Give 10 reasons and10 reasons to and not to have a girl friend?

Question

im 18 years and built and educationally sound ,do u think i need a girl friend .what are the + and - points

Answer 1

This would definitely not work. You have or do not have a girlfriend based upon your feelings for a girl. If you do not find any girls that you are interested in, then you will not have a girlfriend.

If you like a girl, whether it is a good time to have a girlfriend or not you will have a girlfriend. Emotions cannot be controlled by 10 reasons for or against.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 2

10 reasons why you should:

1) sex
2) experience, when you get older girls will want you to have several past relationships.
3) Develop social skills with the opposite skills
4) lean how to treat a lady
5) Learn what you want out of a partner, this will help you when you get older
6) you will become more popular with your friends because you have a girlfriend
7) girls will want to date you more because you have a girlfriend
8) You will have someone to always go to dance clubs with
9) I think you should have a girlfriend because it will give you a great learning experience.
10) can't think of anything else

why not to have a girlfriend

1) You will be tied down
2) you can't date other women, or shouldn't date other women
3) You won't have as much time to hang out with friends
4) She will always be nagging you
5) she will follow you wherever you want to go
6) you privacy will be invaded
7) your parents may not be that pleased with you having a girlfirend
8) You might break up and that might hurt you, the first break-up with a girl hurts the most.
9) Your time for homework, sports, and liesure activitities will be limited
10) thats it

Answer 3

if u gonna have a gf u need 2 know how 2 pck n choose sum females can be very insure liars cheaters sum are into doin drugs and they drink n i dont mean socially but not all are like that like i said u have 2 know how 2 pck a nice women

Answer 4

The plus is that you'll have some one to watch movies with, someone that always smells nice (unlike you're friends, B.O.)
Someone to talk to, and things like that.

The down is that, most of the time you're just asking to cry your heart out. The down side is break-up, when you still like her.

Answer 5

Girls dont want you
your lame
i dont like you
focuse on your education
school is more important
girls are 2 good for you
u wear sunglasses
you have long hair
i bet you dont know how to dress good
and well i just plain dont like you

Answer 6

...asking a question like this clearly means that you are not ready for a relationship any time soon!
you still young....carry on having fun with your mates and don't worry bout gf's......the time will come:)

Answer 7

i gotcha covered

+'s
1.) very fun to hang with
2.) fun to make out
3.) basically, having a girlfriend makes everything from making out to anything further pretty consistant. plus, since you do stuff together like that more, you guys know what all makes the other person feel the best, and..... well, thats just a very very good thing..... and, believe me, if you have a gf for a year, and she figures out your fav thing to do when having sex or something............. its fun......
4.) gf's give you a meaning to your life if you need one. as in, if you dont have a whole lot going on in your life, you can get a gf, and just make sure she is having a good time, and make sure you are there for her... thats the way i am with my bf. its called love. ^_^ although, liking someone can be the same way, it dont matter. what is this, number 4? ok, 6 more.
5.) you will always be busy if you wanna be
6.) you can talk to your guy friends about your gf and just do whatever while talking... brag, whatever it is you wanna do.
7.) you will be able to be sweet to someone, and have someone be sweet back to you... it feels really nice.
8.) you can make someone happy, and at the same time they will make you happy...... 2 more?
9.) if you ever need help with homework or something, or if you need help with organizing, moving, cleaning, etc, you and your gf can do basically whatever together that is work around the house and with different things, and you guys can have fun doing it together.
10.) number 10! you guys could always get to know each other really well, and make a life together later on with a family and everything.... a girlfriend is almost always required to have a wife and family... unless your gay or have an arranged marriage, lol. so, thats prolly the biggest reason.... so you can have a family if you want....


-'s
1.) girls are..... well, they can be a hassle... i know i can be, lol.
2.) girls can be very mean and spiteful at times.
3.) we can annoy men with our shoes, purses, clothes, etc.
4.) woman can cause men to be jealous without trying.... often times our man might pick up on a guy doing seriuos flirting when we wouldnt normally pick up on it.... thats just cause guys are guys and know what they are talking bout, while as girls arent guys..... so, thats a definate negative. the man has to deal with jealous and controling emotions if he has them, although fyi... a man that is a little jealous, just enough to show he cares, is kind a good....
5.) you will have to deal with your gf on her period and during her PMS stage... this can sometimes be very bad... however, if you give her enough dark chocolate, and she trust you enough to tell you when to watch out for it and stuff....... you can make her mood swings happy mood swings... which is awesome, considering women are..... most turned on during this period...
6.) there will be times where being with someone will be bad timing, and your feeligns will be hurt a little bit.... but, thats life.. it is a definate negative tho.
7.) if you live with her on campus or something like that, then you will have to deal with her being in the bathroom a long time and stuff.
8.) if you dont like being on the phone for a long time, that might be a problem, cause a lot of girls can talk for hours on end and enjoy it... women like communicating after all. this may or may not be a negative.
9.) women are very spiteful and can at times make a man feel like complete and total crap..
10.) and lastly, the biggest downfall is that you might have to do a lot of stuff out of your way to keep her happy.... hopefully she would do this for you in return too, but yeh... like, you may have to miss doing something you wana do for something she wants to do occasionally, and vise versa... you dont have to have your entire life consumed by your gf of course, but you should try and do stuff with her whenever you can to be curteous and show her you care regularly. if this is a hassle or something, then its the biggest draw back.... i know my guy enjoys doing stuff for me tho, so if you think you would be like that, you aint gotta worry about this.

these are my 10 for each from my personal experience.... i hope these help you in making a decision on whether or not you should date... personally, i think that my life wouldnt be fulfilled without dating.... ive been with my man for a year and five months now.... we're doing pretty good..... he makes me happy. ^_^ i would say you should date too, because whenever you find the right person, you feel really good, and its a lot better than without.... but, i warn you, in order to be happy, you do have to find the right type of person... its not quite as hard as what you might think tho. ^_^.

Answer 8

If you have to ask on here, you need to get out more to have one anyway...

Answer 9

?? if you're a guy than you have to have a girlfriend.... it's so simple... no + or - and you don't need any education to figure it out...

Answer 10

one answer for the world GURLS HAVE PLANS AND YR MONEY IS THE THING THAT COUNTS GURLS KNOW WHAT THEIR DOING!