Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

ok, i'm a senior in high school, so i don't have a real big budget. i've liked this girl for a while and we are finally going out on our first date. im the sweet kind of guy and that stuff comes naturally for me, but i suck when it comes to first date ideas. i don't want to do the whole movie and a dinner thing. i still want dinner, but i want to do something different afterwards. the date is going to be at night and it's supposed to be raining. what would you all suggest that i do afterwards. I don't know a whole lot about this girl as of now, which is why i don't want to go to the movies. i would like to do an activity of some sort so we can get to know one another a bit more.....any idea's?

2007-04-13 09:24:04 · 18 answers · asked by willthegreat07 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 09:23:54 · 12 answers · asked by dizzla22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 09:23:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-04-13 09:21:56 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can you tell youre in love? I mean when you meet someone you fancy your hormones go wild. But after this intial honeymoon period ends what should be left? Is this were love begins? thanks

2007-04-13 09:20:15 · 7 answers · asked by Eoin B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 09:19:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was blessed with the opportunity at a wonderful job - very high pay for someone at my age and experience level, and it's difficult to find others who make similar pay. Money does not matter at all to me.... I'd be just as happy if I had less, I am not the type who strives to be a millionaire or anything... I value life and relationships most.

I met this guy who has an old vehicle and still rents (he's in his early 30'). I am in my mid 20's and I own a new vehicle and a house all by myself. Sometimes I wonder what others who know me would think about this, but is there really anything wrong with it?

He treats me amazing - does a lot of sweet romantic things for me and doesn't seem to be scared off by the fact that I make nearly twice his salary. In my heart I don't think it matters, but I just want to know how others view this situation. He has a FT mon-fri 8 - 6 respectable job that a lot of people would love to have and that he did take post secondary to get....

2007-04-13 09:19:50 · 17 answers · asked by Betty 4 in Singles & Dating

When you have workmen in your house - doing a job - in the house - that is - do you feel you have to ask em if they want a cup of tea ? If so, do you hope they`ll say no ? Like when you have friends or family round, you ask em if they want a cuppa, do you hope they`ll say no ? Don`t you just hate it when they say yes please...? Why is it - we don`t mind making a cuppa for ourselves, but making 2 seems like hard work ?

2007-04-13 09:18:48 · 20 answers · asked by yahoobloo 6 in Family

he is only 18 and he has lost it. h has never had good sex and he tends to get bored of things fast when they no longer interest him. so now he is competely hormone less. so what do u think normal or not?

2007-04-13 09:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by Alycee C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to challenge God for a solution, especially because of my our innocent children. I have entered for a praying warfare programme with my pastor to pray for the restoration of my marriage; and the binding of her spiritual husband and evil weapons fashioned against my marriage (with 4 female children aged 3-10). Can i give God a time ultimatum, as I cannot wait for too long or indefinitely for a miracle? Serious answers please.

2007-04-13 09:18:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. Need some advice!
I about eight people over to saty last night, four boys, four girls, my closest friends. We had some alcohol and watched films and stuff like that. Anyway, we played hide and seek and i found myself hiding in my room, near to one of my male freinds. We both got found, and ended up with us both on the bed. Not in a sexual sense, we just couldnt be bothered to get up!
We kissed, but because he is a really good guy he said he didn't want to take advantage of me, because we had both had some stuff to drink. We stayed there, hugging and talking for a while, until the game was over and we went back downstairs.
We had a couple of moments over the rest of the night too, like when the rest of them went to say hi to a friend, I didnt go and he stayed with me, and we sat outside together. When we all settled down to sleep, we ended up next to each other and shared a duvet, and were close all night.
I like him but don't know what to say to him about it. Please help!

2007-04-13 09:18:20 · 15 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Singles & Dating

i love a guy and i he let me feel his 4 pack and it was sooo hot anyway i have been too 2 of his hockety games.
but when he is in front of his freinds he says get away and mean stuff but then there are times when we smile at each other and flirt and have eye contact. does he like me or not
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2007-04-13 09:17:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 09:16:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love a girl for 3 years.I first saw her in an institute.we met many times.we are living like friends.but i love her.what can i do?

2007-04-13 09:16:13 · 10 answers · asked by mak 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that having it shaved and trimed is good due to being clean..SO please no stupid answer's..

2007-04-13 09:14:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to file but i need a detailed plan...what do i do first ....i have 3 kids and want joint custody..i live in ca.where do i file what steps are 1st 2nd.....so on

2007-04-13 09:12:17 · 8 answers · asked by yourholzmyspace 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it is a personal decision but I just don't feel done. I currently have 3 kids, all under 4 (my oldest will be 4 next month) and really want another one. But I know if I have another one I won't be able to provide as many activities for each of them. On the other hand, they have each other and family is so important. Money will always be an issue, but it isn't the most important thing right? We have a big enough house, and we will be able to feed, clothe and provide some activities for each...college will be hard, but we are already saving for the 3 I have now...so am I crazy to have a fourth? If not, am I crazy to want one soon? Thanks for your opinions!

2007-04-13 09:12:06 · 8 answers · asked by klein619 2 in Family

According to this recent news article
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070413/ap_on_go_ot/abstinence_study
The average age of first sexual experience was 14 years 9 mos.

Does that seem average to you younger folk? Or a little on the young side? I would have guessed 16 years old. But- my reference point is from the 70's.

I think that they may misrepresented the data- as this may be the average of those that *had* sex.

2007-04-13 09:11:33 · 33 answers · asked by Morey000 7 in Singles & Dating

Because they think it is what you expect from them! Women were not put on this earth just to be your eye candy. Yeah some will say women choose to wear that stuff to because they want to look good. But honestly it takes a lot of effort to keep all that up. Do you really think so many would dress up if they really had a choice? I'm sure they would love to get away with doing less. And if you marry someone because of how they look and then they change after you marry, did it ever occur to you they were only trying to keep your from getting away? Stop being so damn superfacial. It's one thing to want to feel good about yourself, but its another to expect a person to be constantly pleasing you.

2007-04-13 09:10:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, full story, i was with my ex for over a year, i cheated on her early in the relationship, and i decided to end it when i was caught.

we have a son, who i do my best for, see him all the time, pay for every thing for him etc, who is 2 and half months old.

Just after he was born, she asked me if i wanted to get back with her, i was unsure so as not to get her hopes up said no.

A week later i proposed only to be told she needs to think about it, and a month and half later she rejected me.

My feelings for her have grown stronger and stronger over recent weeks and i am now finding it hard to sleep. I just want us to be a family. Any advice?

2007-04-13 09:08:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet this lady the other day for the first time and wanted to tell her i liked her alot but i couldn't get it out guess i was scared.

2007-04-13 09:06:26 · 5 answers · asked by lonelymale 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-13 09:04:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

crys hestericaly and locks herself in the toilet.i have recentaly separted from my wife after 10 yrs of marriage after i found out she was having an affair.she and her new partner who is 61 and she is 34 now live together but because of a court order my children are not allowed to be with him because he has tried to kill himself twice.but my daughter is staying at my sister in laws house across the street less than 30 meters away.what has happened is i have my 3 boys living with me and my daughters there because they say she wants to be with her mother.rubbish she wants to live with me her dad and her brothers and has been really really upset saying to me i dont want to go back ,screaming after she has to be pysicaly pulled apart from her dad.i have aslo started an intrime residence order before the court soon ,do i let her go back or if she starts screaming crying do i keep her

2007-04-13 09:02:32 · 29 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got my license a couple of weeks ago. My mother is still scared to let me drive alone. I mean, I got my license...what is the point of that if I can't drive. I am 16 but going to college this year so she can't hold on forever. She says she trusts me but doesn't trust the other drivers our there. How does she lose this fear and just let me group up? I asked her if I could drive to the high school (that I dont attend anymore) with my friend to see a pageant. It is 5 minutes away- this would be a good test...but she still says NO

2007-04-13 09:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am dating a guy thats biracial, and i really really like him, so you think that his dad, who is black, is going to have a problem with him dating me?? I think that this relationship could get really really serious, and i dont want there to be problems between me and that side of his family.. What do yall think??

2007-04-13 08:59:56 · 5 answers · asked by lilokiegurl 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-13 08:59:33 · 26 answers · asked by holy_see 3 in Weddings

Hi
My 8 years marriage is a living hell ! We have seperated once and reunited but in vain. We have a 6 month old boy. I need to talk to a third party- someone who doesnt know him or me to give a valid and unpartial suggestion to me whether it makes sense to file for divorce. Talking to family and friends is futile since their view is always either biased or partial.
Could you pls help ?
(P.S: Pls refrain from suggesting to going to a counseller or a therapist-Thank you !)

2007-04-13 08:59:01 · 14 answers · asked by rimiwithquestions 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been married 7 years and i love her to death.she went out last night and got drunk and kissed a guy twice that is from her work and all her friends were there.she told me about it and i dont know what to do about it.should i tell her she can go out with them agian even if i dont want to. and she was dancing with guys.do you think thats okay.the dancing part.

2007-04-13 08:55:17 · 15 answers · asked by kgva29@verizon.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This morning I realized it was the 13th and my dads bday is tomorrow. He's turning 49( haha... i know, hes getting up there). I was going to get him a card and I think my dads girlfriend is going to take us out. Im still not sure what I can get him, IF I can get him anything. Any suggestions? thanks

2007-04-13 08:55:08 · 7 answers · asked by Joyous 3 in Family

Reasons??????

2007-04-13 08:54:36 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating