Ok. Need some advice!
I about eight people over to saty last night, four boys, four girls, my closest friends. We had some alcohol and watched films and stuff like that. Anyway, we played hide and seek and i found myself hiding in my room, near to one of my male freinds. We both got found, and ended up with us both on the bed. Not in a sexual sense, we just couldnt be bothered to get up!
We kissed, but because he is a really good guy he said he didn't want to take advantage of me, because we had both had some stuff to drink. We stayed there, hugging and talking for a while, until the game was over and we went back downstairs.
We had a couple of moments over the rest of the night too, like when the rest of them went to say hi to a friend, I didnt go and he stayed with me, and we sat outside together. When we all settled down to sleep, we ended up next to each other and shared a duvet, and were close all night.
I like him but don't know what to say to him about it. Please help!
2007-04-13 09:18:20 · 15 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try talking to him sober this time. If you both react the same way, then perhaps there may be something there. If not, then you canboth just dismiss it using the alcohol as the reason.
2007-04-13 09:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by bookworm019 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what else do you need to say about it? I mean your alls actions speaks louder than words doesnt it? It's so obvious the way you two feel for each other by the way you have described it here for everyone to read. You dont need no help in this category do you? Go for it girl because he sounds like a good guy for you or any smart girl. There is not very many guys left out there who actually still respects a woamn!!!!
2007-04-13 09:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by krazykat4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are not 2 conflicting evaluations. There are 2 diverse thoughts. human beings tell what justifies their existence, no longer unavoidably what they rather have self belief. the picture of the single individual who says that marriage is a ball and chain, at the same time as the reality is he only won't be able to get a date, so he says this to provide the phantasm that's by using determination. Having sex with everybody you meet is a mistake for such quite some causes. yet having sex with someone you're close to to and has the flair to be the thankfully ever after guy is a strong decision. sex is a extreme element of a satisfied marriage. If 2 human beings love one yet another yet have completely diverse sexual agendas, the relationship never works. So i imagine that's a mistake to marry every body whom you have not experienced sex with. It only doesn't make experience. and that i believe you. i don't think of this guy is using you. no matter if you do not finally end up together for ever, i don't think of it may be a mistake to have sex with him.
2016-11-23 17:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what u have said. U need to bag this guy quick he sounds great he has respect 4 u which is a very good quality. Ask him round for lunch or to the movies anywhere it don't involve drinking and see where things go with him.
Good Luck Girl I Hope U get Your MAN
2007-04-13 09:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything men like to pursue women men have the "hunter" in them they like a challenge the easier you make it for him the quicker he will loose interest dont be too available you have already given him enough signs to work on and maybe pushed him back abit as he is loosing interest in the challenge start now by making it a challenge for him play it cool pull away and he will make the moves quicker than you think - if he doesnt then he is not the one cos men dont let anything get in their way when they want something that way you will save yourself a lot of heartbreak if he isnt really interested . good luck, abbie x
2007-04-13 09:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by abbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you have to say anything to him, he's obviously keen too, but sounds like a good guy otherwise he'd have taken advantage of the situation last night. Best way to play it is just be yourself around him, don't become an outrageous flirt......and my guess is he'll make a move. Good luck flower.
2007-04-13 09:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not easy so i do feel sorry for you. but you need to talk to him about that night. call him up and suggest coffee and a chat. it sounds like you both like each other. I really hope this is the start of a exciting relationship. good luck and let me know what happen next please. all the best!!
2007-04-13 11:26:24 · answer #7 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have said i would say that he does like you as well. Just ask him and see what he says, if he's not interested yes you will feel a bit low but in a few weeks it will be forgotten about. If he says yes then you will be a happy lady. GOOD LUCK
2007-04-13 09:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by staffybull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating him. Ask him if he wants to go see a movie, or have dinner with you. Kiss him some more! He'll get the drift. ;- )
2007-04-13 09:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything. Ask him if he'd like to meet for coffee sometime or fly a kite.
2007-04-13 09:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋