Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

I have a long time very good friend of mine whom I keep in touch often, my husband hates her and he hates the fact that I see her, talk with her, or go out with her. I knew her before I even met him, he has forbidden me from ever going out with her ever again.............she is a hooker! Does he have the right to forbid me? would you also do the same if in same situation? she is a very nice person and we get along very well, she just decided one day she was tired of low paying jobs!

2007-04-13 09:52:20 · 11 answers · asked by Niki 2 in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to make him moan. details please!!!

2007-04-13 09:51:16 · 4 answers · asked by iithumper 1 in Singles & Dating

We have talked about it many times(he's usually the one to bring it up), we've gone ring shopping, and still nothing.
If I bring it up, he will say that he can't afford it right now, but then spend a couple thousand on his car! In the past I have decided that I will just relax and give him time, but this usually results in him bringing it up! We live together in a house that we bought a year ago, so it's not that he isn't committed! Can someone tell me what's going on?

2007-04-13 09:50:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm trying to compile a play list for my dj. I was wondering what songs you like and don't like to hear at weddings. Thanks!

2007-04-13 09:50:24 · 19 answers · asked by kleish125 1 in Weddings

I am young but i recently got married, it seems like a routine. We wake up go to work, get off work go home, eat dinner , watch tv, take a shower, then go to sleep. I get a little bored at times. I like to go out but my husband likes to stay home and be on the computer all day. I think it makes me get a little frustrated at times. ...

2007-04-13 09:49:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 09:48:24 · 28 answers · asked by lover44 1 in Singles & Dating

they are 10 and 12 and moved from tehachapi ca. i have orders and have the right to see them. please tell me how to find them. thankyou.

2007-04-13 09:47:31 · 4 answers · asked by dreamr 1 in Family

There's this girl who moved in across town less than a year ago who went to my church. At first I thought she was kind of weird but as time went by I started to like her as a friend and started hanging out with her. She let me in and I became one of her close friends but my sister didn't like that. I told her I was wrong and that I reallly wanted to be friends with this girl but my sister didn't trust me. She started talking bad about me to my friend and I know my friend started to believe her cause she started slowly excluding me and treating me less and less like a friend. Lstely she has been very nice to me and is treating me like a really close friend again, but my sis is super-obsessive and overprotective of her because she is my sister's bff. my sis is trying to boss me around, telling me what i am and what i'm not allowed to do, like, for instance, I'm 'not allowed' to put my arm 'round my friend or call her cuz only bff's allowed 2 do that. what can i do to fix things?

2007-04-13 09:46:02 · 10 answers · asked by MK4JCGirl 3 in Friends

i have been dating him for almost 6 months now, and i've only met them once before briefly. im finally going over to their place for dinner...what do i wear?... i dont want to be too dressy or too casual...should i send a thank you note afterward?

2007-04-13 09:45:27 · 14 answers · asked by CircusAnimals 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for about 5 months and all of the sudden he says that he doesn't know what he wants. Relationship? No relationship? He calls and says he misses me and still.....he doesn't know what he wants.

What the heck does this mean? What should I do?

2007-04-13 09:45:14 · 13 answers · asked by aquestforaheart 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday my friend asked me if i could lend him some money ($10) so i agreed it's not like it was alot. But he and I dated and in our conversation he brought up the dates we had gone on and pointed out the "times we went out to eat and that he paid for them". Were not dating anymore he wanted for us to have a relationship but i didn't want to, but we still talk. Since he brought up the money issue with our dates i feel like he's trying to get back at me for not wanting something with him. He's working full time and i know he has a case full of money (i've seen it). He said he needed the money for gas because he was saving money for summer school tuition but he told me like a day in advance.. no it wasn't an emergency.
What is he trying to tell me? ..I feel like he's charging me for the money he wasted on me! or am I wrong?

2007-04-13 09:44:24 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ mars♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend that is haveing guy problems, she is 15.
her mom doesn't like her ex boyfriend but she still likes him and wants to go back out with him but yet they will never see eachother.
so what should do??
thanx, lacresha

2007-04-13 09:42:26 · 11 answers · asked by lacresha b 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it a bad if i just stand near the stairs and read a book and glance at the girls walking up the stairs if they dont know?

2007-04-13 09:42:12 · 18 answers · asked by Jellybean 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal that when in a marriage to have crushes? I think my hubby has one on some one else but has not acted on it or even flirted. I don't think that I am paranoid but should I just accept his feelings?

2007-04-13 09:38:52 · 22 answers · asked by Susan and Grant O 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 09:38:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister's wedding shower is tomorrow. It's a mixed shower so it'll have both men and women. I decided to play a game like the newlywed game show.
I am having a hard time finding fun questions to ask. Please help!

2007-04-13 09:36:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

im 18 years and built and educationally sound ,do u think i need a girl friend .what are the + and - points

2007-04-13 09:35:58 · 13 answers · asked by JDJRAM 2 in Singles & Dating

What is your point of view on casual sex? what if one person has feeling? how te get over those feeling? or how to make the other person develop feelings so it can turn into a serious relationship?

2007-04-13 09:34:34 · 12 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Singles & Dating

A couple days ago, be and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me. After he broke up with me, he asked me if I was alright. I lied and said that yes while crying because I wanted to seem strong. I really, REALLY, want him back. I wrote a poem in dedication to him a couple days earlier, but I didn't show him it. Could that change the relationship? Since it was like nine in the evening, I cried from when we broke up til I fell asleep around 12:30 AM, and all that morning. What should I do?

2007-04-13 09:34:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in June and I kinda placed myself in the position of getting music together. Currently my fiance is walking down the aisle to Kenny Chesney's "You Had Me From Hello". I was wondering what country music I should play while the guests are walking in, what we should walk out to, and any other music to play at the reception. any help you guys could give would be great!

2007-04-13 09:33:47 · 9 answers · asked by michael_gordon3 1 in Weddings

I'm the one that always says it. There are a few exceptions where she'll say "I love you" but when she does say it she'll say it really fast. Most of the time she won't even say it back, though, and she'll just say "Mhmm" or "Okay". Do you all think she could be embarrassed by me?

2007-04-13 09:33:38 · 5 answers · asked by zoahsjump 1 in Singles & Dating

then why is it that people also say you don't hurt people if you love them?

2007-04-13 09:32:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...here is the situation. Im divorced...have been so for about 2 years. I have three kids that i ADORE. They make me feel alive. They are great! I have a good job and i do love what i do for a living, and though my ex does take a large chunk out of my paycheck, id consider myself well off. My divorce had allot to do with one incident in my life that has shaped my destiny for the past few years. My ex told me that she would never have sex with me untill i had a vacectomy. And it came down to either doing it or saying goodbye. There were many fights over this and then i just said to myself, just do it. After i did, my ex told me she didnt want me sexualy and only wanted me to do that so that i wouldnt put our kids last once we divorced and i had kids with someone else. I was devistated and we split.

My question....are there any women out there who would find a 39 year old guy, who has had a vacectomy, has three kids and is looking for..well..love?

2007-04-13 09:32:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Someone told me all great relationships start off as friendships, is it true, can you get out of the Zone..

2007-04-13 09:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by ryper92 3 in Singles & Dating

Right this may seem really stupid to you all and is kinda my fault
Today i went on hotmail.com to check my emails and i didn't realise that my girlfriends emails still loaded, (she must have clicked remember me or something) so out of curiosity i looked through and they were all; you've been tagged etc. i have been with her since 15th January 2007 and i noticed an email dated 29th December 2006, yes before we started dating. I clicked on it and it was a reply from some guy but it had the previous message attached with about 30 pictures of my girlfriend (with different underwear/Bikini's) on. most pictures did seem to focus in on that certain area im sure you can guess where. but there was no nudity) when i asked her about previous relationships in the past this is one she never mentioned. was i wrong to look through her emails because i did not for 1 minute think she would even take pictures of her self, let alone of these areas and mail them to an ex. i told her iv'e seen them also

2007-04-13 09:29:00 · 10 answers · asked by adam s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 09:28:19 · 14 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am going to do a regular cake with 2 cupcake cakes on the side. This is going to be a valentine's day theme but I just cant find the perfect picture of what I want. I thought you all might have some ideas/suggestions/ pictures you can share

2007-04-13 09:28:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

How can I tell my man that I'm only one person?
I've been with my boyfriend for three years now. At first, he helped me all the time, and was very sweet. Now, things have changed drastically. We have a one year old daughter, which I do the lion's share of raising, along with my two children from a previous relationship. I do all the cooking, and 75% of the housework. I also take the children to daycare and pick them up every day. I work 48 to 56 hours a week, and after my ten hour days, I am often exhausted. What compounds my frustration is that while I stay up until 1 AM cleaning the house (like last night), he is up playing the XBOX 360 live and talking to his friends on it. He is on it 5 or 6 hours a day. When I hint that I need help, he says I'm riding his ***. He is a person that doesn't like to talk about anything, ESPECIALLY his mistakes, and can never be wrong. I'm getting more and more frustrated as I get more and more exhausted. Any ideas?

2007-04-13 09:27:05 · 21 answers · asked by red 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have some low-cut shirts i wear 2 skool and i have boobs so it doesnt look bad. it shows some cleavage and i like to wear mini-skirts. some girls think this is slutty but i wonder what all the guys think of this?

2007-04-13 09:26:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know because she told me .she says no spark in are marriage of 7 years.how do i change this

2007-04-13 09:25:58 · 19 answers · asked by kgva29@verizon.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce