Ok you are freinds with them confused about your feelings you havent seen them in a week.Really you like them for more but dont know how they feel.When you see them in a social situation do you go up like normal and say hi buddy and act like what happened didnt or do you make them come to you.I dont want to drag it out too much.I just want to play it cool.
2007-04-13 08:44:25 · 10 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really are "friends with benefits" then the relationship has already been spelled out...if you are two friends who happend to have sex, and now aren't sure where things stand, that's not "friends with benefits".
If you're old enough to have responsible sex, then be mature enough to handle the situation like an adult. That person is no different than they were prior to you having sex with them...so behave as you always have until you have some signal that tells you they feel something has changed (emotionally) as well.
2007-04-13 08:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to play it cool, then stop over thinking the situation. It sounds like you really like this guy, and if all you are is friends with benefits, watch out b/c you could get hurt. Don't expect it to change - b/c trust me, I'm sure he's not thinking about becoming your boyfriend - he's just enjoying the ride. Don't think about feelings, just act normal. It's your little secret, and if you act different around him people DO pick up on it. Trust me! If you can't handle it, get out of the kitchen now b4 you get hurt.
2007-04-13 15:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that your best bet is to let them come to you! You really don't want to make yourself too available. If they don't come to you, then before the end of the night I would go up to them and find out that is going on! It can be weird at first but after you talk you will probably be fine! Good Luck!
2007-04-13 15:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by S. B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the whole problem with the FwB situation - someone always gets feelings. Look, you have to get it off your chest. Talk to him in private about it - see what he says. Don't be serious, just bring it up lightly. If he brushes it off - you know your answer.
2007-04-13 15:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Big Super 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
play it cool. a confrontation might make him feel that he has to choose at that moment and the rush could make him do the wrong thing
2007-04-13 16:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like you normally do...don't freak them out
2007-04-13 15:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always let them come to you. Don't make yourself available to him all the time either. That'll get his attention : ) Good luck!
2007-04-13 15:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Grapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your asking these questions then they obviosly decided to play it cool. true love won't be stopped by whether or not you came to them or they came to you. and if your a girl, he should come to you, like prince saving princess.
2007-04-13 15:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, his reactions will tell you whether to pursue it or move on.
2007-04-13 15:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jeffrey P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feelings happen, and you knew it was possible... he wont feel the same, all you are there for is JUST sex to him
2007-04-13 15:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋