmates" and wanted a life together despite our life...our three children and her life with husband and 2 young children. One of them being only 6 months old at the time. I filed for divorce.
..they remarried. I moved on...have remarried, am much happier than I've ever been. (even expecting a child with my new husband.) But...the difficult part for me is dealing with the hurt of this woman around my darling girls 50% of their
life. I feel she is a horrible role model for them, very selfish, materialistic..and coldhearted. My concerns about their dad of course are there because of his poor life choices......but he is their dad. I hope and pray that their marriage won't work
so my girls aren't raised around someone with such poor morals and values and such little respect for "family". The
statistics say it wont last...any opinions??

2007-04-13 10:06:19 · 16 answers · asked by backflip 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 10:05:15 · 32 answers · asked by xtine 1 in Singles & Dating

IAM26 years old and hes 40 years old
we have been living together for 7 yrs now
and I told him that Iam ready to get married to him
and he keeps telling me hes not ready. Iam ready to start
a family with him and be with him only but he wont marry and
I dont know what to do. Iam ready and hes not
should I wait for him? I really do love him, Is he confuse?I dont
know what to do or what to think of this situation. Please Help!!!!

2007-04-13 10:04:27 · 2 answers · asked by yolande m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-13 10:02:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad has a Master's degree and is very bright. He is a devout Christian. He actually had the nerve to ask me the other day why, if I love him as much as I claim to, and have so much respect for him, why I don't want to be JUST LIKE HIM?! I told him I am not his clone and he told me not to state the obvious. I told him that I pick and choose the good parts and ignore the other parts and he seems to have a problem with that...lol! I am my own person and have no desire to be just like him. He has many faults in my personal opinion. (He tells people they're going to Hell for example and that they're not really Christians for another example, he fought for and got custody of my nephew in a nasty custody dispute and I don't think he fought fair for another example) My point is I think he is being unreasonable and arrogant to think I should want to be JUST LIKE HIM if I claim to love and respect him so much. BTW: I'm 33 years old

2007-04-13 10:01:00 · 6 answers · asked by icu812 3 in Family

I had my number changed but he cant because its also a business phone. they are mad at me . i refuse to do the "he said, she said " drama with them anymore. Look at my previous question about them for more info. I hate to have them arrested but 8 days of being called and harrassed is enough and they have even been to his work twice.

2007-04-13 09:57:47 · 9 answers · asked by iwill 4 in Family

So, my exclusive boyfriend of 3 years is still friends with his ex, the girl who he "went on a break" with and asked me out less than 2 weeks later.
He let me know in advance that he was going to "hang out" with her. When he got home, he was very open about everything. He told me that they went to her house for dinner with her family and then they went to the movies. I asked him about the movie and he said, "We saw 'The Reaping', even though I wanted to see 'Blades of Glory' ". I had already felt uncomfortable that the two of them went to a movie together alone and when he said that, I couldn't help but say, "Well, the girl always chooses the movie." He got very upset and insisted it wasn't a date. I asked, "Did you pay for her ticket?" He said, "Yes, but that doesn't make it a date. I was just being a gentleman." Well, he is very traditional about chivalry and I am not, but even so, I don't think it applies to so-called platonic friends. Does it? I still feel like it was a date.

2007-04-13 09:55:33 · 3 answers · asked by investigator7 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 09:54:38 · 11 answers · asked by sarah820w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't go to school or work because you need a parent to get any of that then they'll find out i'm a runaway the n the cops will come and take me home and all hell will break loose!!!!!!!!!!!! what the hell am i supposed to do?????????????????

2007-04-13 09:54:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family