A couple days ago, be and my boyfriend broke up. He broke up with me. After he broke up with me, he asked me if I was alright. I lied and said that yes while crying because I wanted to seem strong. I really, REALLY, want him back. I wrote a poem in dedication to him a couple days earlier, but I didn't show him it. Could that change the relationship? Since it was like nine in the evening, I cried from when we broke up til I fell asleep around 12:30 AM, and all that morning. What should I do?
2007-04-13 09:34:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No a poem won't make a difference. You are too needy and clingy, the poem will only reinforce that idea in his head. Guys don't like those qualities in a girl, at least not for long.
I could tell you how to get him back, but it's probably better that you learn from this instead. Good luck, it hurts now but you will be over it sooner than you think.
2007-04-13 09:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over it...no matter how tough it is. Do you really want to be with him if he doesn't want you? Im sorry thats tough to hear but would you really want to play second best. The poem wont make a blind bit of difference...and you probably know that too but are just clutching to straws. Give yourself a couple of days to mourn and then go back to life...dont seem strong..be strong
He doesnt deserve you
2007-04-13 09:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kazza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys both have myspaces or something..write a blog, that doesn't necessarily say: to HiM, but make it obvious. if he still cares he'd read it.
but honey, give him some space. he might think your needy. if he really LOVES you, he'd come back and trust me..it would mean soo much more!
good luck (:
and don't let a heartbreak pull you down!
remember: if you want a rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain right? and a flower grows after every rain (:
2007-04-13 09:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by [: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋