Family & Relationships - 13 April 2007

Can you live without sex ?
let say you still love your spouse but no sex because of the medical reason.
would you rather still stay with your spouse for the rest of your life with zero sex?

for me sex is not the most important part of the marriage life but sex is "one" of the important in marriage.
however every person has defferent point view in marriage life.

2007-04-13 08:54:21 · 16 answers · asked by confusegirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-13 08:53:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 08:52:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

After working with a girl I'm attracted to for a number of months I've built up a good friendship within the workplace with her. She has a boyfriend but never mentions him, he was casually mentioned by someone else. She shows usual signs of attraction such as good eye contact, preening, teasing - i do this back, fidgets around me, particularly her legs and blushes frequently. I should mention that she is a lovely girl and is not outrageously flirting or leading me on. We usually go out for lunch as part of a group and she has mentioned to me about going out on an evening as a group.

I am leaving this job soon and wondered how I should leave it with her as it may be unlikely that I see her again. When I leave should I give her my number and let her know that I would like her to call me should her circumstances change in the future, or would she find it strange and see me as just a friend.

Thanks.

2007-04-13 08:52:23 · 13 answers · asked by shark 2 in Singles & Dating

how can I loose my virginity?

2007-04-13 08:51:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People do not like me generally, people do not like listening to me , people think i am self-obsessed, i am always wallowing in self-pity. I am good at getting blocked off by other people, i am really lazy and everything possible way and i can never get out of my own bad habits and cant stop comparing my self to other people.
Any suggestions in how to be a well-liked person.

2007-04-13 08:51:20 · 9 answers · asked by silly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it's a friday night and i am sad to say that i am at home and the only reason for me not going out is due to me being flat broke:(
what would you do if you had no cash and it's a Friday night!!!!!!

2007-04-13 08:50:25 · 25 answers · asked by moon 2 in Friends

I have been with my husband for 10yrs. now and we have been married for 5yrs. Just until about a 1yr ago he was overweigt. He lost like 50-70 lbs. But anyways can that change you like the way that you act and feel!?!?! When he started making a difference he had told me that he wasn't in love w/me anymore, that he didn't feel the spark that he once had in our realationship. Now a yr later he tells me that he loves me (but not as much as he did before). I still tink at times that he is just w/me b/c of our kids. I think that he has a thing for a girl that he works with. It just seems funny that she knows everything about me. So I know that they spend allot of time together. But I think thats where I'm confused. I don't know if he is messing around w/her(b/c her & her husband are having problems too) or what. He used to call me everyday from work and he doesn't that much anymore!! I just sit and think the worst. I never thought that this would be happening to me!! I need some advice!!

2007-04-13 08:50:09 · 31 answers · asked by ~kRISTEN~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how did you know?

2007-04-13 08:48:52 · 28 answers · asked by Lucy Lou 4 in Singles & Dating

Im sooo in love with my close friend and he loves me but does not want a relationship at this time because of all the ceremonies he is going through with his spiritual religion. he will be doing this for one more year. i cannot no longer wait for him. my heart hurts to much. how do i move on. do i stop talking to him. or do i still keep him as a friend. please help. im not a teenager. i'm thirty and so is he...i never thought i would be going through this again at this age.

2007-04-13 08:48:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its been a month that I have been feeling really sad and even though I have a lot of hope deep down inside I have lost it on the surface. I am acting like a drama queen to get attention from my boyfriend and by doing that I am making him fall out of love with me. i love spending time with him and his family and we have fun but sometimes I feel like I have lost my identity and I am his girlfriend not me, I feel like I am living in his world and I don’t have my own life. It is my own fault for feeling thins way because I never see my friends because I am spending so much time with him. I need to find my own life again, but how? I am scared of being alone and doing stuff with strangers that used to be my friends. help

2007-04-13 08:47:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He doesn't know whether or not we should break up or stay together. I really like him and I may even love him. what should I do?

2007-04-13 08:45:54 · 4 answers · asked by lady Sin 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies,

I am brother can do everything to a lady to make her happy. I can romance her, be her friend, or give her the lovin she needs. The last girl I was with was let's just say pyscho. I go with the flo and if there's something I'm missing let me know

2007-04-13 08:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok you are freinds with them confused about your feelings you havent seen them in a week.Really you like them for more but dont know how they feel.When you see them in a social situation do you go up like normal and say hi buddy and act like what happened didnt or do you make them come to you.I dont want to drag it out too much.I just want to play it cool.

2007-04-13 08:44:25 · 10 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Singles & Dating

is it rape if you don't say no to the person, you want it to happen

2007-04-13 08:43:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Answer either yes or no with your reason why...Thanks! :)

2007-04-13 08:43:34 · 6 answers · asked by Kaelyn Lee 1 in Singles & Dating

I met basically the man of my dreams.. so respectful, he tried to treat me like a queen. but i was so messed up from my past relationship i didn't feel like i deserved love. i did everything possible to push him away and when he dumped me, that's when all the sudden i wanted him... i went crazy with the texts messages, even reached out to his friends to help us get back together.. he has zero respect for me now. ... now that it's dawning on me what was wrong, i'd like to reach out to him, but i know he won't even take my calls... i know where he hangs out, should i try to "accidentally" show up so we can talk. i know he might reject me again but i want another chance or at least to make it right with him...

2007-04-13 08:41:58 · 21 answers · asked by noway 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 6 years lied about talking to a girl that is married. They have gone to lunch together, but never alone. He works with my mom and my sister. The only place he goes is to work and home. My mom tells me he is always with her at work, they don't have time to cheat at work, so obviously he's not cheating...right?? I got with him when I was 15 and we have 2 kids together.I really don't want to be cheated on. He tells me he loves me and only me, but he thinks we got together too young. He told me he was starting to like this girl, then he changed it to he was jealous of her and her husbands relationship. I don't know if this makes any sense, but do I just sound parinoid? I told him to stop talking to this girl to make me feel better and he has. I don't think he cheating b/c we have a great sex life...but what should I do about being jealous of him being extra nice to girls. He says all guys are like that. Are they??

2007-04-13 08:41:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im one of them, and i dont kno if i wanna break it, cuz i heard it hurts...so can you guys help me/?
>>>>>>>Please people, no speeches about pre-marital sex, thanx<<<<<<<<<<<

2007-04-13 08:40:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

-how much do I have to wait!?
-all my friends have bf!
-am I so ugly???

2007-04-13 08:40:25 · 42 answers · asked by lonely_Mel 1 in Singles & Dating

So I'm very protective of myself and who I date. I guess for the last couple of days I've been asking my boyfriend questions that might of gave him the idea that I didn't want to be in a relationship with him. So yesterday I get a text from him saying that he thinks that I don't want to be in a relationship with him and I didn't have enough courage to tell him so we might as well break it off. So I call him up and explain that I did want to be in a relationship with him and I'm just protective. So I asked him if he wanted to break up and he said no very quickly. I guess I believe him. But he's been acting differently since this happend. I know he was sick yesterday and today...but I don't know what to do. I really like this guy. Any suggestions??

2007-04-13 08:40:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi there, is it okay that my mom sneak on to my wallet? She has only one intention if she could find out any pictures of a man if i have a boyfriend or none. Eventhough this may give her an answer, is this still alright without me knowing? I'll just find out that she look over my wallet when she ask me about the man on the pic. Oh im at the right age but i wasnt that comfy to tell them that i have a boyfriend and i dont like to explain anything or argue....thanks a lot!

2007-04-13 08:39:40 · 3 answers · asked by cy928grace 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Could the point of recovery from a past hurt from a relationship be: yes you got burned, or maybe you swore it off because of career ambitions; or a combo of both. Could the point of return be: no matter how bad that was, it is far wrorse to stay single and lonely for the rest of my life. is that the point or relization to give in; to go back to having a woman in your life. i think its the breaking point that everyone meets after a long enough time from the burn.

2007-04-13 08:39:25 · 8 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Singles & Dating

Cause me and my friend burp really loud all the time and sometimes people just say, "Good one!" and other times people look at us like we're are the most disgusting things that walked on this planet!

2007-04-13 08:38:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-13 08:38:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 08:38:14 · 14 answers · asked by lilbamagrl_0334 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 08:36:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-13 08:35:03 · 7 answers · asked by lcb 1 in Family

for males and females, who seperates love and sex better? do womens emotions get in the way, and they confuse sex with love?

2007-04-13 08:34:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 11 years now we have 5 beautiful kids, yeah I am not have the 17 year old body that he had when we first met, but I have had 5 kids I know that is not an excuss for me to over weight, I am not really fat I am about 2 pants size differ. But he calls me names so bad it hurts so much I am almost at the point that I hate him and why am I with him, but I have 5 kids. Every name in the book that you could possibly call a women the man of my life has called me it. he asked why am I unsecure and no confindence I tell him it is because of him. I tell him all the time that I can not take the name calling but he does it anyway. He thinks that is something he can say that will make me listen to him when he gets mad. how can the man that I love and he is my husband call me such bad names. He tells me that he will not love me for me, he cares what I look like on the outside he will not love me fat, he tells me that if I ever look like a friend he will not do you know what.

2007-04-13 08:32:48 · 23 answers · asked by Kimberly5 2 in Marriage & Divorce